u/zzyyyxxx

Plsss, if you have him in boxes, please invite me over. I really want to invite Zucker to my island!!

Plsss, if you have him in boxes, please invite me over. I really want to invite Zucker to my island!!

Let me know!! I’ve been running through tens of nook miles tickets looking for him. :)

I am shocked. He lived alone in a 3 bedroom apartment and I am helping him declutter then (hopefully) start to pack today. Once we got started on everything I am floored with the amount of stuff that is tucked away everywhere in these 3 rooms plus the kitchen and living room.

It is driving me nuts for two reasons: how does one person accumulate all this stuff and how do they not KNOW they have accumulated all this stuff.

I’m talking 10+ vaccuums, chords, old instruments, loads of empty storage bins, many mirrors, dozens of pillows, a dresser full of stuff that should belong in the “junk drawer”, duplicates upon duplicates of kitchen appliances, random sports gear, bins of obsolete technology equipment, a frame AND canvas for every wall in the place…. and more.

I love him, this isn’t just to speak poorly of him. I just need to vent because we have been going at this all day and unfortunately the place is looking LESS cleaned than when we started due to all this stuff he’s had stowed away.

All of this just stressed me out but at the same time makes me feel sorry for my fiance. I wonder what underlying issue causes someone to hoard away this much stuff.

To start, I know I need to communicate my feelings, needs, and emotions/thoughts with my partner. However…

We are a long distance couple that regularly visits each other (mostly monthly sometimes more frequently).

The past couple of sexual encounters we have had, he has had an intense, seemingly uncontrollable sexual drive. It is hard to explain because it is all about vibes, but a good example is that he started prolonging his orgasm on purpose and constantly changing positions f

, which essentially leaves me sore and burning after sex due to the rapid change in position and inconsistent in/out motions. Another thing that has recently happened is that he started some new things like sucking my feet which to me just tickles. I don’t hate it, but it does nothing for me.

Overall, I enjoy having sex with him, but when he gets overly-excited, it is simply way too much for me. I have made the choice to be deliberate with my communication here because we are engaged and I obviously love him much. I just know that this conversation should not be just on a whim. I need some help formulating what I could say and focus on and ways how.

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