u/hardtruthsociety

What is said by pro kink people

And "It's legal " people.

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Never have a solid answer.

People are such a habit of treating women like children.

There's always some excuse for why a woman did something horrible.

Make rape fantasies.

" It's not her fault. She doesn't know better. Men make women do this.

Women raped boys.

" It's not that bad, ".

Or find a way to take the attention off of the child molester woman and put the attention on men who molest children.

Women hurt children.

" she wasn't right, mental, hormones.

If you didn't tell me who these excuses were made for.

I would think it's for children.

Of course, certain things cause women to harm, but that can also apply to men.

People's first thought of seeing a woman do bad is always to minimize it or say she's the victim.

At some point, people have to realize the bias they have against women who harm v.s men.

Even if it comes from viewing women's as weak or harmless no matter what they do.

Women are adults. They have a mind of their own.

It's not always a man's fault or mental issues.

This isn't a hate against women.

Just accountable needs to be had for women who harm.

This is honestly something that's been on my mind.

Some people will kinda dismiss abuse because it's not the exact abuse they went through themselves.

Like some people believe if someone wasn't sexual abuse in the exact same way as them...then what happened wasn't abuse or "that bad".

" As a victim of [insert], that's not abuse."

Sexual abuse doesn't have to be a certain sexual act.

In order to be sexual abuse.

It's like trauma Olympics.

When people say this, when the topic is about kinks or age gaps, fictional csam.

It literally makes me angry, lol.

Because you're dismissing concerns about a certain situation and giving it a pass basically.

And it's honestly such an excuse to let horrible things be justified.

I don't understand this...

Because what are you getting off to then?

If you like dominance and masculinity, why not go find something else that has that.

Why is rape even pedophilia something you have to get off to in order to get the feeling of dominance.

When you can find that in anything besides sexual abuse?.

If you like seeing someone forced to have sex, screaming, crying, and you get off to that... you like rape.

Same with pedophilia in kinks.

If someone looking like and acting like a child turns you on. You like pedophilia.

Because you can't say " I like the adult , not a child " because why can't you just have sex with the adult without having them look like a child?

Or if you just like child characteristics(naivety), why do the adults need to look and sound exactly like a little girl?

Why can't they show naivety without dressing like a child.

You're telling me that you will see a little girl who

Resembles exactly what you get off to and won't feel some attraction?

Dark romance, kinks that involve abuse , the number of justifications people have towards abuse/abusers.

"Separate the art from the artist.". Fictional csam

The way people are quick to indulge in cognitive dissonance or make a list of excuses for abuse.

Is a huge sign of the secret acceptance of sexual abuse.

If people were actually against abuse, it would show.

Society wouldn't have dark romance, abuse in porn

,pedophilia in porn if people actually cared.

" It's fictional."

" two consenting adults "..

"It's legal ".

People don't care.

Idk how people come to the conclusion that wanting movies like this removed is freedom of speech being taken away?.

Is abusing people freedom of speech or something.

Do these people think pedophilia is only normalized through the rape of children and no advocating?

Or are they okay with pedophilia being normalized, but raping children shouldn't because they want to appear like they care for children?

I made a post about how people were excusing a 19-year-old kissing a 15-year-old.

And people on the original post/website.

Said, "There's no sexual intentions behind the kiss."

But I don't believe that matters.

Certain actions involving children and adults or older children shouldn't be excused just because it was meant to be playful.

Tickling was playful when adults did it to children, but now we know that Tickling can be a sign or form of grooming

Getting the child's body used to being touched.

I believe there shouldn't be no excuses or expectations for inappropriate acts against children, whether or not the intentions are pure.

It shouldn't happen.

Because that excuse is something said by child molesters.

Let's stop harm from reaching children.

Grooming doesn't need to have a sexual intent to be grooming/ harmful.

I believe there's a lot of cognitive dissonance that goes on.

Because some of these people really don't believe what they're doing is wrong in any way and isn't being inappropriate with children .

Either they try to cope with what they're doing or dismiss it as bad all together.

Including the pedophiles that are in those communities.

They delude themselves into believing that they're not pedophiles or "bad ones.".

The communities as a whole is filled with people who have a clear understanding of what they're doing but have some moral superiority over the people they consider "bad pedophiles " or groomers.

Whether it's subconsciously or consciously.

These people's behavior,mindset, logic resembles pedophiles, child abusers of all kinds.

The answer is ....no.

When men hear about a boy getting raped by a woman.

They don't see " child gets raped", they see

"A man having sex with a woman."

Men don't view boys as children, but as miniature men.

They give boys the same sex drive a grown man will have.

Men veiw child sexual abuse towards girls as only wrong because girls are too "weak" to handle anything , in the eyes of men.

Men/boys are viewed as inherently better and stronger in every way.

So, a boy is on the same level or superior to the woman who abused him.

Since he is a male, he has inherent power over an adult woman.

So, there's no way a boy can be sexually abused by a woman. He's the one in control.

That's how men see boys.

Of course, there are men who understand that boys are children but can consent.

But this is about a particular group of men..

What do you think?.