u/yakr16

I've tried looking this up, chat gpting and also talking to my lawyer. I keep getting mixed messages and I just need someone who has been through this to tell me. The situation is this--i'll use rough numbers- We were married for 6 years and had 2 kids. She was, is and always will be the higher earner because she is in corporate america while i am in non-profit. this year alone, our income disparity is such that she will make 7X my annual base because of her bonus/comission pay out. Right now, she is paying expenses, but also dragging out the separation, filing motions and spending a shit ton on lawyers and motions while also crying poverty because she is paying expenses.

My questions are this..on paper her salary is only 1X more than mine, but as i have stated, most if not all her money is coming from bonus/comissions which are on track this year to be 7X than my entire salary. But my lawyer is telling me that child support is calculated only on the base salary (which is 1X more than mine) and custody..of which we are at 50/50. He says that combined we are above threshold for the current worksheet and that the judge would have to make a decision on child support, but basically i will get nothing for child support. GPT tells me that I can get base child support and that the judge can give more to maintain an equitable living standard for the kids. I hate my lawyer and I wish i could switch, but in too deep and this has dragged out so long that i can't afford now to go find someone new and start over again.

i am so done and I wish I could just say FU to the money and walk away, but I can't raise my two kids with what i make and longer term, once I am out of this, i will need to pay back my debt for all the lawyers and focus on getting an additional job to make it in NJ. Any info would be appreciated! I'm also open to just discussing by DM.

Can someone explain the last scene of episode 10

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