r/antikinkkink

Every single time there’s a post against CSAM, there’s some dork saying “don’t call it p*rn, that implies consent!”

People are so worried about damaging the adult industry’s reputation that they will refuse to acknowledge that children who are stripped and humiliated on camera are being forced into child p*rnography.

You CANNOT tell me that CSAM isn’t “real p*rn.” That entire vile industry literally profits off the demand for content involving children.

You’re telling me that the money earned by adult sites from people who actively search for abuse videos has nothing to do with p*rn? When an actress comes out and states that the film she starred in was actually filmed against her will, do you think anyone involved rushes to take the movie down? The industry doesn’t give a single shit about consent.

Child protection experts warn that p*rnography consumption has created a new type of offender against children. Men who would have otherwise been considered psychologically normal develop addictions to it that are so severe that they seek content escalating in depravity. Eventually, they don’t even stop at children.

But apparently it’s impolite to mention that these men are specifically seeking out p*rn content of children.

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u/ciel_ayaz — 1 day ago

"My kink doesn't reflect me".

If you like dressing up as a baby or toddler to have sex

And want someone to dress up as a baby or toddler because that is what gets you off.

It most definitely does say a lot about you.

(Pedophile).

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u/hardtruthsociety — 1 day ago

"It's not physically hurting children ".

I think the people who say this are very similar and probably the same as law enforcement .

Who tells women who are in abusive relationships/situations

That they can't do anything about the man harassing her because..." he hasn't hurt you. "...(yet).

Waiting until someone is hurt to actually care about an issue.....shows how little you actually care 🙃.

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u/hardtruthsociety — 1 day ago

I know posting this stuff here don't spark any debate that's not already being discussed but I don't care. I despise these people and I want to feel less alone in doing so

u/anansi0 — 2 days ago

TW: Grooming and CSA mentions. Porn fanartist used the naked body of a teenager girl as a "reference" for his pornographic drawings. He also groomed and emotionally manipulated her.

People on the internet always spread the poor excuse of "It's just fiction, it doesn't reflect the artist nor the consumer", "it's just a drawing, it doesn't mean anything", when porn artists like this trace the REAL body of minors, with 100k of his followers consuming that, some of them are aware and others don't. Fictional porn, and porn in general, is not as ethical or "safe" as people make it out to be. Fiction cannot separated from reality when you are using a minor as reference, and considering she was a minor, it was illegal content.

It's interesting that in the last image, years before the victim called him out, he already had the fear of "being outed as a groomer"...This people know what they are doing.

The amount of porn, lolisho artists who use "real references" is simply horrible, worrying and disgusting. And it's real. That's one the many reasons why their art and their doujinshis are always so disgusting and gross to look at. You just can see they traced it from a child/teen body or a CSA material and it's horrible. No matter how much they want to deny reality: a real person drew that, and you just have to think about what kind of mentality, influences and material they have in mind.

^(Small note: I did not mentioned any background mostly because the victim has spoken about her experience in detail, and I don't want to "speak over" her statements. Also unrelated, but people making irrelevant comments will be blocked.)

u/AmbassadorFriendly71 — 4 days ago

an example of kink being an actual threat

https://x.com/ask_aubry/status/1589740607030763520

every time you need evidence as to why kink is damaging, you should bring up this case. the guy's name is Jacob Yerkes. the video went viral a while ago but its a great example of how bdsm/rape kink is actually dangerous for ALL women, and the idea that "women actually LIKE being hurt/chased/raped" is dangerous for ALL women and girls. its a video about a kinky man who was stalking and harassing an innocent woman, on top of that she was a lesbian and not even interested in him. this guy actually believed that he could "change" her and and that she actually "liked" it because "women have bdsm and rape fantasies". so he projected all of this onto an innocent uninvolved woman. that is an actual real threat to her life. thankfully the police actually took it serious for once and he was arrested, which is rare. even the police in the video said "no they don't" when he said "women actually like being chased". these ideas are actual threats to women everywhere and im tired of pretending they aren't. this guy was going to do something horrific to her. yet youll still see defenders saying "uhm statistically women ackshully like it!!"

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u/softfallingsnow — 3 days ago

"No real child is being depicted ".

Where do these people think fictional csam come from???

It comes from real children physical appearance.

Like, where else would the thought to make fictional csam come from?

It comes from children being raped ,then it's turned into animated depictions of the child being raped.

This has to be a high level of cognitive dissonance/ deep denial of being a pedophile.

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u/hardtruthsociety — 4 days ago

Stumbled upon a “BDSM creator” going full mask-off and advocating for “vanilla men” to strangle their girlfriends

Transcription of the video titled “When I see Vanilla dudes complain about their girlfriends attitude”: “‘Oh, well my girlfriend keeps giving me so much attitude and it makes me so stressed out.’ Your girlfriend wants some [gestures strangling] some jewelry, dog. Some of you dudes claim to want these fun, wild women who have a modicum of personality and then the second they start being a little bit of a brat you lose the plot. She wants you to punish her, man, she wants you to put her in her place. And the second you get in your head about it and start getting freaked out and think ‘Oh my god, she’s got an attitude now’ and back off, you’ve fucked up. Every time she gives you an attitude it’s an invitation to punish her. Half the time she doesn’t know what her attitude is about, but she wants to feel like she’s in a safe controlled environment where you can put your foot down and stop that shit from happening, and you get to have a little bit of fun in the process. Obviously this isn’t for issues she actually has with you but when that attitude comes out of nowhere, that five finger necklace is going to help you every time. I’m sorry man, you don’t get to have a woman who has a little bit of fire in her if you don’t have a little bit of fire in you. Shut that shit down and give her what she’s actually asking for.”

I reported him for inciting violence, hopefully that does something…

Edit: And he blocked me. 🤣 Y’all, please report this guy.

u/dovewingco — 6 days ago

Ppl think that kink=turn on when it doesn’t

And it completely changes what ppl hear when you say that you are antikink, kink to me means something that’s not naturally sexual turned sexual, or something that’s harmful/extreme, but kink is so normalized it’s completely changed its meaning to other ppl, same for the word “gooning” it’s completely lost its meaning that it once had, no one will understand what we are saying unless we have to spell it out for them now, and even if we do they will probably hold their same beliefs because that’s what’s expected of them and who wants to go against the grain right?

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u/Organic_Cranberry541 — 4 days ago

VA falsely accused of r*pe and ped*philia after cutting off with weird pros - same pros will send r*pe fics to minors later

A videogame voice actor got falsely accused of p*dophilia and rap* by proshippers after discontinuing all contact with them (they were fans writing pedofics on his fangroup, not caring about minors reading them). Ironically, same pros had created an anticreeps/predators account to 'help' the victims who were part of the group and stalking the VA, spamming the allegations to friends and game companies. Recently, they got exposed for threatening r*pe fics on antiship minors and falsely accusing antis of being real predators.
According to the site, authorities investigated and found no evidence of r*pe or grooming.

I want to believe victims, but since I was labeled as a pedo by the same people for defending a CSA victim, I think I will stay skeptical on this. Videogame communities are becoming too toxic and disruptive because of these people. I wish all pros were just people fighting censorship, not promoting abuse or harming people who are normal and want just to play a game.

u/Born-Ant-80 — 4 days ago

Patterns with the anime/gaming profiles.

People will anime profiles are usually the ones to defend incest and pedophilia.

And somehow say they're the ones who care about children.

Or anime lovers either hate children......so it makes sense to why they would defend "fictional " csam .

Anime attracts pedophiles , child predators, and children who are victims of pedophilia/child abuse.

Or people who were normal before finding the anime community.

Anime most definitely normalizes certain disgusting acts, and it causes its viewers to.

There is no doubt in my mind that Anime doesn't create pedophilic,incestuous urges in people.

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u/hardtruthsociety — 4 days ago

I'm so tired of being forced to accept disgusting kinks being sneaked into stuff accessible to minors just to not offend anyone

I posted a *barely disguised fetish* meme on a Sims sub about a modder who has been posting blatant disgusting kink content on the platforms Patreon and Curseforge and blending that amongst their normal SFW mods. It didn't seem to matter that these platforms are avaliable to literal children and the game is rated 12+/teen when they could have easily posted those things on an adult modding website. Letting alone the point that stuff like that just isn't healthy to begin with.

I wasn't calling for the deletion of or "censoring" the mod, just a satire post mocking the ridiculousness of the mods. I am a firm believer that if you post something weird in public that you need to acknowledge it can and will be mocked.

 

Every single comment was defending it and calling me a kinkshamer or *bullying people for their interests* and even telling me I must be into the kinks to post about it. You literally cannot even make a joke about this anymore, you MUST never "bully" these people. Merely pointing out someone's blatant fetish in a stupid and lighthearted way was a bannable offense that got me blocked by a mod.

Yet they say we are the easily offended ones with a victim mentality? No, I won't validate your kinks and we should have the freedom to ​​laugh at the absurdity of them.

The point was entirely missed, the fact was that someone was sneaking in blatant piss, shit and diaper fetish and tons of kink content on platforms accessible by children rather than hosting it on an adults only 18+ space. They refused to acknowledge there is a very clear difference between the two. These people actually want zero boundaries, zero warnings, zero shame for anything at all and I think we rly do be needing to bring back shame and cringe at these people. It might be controversial but I think in situations like these a lil *bullying* isn't so bad.

At the time I posted it I was tipsy after work and totally unbothered and just mocking the mods for the dumb degeneracy they were but now I'm sober I'm actually pretty dumbfounded at how stupid the "anything goes, don't shame anyone" hivemind is.

 

No kids shouldn't have to be exposed to your gross ass disgusting kink mods by the same creator when trying to download your fucking high school mod. I'm aware that there are much worse mods out there but you absolutely shouldn't be able to find them on sites minors can access.

 

This really gives the same energy as the kid's shows that feature blatant fetish content (the origins of that meme that flew over all their heads.​) but people dismiss it as "it's just kids shows!" but then the exact same people will say *don't kinkshame!* You can't have it both ways. Is it okay for minors or not? Because minors shouldn't be exposed to kink content and that shouldn't be contested. Porn culture has completely rotted people's brains. I actually think it's gone so far the other way that you're more likely to get shamed if you DON'T have kinks rather than do.

On the contrary, I found it interesting how the people who were attacking the post all acknowledged it was kink content, so then surely if that's the case it shouldn't be hosted on a normal website, especially Curseforge that's endorsed by EA? But they were too focused on getting furious and reporting satire.

They said "don't like, don't look" so like, does that logic not apply to seeing a *kinkshaming* meme you're offended by?

The fact that the previous antikink subreddit was removed is appauling and we have genuinely reached a point where you cannot criticise, even in jest, gross weird cringe kinks without being reported for hate speech and banned. For a community that calls the opposition authoritarian it's so ironic.

I just can't get my head around people's logic and that this is the hill they are willing to die on.

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u/Nice_Beat_1264 — 6 days ago