Tonight was the truth about the tooth fairy (etc)... "There's no magic anymore" 😢
I don't know why, but I didn't really plan for this, and it took me off guard emotionally. My 8 year old interrogated me at bedtime about whether the tooth fairy was real, or whether it was just us - saying that she heard it was just parents. She said she could handle it and just wanted to know the truth. I told her that yes, mom and I pretend to be the tooth fairy, because it makes thing fun.
Well, within 5 minutes, she figured out all the rest. No leprechauns (this was a surprisingly dear one to her), no Easter Bunny, and no Santa. What followed was about half an hour straight of sobbing. The things she said just hit me harder than I thought they would. Stuff like...
"There's no magic anymore, daddy. That's why I'm sad."
"Why didn't you tell me when I was younger? I would have cried even more, but now that I'm older, my tears are different."
"I wish I didn't ask you."
"Why do parents lie to their kids?"
"Now there's nothing special in the world."
As she finally calmed down, and as we continued to talk, she did seem to take some joy in the fact that she is now in a special club of people who know. I'm sure part of her is still sad, but also a bit excited that she can participate now in making magic for her little brother (4).
Anyway for those who passed this point with your kid(s), how'd it go?