
u/yum_banana

Do any other transmen hate this?
Ever since I started my transition, women seem to just hate me?
I can barely even ask a question or say that someone is wrong without being told to shut up because I’m a man
I know that this is probably the most nothingburger issue ever and I made my bed so I guess I should lay in it, but it really hurts when people I have shared the same experiences with just treat me horribly
I’ve experienced constant gender dysphoria since about 2016, identified as agender throughout 2021, then later came out/realised I was trans around February 2022.
But since late 2024, I‘ve felt like I shouldn‘t be trans, or maybe that I fall under the nonbinary umbrella? I LOVE being trans and it is 100% a part of who I am but I seriously have my doubts.
I see so many people detransitioning and turning to shame trans people. It makes me feel confused and bad about myself in a way. I want to be a pretty girl so bad, be a mother, be someone’s daughter, but that’s just not me at all.
Maybe I’m just scared of letting people down and not being accepted.