u/hardtruthsociety

Yes, he is doing better and has more sense than Amy and tammy, but his god complex and feeling the need to be the one in the right is annoying.

(My dislike for him been here for a while now, but fans seem to like him a lot), but especially after learning about him setting up 8 year old Amy up with 13 year old Michael and locking them up in a basement , it made me not like him even more, this whole family is messed up and who knows who taught young Chris that a teen boy dating a 8 year old was acceptable ( I'm assuming Chris was a child too) but I have a bias when it comes to country people, lol like they all lack morals in particular against grooming.

The way he treats his wife sometimes is horrible, too. He gives off mean vibes when he treats his wife in a questionable way.

Now, I'm not saying he is horrible, but just that he has flaws just like his sisters and kinda are just like them.

Before i start, no, this isn't infantilization, this me pointing out the normalization/excuse of girls being seen in a sexual manner just because they're teenagers.

When they performed with small pants and a bra it was highly inappropriate, they were kids still. Just because they developed a mature body doesn't mean they should be treated like adult women.

There were men in the crowd, on YouTube, who got off to seeing teen girls showing their bodies off .

This whole " they were teenagers " excuse literally is what child molesters say to justify grooming and what people in general say to excuse adults going after teen girls.

A child's vulnerability or need for protection shouldn't stop just because they're going through puberty and have teen in their age. They're still very much at risk of abuse .. they're still developmental fragile to abuse.

A child doesn't need to have the body of a toddler in order for you to care about them being seen as a sex object or for them to be too young for inappropriate acts.

In particular pedophilia, you are behaving like a child and looking like one and acting out certain sexual acts while dressing up as a child.

You need to be called out.

I don't care if it helps you with trauma.

If what you're doing romanticize and normalizes pedophilia you're a horrible person.

The harm of others shouldn't be used as your comfort from trauma.

He talks about creepy men looking at the children online and trying to talk to them....but he does the same.

His behavior resembles the predators on " catch a predator."" The predators want the kids to message and talk to them....so idk what's going.

And wanting until the kids are 18 to get information from them....

This might sound bad, but I think Chris is putting on weight on purpose just so he doesn't get Brittany pregnant and can use him being overweight as an excuse again...

Because he is too old and probably doesn't want another child, he already has a grandchild he takes care of from time to time, I know Brittany wants a child but this is the consequences of an age gap, one is too old to have more children and doesn't want more and the other wants to starts having children..

It's sad for Brittany, tho .

Edit: Having children at 40 if you're healthy enough is fine, but idk about over 44.

This has been going across my mind for a few months, maybe.

And trying to find the difference in female predators.

Because there is a difference in intentions .

So, this is my thought or whatever.

When women go after teen boys or even young men.

They do so because they lack mental maturity (cognitive levels, emotional maturity).

You see it with their behavior. They act like teen girls.

They're trying to live out their teenhood.

They have the same maturity levels as these boys.

It puts them back in their childhood/teen years

With men, they go after teen girls because they like the immaturity and lack of experience teen girls have.

It puts them in a power position. .

I bet if there's a brain study done on men and women predators, the cognitive abilities, emotional immaturity will be different.

A comment a few months back helped me come to this conclusion.

I kept wondering why women like teen boys

Because I knew there was a difference.

But this doesn't excuse anything. These women are still horrible .

Something pro kink people say or people in general to deflect from the concerning, strange behaviors victims exhibit.

We can recognize the trauma victims of crimes go through without brushing off the behaviors of the victim.

In particular sexual abuse.

We know that victims get trauma and mental issues from abuse and sometimes defend their abuser because of trauma or not understanding the severity of their situation.

But I believe something people don't talk about is how some victims end up actually romanticizing, justifying abuse because they're are exactly like their abuser.

But they happened to end up in a trauma related situation, which probably fueled the deep desires to justify abuse.

They already were odd people.

Not every victim becomes a bad person or are into very disgusting kinks because of their traumatic circumstances.

They were always that way.

I thought that when I came across an adult who is still with their groomer and they defend their groomer and child molesters, I thought it was because of intense grooming and trauma, which most cases it is.

But there's this group of groomed children now as adults

who just believe what happened to them and others was perfectly okay.

Not because of trauma but because that's what they believe.

It's why sometimes the one who was groomed becomes the groomer..

When victims continue to justify or romanticize trauma, they should be held accountable.

Because there are more than 1 type of victim.

One who understands their abuse and gets help.

One who still isn't fully understanding their situation.

The one who romanticize their abuser and others

And the one who internalized their abuse.

Listening to victims sounds good until you understand that victims can normalize and play apart in their pain, trauma, and abuse of others.

Look at kinks, fictional csam.

It's a bunch of victims of Sexual abuse promoting pedophilia but listen to them when they're hurting children????.

Kinda like Jeffrey Dahmer

He probably would have been the same person if his mother didn't do drugs when she was pregnant or if he didn't hit his head as a kid.

It's not always because of trauma. Just weird people happened to up in trauma related situations, which fueled their desires for abuse.

I myself wanted to see all victims like that who defend their situations or are a bit odd..

"They have trauma,"

But now I believe sometimes it's trauma, and sometimes the victims are just weird people, and trauma can turn a person weird and never go back to normal

When someone is categorized as very traumatized

It causes people to excuse every single thing they do , even if they romanticize abuse which takes away from any concerns about a person's behavior, because they're seen as traumatized and you're seen as being insensitive or victim blaming if you call out any odd behavior.

Now, when it comes to abuse it literally changes the brain chemistry of people!, I'm not talking about every victim, because I understand how bad it can be and change, control a person but I'm talking about a certain group of victims.

But anyways, this is related to my last post, but I wanted to talk about it more and add some other points.

What is said by pro kink people

And "It's legal " people.

🤣🤣🤣

Never have a solid answer.

People are such a habit of treating women like children.

There's always some excuse for why a woman did something horrible.

Make rape fantasies.

" It's not her fault. She doesn't know better. Men make women do this.

Women raped boys.

" It's not that bad, ".

Or find a way to take the attention off of the child molester woman and put the attention on men who molest children.

Women hurt children.

" she wasn't right, mental, hormones.

If you didn't tell me who these excuses were made for.

I would think it's for children.

Of course, certain things cause women to harm, but that can also apply to men.

People's first thought of seeing a woman do bad is always to minimize it or say she's the victim.

At some point, people have to realize the bias they have against women who harm v.s men.

Even if it comes from viewing women's as weak or harmless no matter what they do.

Women are adults. They have a mind of their own.

It's not always a man's fault or mental issues.

This isn't a hate against women.

Just accountable needs to be had for women who harm.

This is honestly something that's been on my mind.

Some people will kinda dismiss abuse because it's not the exact abuse they went through themselves.

Like some people believe if someone wasn't sexual abuse in the exact same way as them...then what happened wasn't abuse or "that bad".

" As a victim of [insert], that's not abuse."

Sexual abuse doesn't have to be a certain sexual act.

In order to be sexual abuse.

It's like trauma Olympics.