"Mommy play with me" is going to drive me crazy
Hello everyone. I have a daughter. She would play with me but also was very independent and would play alone a lot. I could do things around the house and get back to spending time watching and playing with her. For example I could do dishes and she would play in the water next to me. I could fold laundy in her room and she would play in the room. As she gets closer to 3 she has become way more demanding. Granted she also gained a brother 6 months ago. He is clingy but for a long time she didnt care, I would still play with her and she didnt mind playing while I had her brother.
About a week or two ago she has decided she needs entertained by me or her dad constantly. She no longer wants to play on her own. So all we hear is play with me, play with me. I do want to say she is not neglected or ignored, we spend hours with no phone time playing with her and doing things together. She gets about 2 hours devoted time to her and her only with both parents and individual time daily. She is even demanding us to play with her while we are playing with her! She would understand that we have other things we need to do first and she would be ok to go play alone until we were free. Now she just sits wherever I am and demands us to play while we are doing other things.
I love her, I love spending time with her but I am trying to do other things and Im getting very burnt out on her needing live entertainment 24/7. Is this a phase? What can I do because giving everything I can is still not enough for her.