r/1000lbsisters

Why in the world would Andrea book an therapist visit if she ain't gonna talk about her true feelings towards tammy being around her 24/7... Don't even GO. And tammy shutting down as soon as Andrea askes questions during the car ride is getting on my last dang nerve!! I understand Andrea doesn't want to hurt Tammy's feelings but she is a grown a** woman, And it's obvious Tammy don't like going to therapists cuz she scared they're gonna call her out on her controlling behavior..... I am so done with the both of them!!

The crying. Good Lord the crying. It's like she's got a million things just boiling, ready to explode. It's equal parts sad and maddening. I am not a psychiatrist, but it just seems like ANYTHING causes those tears. She didn't seem to be like this before. She seemed to be a lot happier before.

Now that she’s mobile, would Tammy still qualify for disability when the show ends or would she be required to work some kind of a job? I know her body is still damaged and doesn’t have a car or drive. Just a random thought.

Yes, he is doing better and has more sense than Amy and tammy, but his god complex and feeling the need to be the one in the right is annoying.

(My dislike for him been here for a while now, but fans seem to like him a lot), but especially after learning about him setting up 8 year old Amy up with 13 year old Michael and locking them up in a basement , it made me not like him even more, this whole family is messed up and who knows who taught young Chris that a teen boy dating a 8 year old was acceptable ( I'm assuming Chris was a child too) but I have a bias when it comes to country people, lol like they all lack morals in particular against grooming.

The way he treats his wife sometimes is horrible, too. He gives off mean vibes when he treats his wife in a questionable way.

Now, I'm not saying he is horrible, but just that he has flaws just like his sisters and kinda are just like them.

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Amy always feels compelled to seize any opportunity to point out that she is "independent" of her siblings saying things like "I’m not going to use the same surgeon as my siblings" or "I don't need my siblings after the surgery, just my husband." Amy always wants to show that she has her own family that she wants to prioritize and her own ambitions, yet she still seeks to include her siblings whenever SHE decides to do so (her older siblings were kinda mean though regarding the clip though)

I also found the clip from the upcoming episode mean-spirited; she says she's sure Tammy will pick her as a witness because she doesn't talk to anyone else...she seems to have a superiority complex regarding Tammy

And Andrea seems to have a need to constantly play the victim and badmouth Tammy behind her back; it’s as if she loves playing the martyr. Also, I didn't quite understand why she claimed to have no family last season, yet this season she talks about introducing Tammy to her family.

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If anything? I feel like Tammy and Andrea just made things more odd. I felt really uncomfortable watching that video and I know we don't know for sure what's going on? We only know what's on the screen? It was really fucking weird.

Tammy pulling Andrea's arm over going "Look, look! Do you see any bruises? There'd be bruises if I was beating her" which is bullshit. Bruises easily can show up and be hidden in other places. So that made zero sense.

Andrea's nonstop rambling to try and justify everything was unsettling. A friend of mine who was being abused used to do that quite often. It'd be hard to get her to stop once she started over explaining everything.

I feel like too it's understandable why so many of us are unsure if there's abuse going on. Tammy has a history of being physical with her anger (Hence the doors being ripped off hinges when she first moved in with Andrea) Plus abusive relationships aren't always physical. Tammy isolating Andrea to the point she has to be in the car when she's somewhere is a perfect example of abuse.

Idk. It just felt so uncomfortable imo and makes me even more worried for Andrea than before lmao

I'm on a rewatch and I think I'm in season 6 when Tammy is hanging out with a small group of lgbtq folks who seemed really great. She seemed to get so much out of that friendship group and seemed really happy. Does she still hang out with them? That would certainly help with the co-depency issues.