



This is from the 1967 Family Home Evening manual, page 307.
Not only does this imply the father is unfit to parent and needs to stay with the good, TBM mother, but if the child does decide to go live with the father, it’s all her fault. She should have Mormoned harder and had FHE more faithfully. As an exmormon parent with a TBM exwife, this really irritates me.
Tallahassee has 8 stakes in its district, covering portions of 3 different states:
North Florida
Fort Walton Beach Florida Stake
Lake City Florida Stake
Panama City Florida Stake
Pensacola Florida Stake
Tallahassee Florida Stake
Southern Georgia
Kingsland Georgia Stake
Tifton Georgia Stake
Southeast Alabama
Dothan Alabama Stake
It’s about a 2.5 hour drive from Jacksonville to Tallahassee. Jacksonville just broke ground on a temple in January. I wonder if they’ll be picking up some stakes that are currently serving Tallahassee. Lake City and Kingsland look like solid candidates.
Jacksonville is currently in the Orlando temple district. They have 22 stakes and it’s a 2hr20m drive from Jacksonville.
Here's an update on the ward growth & shrivel around the world. The US is winning the shrivel competition with -41 wards! Brazil -8, Taiwan -5 and the UK -4 are putting in a good show. Unfortunately, huge growth continues in the DRC 28, Nigeria 22, and the Philippines 24, to lead the world to a +99 net ward gain.
Oops, forgot to mention the source! My thanks goes out to the Deseret Demographer on fullerconsideration.com for all his work gathering the raw data.
| Country | Wards Opened | Wards Closed | Branches to Wards | Wards to Branches | Country Total |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Albania | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| American_Samoa | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Angola | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Argentina | 0 | 0 | 9 | 0 | 9 |
| Australia | 1 | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Belarus | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Belgium | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 |
| Benin | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Bolivia | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Botswana | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Brazil | 1 | 16 | 7 | 0 | -8 |
| Cambodia | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Cameroon | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Canada | 1 | 1 | 2 | 0 | 2 |
| Cape_Verde | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Chile | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| Colombia | 0 | 2 | 2 | 0 | 0 |
| Costa_Rica | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Cote_D_ivoire | 0 | 0 | 6 | 0 | 6 |
| Democratic_Republic_Of_Congo | 21 | 0 | 7 | 0 | 28 |
| Dominican_Republic | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| Ecuador | 1 | 3 | 2 | 0 | 0 |
| El_Salvador | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Fiji | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| France | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| French_Polynesia | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Germany | 0 | 1 | 0 | 0 | -1 |
| Ghana | 2 | 0 | 9 | 1 | 10 |
| Guatemala | 0 | 0 | 5 | 0 | 5 |
| Haiti | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Honduras | 1 | 1 | 10 | 0 | 10 |
| Hong_Kong | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Ireland | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Italy | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Japan | 0 | 2 | 0 | 0 | -2 |
| Kenya | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| Kiribati | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Liberia | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Luxembourg | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Madagascar | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Malawi | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Malta | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| Mexico | 1 | 1 | 2 | 1 | 1 |
| Mozambique | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| Netherlands | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| New_Zealand | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| Nigeria | 4 | 0 | 18 | 0 | 22 |
| Norway | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Panama | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Papua_New_Guinea | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Paraguay | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Peru | 2 | 2 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Philippines | 10 | 0 | 14 | 0 | 24 |
| Portugal | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| Republic_Of_Congo | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 |
| Russia | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Samoa | 0 | 0 | 3 | 0 | 3 |
| Sierra_Leone | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| South_Africa | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| Spain | 2 | 1 | 2 | 0 | 3 |
| Sweden | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 | -1 |
| Taiwan | 0 | 5 | 0 | 0 | -5 |
| Tanzania | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Togo | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Tonga | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| Uganda | 6 | 0 | 2 | 0 | 8 |
| Ukraine | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| United_Kingdom | 0 | 4 | 0 | 0 | -4 |
| United_States | 55 | 110 | 16 | 2 | -41 |
| Uruguay | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Vanuatu | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Venezuela | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Zambia | 0 | 0 | 4 | 0 | 4 |
| Zimbabwe | 2 | 0 | 5 | 0 | 7 |
| Total | 118 | 150 | 136 | 5 | 99 |
Here are the raw numbers of shrivel in the US so far in 2026. Utah is still getting hammered, Idaho continues to grow by making wards smaller. For example, between 2023-2025, Idaho grew by 111 wards while only gaining 6,787 members on the rolls. They added a new ward for every 60 new people, but you need a minimum of 250 members on the rolls to add a new ward.
With the US down a net 41 wards so far this year, this looks like unprecedented shrivel happening. Of course, if you look only at the stake level, you'll see great growth. We've closed 10 stakes (all in Utah) but opened 16 stakes! See? the church is growing!
Oops, forgot to mention the source! My thanks goes out to the Deseret Demographer on fullerconsideration.com for all his work gathering the raw data.
| States | Wards Opened | Wards Closed | Branches to Wards | Wards to Branches | State Total |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Alabama | 1 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 2 |
| Alaska | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Arizona | 4 | 7 | 0 | 0 | -3 |
| Arkansas | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| California | 0 | 5 | 1 | 0 | -4 |
| Colorado | 0 | 2 | 0 | 0 | -2 |
| Connecticut | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Delaware | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| District of Columbia | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| Florida | 2 | 1 | 2 | 0 | 4 |
| Georgia | 0 | 0 | 2 | 0 | 2 |
| Hawaii | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Idaho | 11 | 1 | 2 | 0 | 12 |
| Illinois | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Indiana | 0 | 1 | 0 | 0 | -1 |
| Iowa | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| Kansas | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Kentucky | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Louisiana | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Maine | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Maryland | 0 | 1 | 1 | 0 | 0 |
| Massachusetts | 0 | 1 | 0 | 0 | -1 |
| Michigan | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Minnesota | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Mississippi | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Missouri | 2 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 2 |
| Montana | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Nebraska | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Nevada | 3 | 5 | 1 | 0 | -1 |
| New_Hampshire | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| New_Jersey | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| New_Mexico | 0 | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| New_York | 0 | 0 | 1 | 0 | 1 |
| North_Carolina | 0 | 0 | 1 | 1 | 0 |
| North_Dakota | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Ohio | 0 | 2 | 0 | 0 | -2 |
| Oklahoma | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Oregon | 0 | 2 | 0 | 0 | -2 |
| Pennsylvania | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 |
| Rhode_Island | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| South_Carolina | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 |
| South_Dakota | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 |
| Tennessee | 1 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 1 |
| Texas | 4 | 5 | 1 | 0 | 0 |
| Utah | 23 | 68 | 1 | 1 | -45 |
| Vermont | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Virginia | 0 | 4 | 0 | 0 | -4 |
| Washington | 1 | 4 | 0 | 0 | -3 |
| West_Virginia | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Wisconsin | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Wyoming | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 | 0 |
| Total | 55 | 110 | 16 | 2 | -41 |
I really hope the church builds all the temples they've announced. They'll be the albatrosses that drag the church membership down. Star Valley, WY has a small temple. I listened to a talk by one of the temple leaders (maybe a presidency member?) a couple years ago and he said it took over 400 volunteers to keep that temple running every year.
Right now, that temple is fed by 5 stakes. But this fall, the Montpelier, ID temple opens. Montpelier will get 3 stakes from Star Valley (both Montpelier stakes and a WY stake), Soda Springs, ID (from the Pocatello temple) and Paris, ID (from the Logan temple). That leaves Star Valley with 2 stakes to supply all 400 volunteers and patrons. It's not going to bode well for them. I'm just glad I'm not being asked all the time to clean the temple, be a temple worker, and attend the temple regularly there in an attempt to keep it running. The US lost gross members last year for probably the first time in history. If they lost members of record, the number of attending members had to be huge.
To get a feel for how the temple service load is going to be distributed, there are 99 operating temples in the United States, with 59 under renovation, announced, under construction or almost ready to open. With 12,821 wards in the US, we currently have 129.5 wards per temple. (about 17 stakes). If they build all 59 of those temples and the number of wards remains the same, we'll have 81.1 wards per temple (about 11 stakes). There are 27 temples under construction, renovation or about to be opened, so they're committed to doing at least these. That leaves them 101.7 wards per temple (about 14 stakes). Note that the large temples require a lot more people to maintain. The West Jordan temple hosts 45 stakes, Salt Lake hosts 40, Mount Timpanogos hosts 34. The large temples tend to need 20-30 stakes to operate.
From 2022-2025, the US grew by 54 wards, largely fueled by smaller ward size requirements. For instance, Idaho gained 6,787 members on the rolls during those 3 years, yet grew by 113 wards, meaning they got a new ward for every 60 new members, when every ward needs a minimum of 250 members on the rolls. We're halfway through 2026 now and the US has lost a net 41 wards! We're well on our way to erasing the gains over the past 3 years in one year. So, the church will be lucky if they can keep the current number of wards over the next 10 years.
Here's a sample of Utah temples and a few large temples around the US:
Taylorsville Temple - 30 stakes
Jordan River - 45 stakes
Oquirrh Mountain - 30 stakes
Mount Timpanogos - 34 stakes
Draper - 19 stakes
Bountiful - 28 stakes
Salt Lake - 40 stakes
Provo City - 31 stakes
Lindon - 17 stakes
Portland - 24 stakes
Seattle - 31
Washington DC - 24 stakes
32 of all US temples are in Utah
I came across this 1931 version of the temple endowment covenants a couple years ago, and all this time I just thought they were naive for allowing the homosexual loophole:
LAW OF CHASTITY FOR MEN
"You and each of you do covenant and promise that you will not have sexual intercourse with any of the opposite sex except your lawful wife or wives who are given you by the holy priesthood."
"All bow your heads and say yes."
LAW FOR WOMEN
"You and each of you do covenant and promise that you will not have sexual intercourse with any of the opposite sex save your lawful husband, given you by the holy priesthood."
"All bow your heads and say yes."
But with all the talk about the William Clayton journals, I remembered this entry from Aug 24, 1843, where Clayton asked his mother in law if it was ok to have a threesome with her two daughters that he was married to:
"At night I asked mother if M might sleep with Ruth & me she appeared very rebellious & would not consent but said we might do as we had a mind."
And when I read the "except your lawful wife or wives" I remembered that this covenant was made during the time of polygamy. I wonder if this phrasing was selected specifically to allow polygamous husbands to have three(+)somes with his wives!
I came across this 1931 version of the temple endowment covenants a couple years ago, and all this time I just thought they were naive for allowing the homosexual loophole:
LAW OF CHASTITY FOR MEN
"You and each of you do covenant and promise that you will not have sexual intercourse with any of the opposite sex except your lawful wife or wives who are given you by the holy priesthood."
"All bow your heads and say yes."
LAW FOR WOMEN
"You and each of you do covenant and promise that you will not have sexual intercourse with any of the opposite sex save your lawful husband, given you by the holy priesthood."
"All bow your heads and say yes."
But with all the talk about the William Clayton journals, I remembered this entry from Aug 24, 1843, where Clayton asked his mother in law if it was ok to have a threesome with her two daughters that he was married to:
"At night I asked mother if M might sleep with Ruth & me she appeared very rebellious & would not consent but said we might do as we had a mind."
And when I read the "except your lawful wife or wives" I remembered that this covenant was made during the time of polygamy. I wonder if this phrasing was selected specifically to allow polygamous husbands to have three(+)somes with his wives!
Getting back to his roots, NewNameNoah talks with missionaries and gets the cops called on him for recording from the sidewalk outside a church, all while bringing awareness about the latest SA scandal. Granted, the term "latest SA scandal" is pretty vague. There are so many in the news right now that you need to be way more specific.
In various mormon related groups I participate in, I’ve frequently come across members defending the church’s position on not reporting abuse because that should be the victim or family’s responsibility. If they’re not going to report it, why should the church?
In this case in Washington, the bishop convinced the mother not to report her husband for CSA of her daughter. The church’s response? That it’s their constitutionally protected right to give bad advice, that there are no clergy malpractice laws.
When I was a member, I was taught that taking responsibility for my actions and doing whatever I could to pay for harm I caused were key parts of the repentance process. But the church doesn’t believe in following those principles itself. In Jesus’ ministry, he frequently chastised the Pharisees for being hypocrites for teaching one thing and doing another. This type of behavior is what effectively drove me out of the church, when I saw very clearly that the actions of the church and its leaders didn’t align with the teachings of Jesus.
In a separate case that is also in the news, Wade Christofferson, brother of first presidency member D Todd Christofferson, was arrested last fall for recently abusing his grandchildren. He had abused girls in Illinois back in the 90s when he was in the bishopric. Eventually enough victims reported the abuse to church leaders that he was excommunicated for it. However he was rebaptized a short time after (as a rule, there’s a 1 year waiting period), and normally there’s a notation on the membership record that he did something bad and wasn’t eligible for important callings. This notation was removed, a process requiring approval from the first presidency.
After that, he moved to Ohio, close to where I lived. He served in 3 different bishoprics and had other prestigious callings, which of course, lets family know that he’s a worthy man of God and that he can be trusted. Until he abused again.
Again, discussing this case with believing Mormons in these forums, they insisted that there was nothing the church could’ve done to prevent the continued abuse, that if the victims didn’t report it to authorities, the church had no responsibility to report it either.
While the church excommunicated Wade, they kept the details of this secret. No one was ever warned what happened. A rumor spread that it was due to an affair he had with someone at work, and this rumor was allowed to go unchallenged because it was better than the truth. What the church should have done was to announce it to everyone in his congregation so people could take precautions to protect their children. That notice should follow him to every new congregation he might go to. He might leave the church though because it would no longer be a safe space for him as an abuser, which is why they should also report it to legal authorities. He could be out on a registered offender list, have parole officers keep tabs on him, etc…
As a missionary, I couldn’t baptize people on probation, or pending serious legal charges. They needed to finish paying their debt to society in order to be baptized. So why does a known abuser who completely dodges this important aspect of the repentance process not only qualify for rebaptism, but also high leadership positions? Why is protecting abusers so high on the church’s list of priorities and not the kids being abused?
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“The amended lawsuit alleges that Washington Stake President Wade Pickett not only failed to report the abuse, but actively “discouraged” the victim’s mother from going to civil authorities.
How does the LDS Church justify a religious leader allegedly advising a mother to keep quiet about child sex abuse?
The LDS Church’s brief characterizes Pickett’s alleged actions as mere “bad advice,” arguing that “bad advice is not actionable and does not create ‘a new risk of harm’”
The attorneys go a step further, arguing that evaluating a clergyman’s advice would violate the First Amendment. Because other courts have rejected “clergy malpractice” claims, the LDS Church essentially argues that its clergy have a constitutionally protected right to tell a parent not to report the rape of their child."
https://www.olympicherald.com/p/lds-church-claims-no-legal-duty-in