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Because since women are kinda the "good ones" compared to men, when women say certain very concerning things if feels worse, because aren't you supposed to be different?

I gotta away from believing women are the "good ones".

But sometimes I still fall into bias..

But this isn't to say women are worse, it's just like that when someone is deemed to be the better person and the turn out to be bad too, it's kinda a shocker.

This man and many men constantly expose themselves without realizing.

This man said that he makes sure the women he sleeps with aren't under 18,but that if a hot girl tells him she's an adult,he wouldn't investigate it, because he's only human.

To me,it sounds like he would sleep with someone he knows is too young but when he gets caught he will say " she lied" fully knowing he didn't care to find out.

I doubt many men actually care about accidentally sleeping with a child..

Sounds crazy but seems to be more true by the day.🤷‍♀️

I made a post about people using legality to justify dating late teens and here are some of the comments.

First picture is my post.

I made a post about a movie where it's about a high school girl sleeping with an older man.

She didn't tell him her age but he was at a college party with teenagers.

My whole post was about how this movies are made to justify or romanticize predators dynamics but they do it in a sneaky way, saying how the girl is 18 or turning 18.

I will make another Post showing the comments but here's one.

And the only nuance she was talking about is girls lying about their age.

Directions use teenagers (underage) to make csam but can get away with it because teenagers are seen as the acceptable children for adults to be with with.

Especially since kids become "adults" in their teen years.

As soon as a child has teen in their age or going through puberty society sees that as an invitation for adults to date them.

They wouldn't do this with a Middle Schooler because that would cause backlash.

Throughout the 80s,90s you might see a smaller child being put in movie with adult men but as years went by it caused backlash,so, they changed it but still kept it by using teenagers.

All movies like this do is normalize child sexual abuse and being prey on by adults.

It's made to be a fantasy for people who are attracted to children.

So,I been having a conversation with this man about an age gap.

Women who are 20 something and men in their 40s.

Now,I don't think this man is bad or anything.

I just think a lot of what he is saying is personal bias, since he dated older and his desire to not be a hypocrite.

He seems to understand how odd the pairing is but push back on " I was mature" or " the older person didn't have bad intentions '.

But I after 21 I don't care about an age gap, it's not child predator vibes but I still think 22 and 40 something is crazy.

I think he's knowledge of how odd the pairing is, was trying to get him to see how the relationship with him and the older woman wasn't okay either but he didn't want to seem hypocritical or " I was a victim " because men don't like to feel like they're not in control of what they wanted.

If he confronted those feelings of not talking to a woman so young, subconsciously he would be going against his own experience with a woman who was older than him.

" Was she weird for dating me?",

Idk, thought the conversation was somewhat interesting.

I noticed that when I come across these girls who are now women,they tend to act like children still, especially with the way that they talk or talk about being with older.

It's like they have the mind of a teen girl still.

After learning about how grooming affects cognitive abilities... that explains it all

Even in kinks , some these people deluded themselves so much to justify what they get off to, to the point of cognitive levels dropping or coming at a halt.

This also happens with child predators, molesters.

They use so much brain power to justify their actions

It causes their cognitive abilities to be stopped at a halt and where their way of living is all they know or understand.

I put a picture , it's about an age gap, and this woman who was probably groomed and stuck in the mind of the teen girl who was groomed.

There's more on her page about dating older since she was younger ( she's 24 now) and how she doesn't believe science when they say that the brain develops at 25 and how she developed before that, obviously she didn't and science doesn't say at 25 but a certain part of the brain develops around that time.

She was basically saying how she was mature for her age.

And for the man... disgusting and I hope the 18yr old girl who's now a woman is doing well.

Whoever This is needs to be watched.

I 100% believe that anime attracts pedophiles and creates attractions towards children, child like features.

Including incest, all forms of sexual abuse especially towards children.

Anime loves pedophilia.

It's never just fiction.

The predatory man,also defended his pedophile friend who was caught with csam.

And he is at a park around children, I don't trust him around children, I hope he gets put on some watchlist.

Child molesters should be dealt with before a child is abused.

If people learned more about child development,I believe they would be more hesitant to putting huge mental development onto children when they act out of the perception society has of them.

And lying, children getting mad at you and wanting you to be mad is something you should expect from a child more than an adult,since lying is a developmental milestone for children.

Ps,if a child behavior is becoming violent or concerning, getting a check up for that child will help them more than calling them evil or manipulative.

People in the comments were calling the woman horrible.

Caring about the child who was abused ,not the age or gender ..the child which is all that matters.

Because society treats boys who were abused by women very disgustingly.

(This doesn't take away from how horrible society treats girls who are victims too).

1, girls go through puberty, they will resemble their next stage of development, which includes physical maturity.

2, a child going through puberty is still a child, you're a child molester if you still decided to "date" them.

3, 17, or 18 if you're a grown adult above 21 dating teenagers, you're still disgusting. (Older teens like 19 is okay to date 21 yr olds).

4, if a 10yr old girl have boobies,this man and many other men will make excuses to be attracted to her and rape her.

5, pedophile isn't the correct word but if you go after a teen child, you're a child abuser and molester.

6. Being a child is more than just looks , it's inner development,which is brain and body (inner) development.

7, child molesters are the most comfortable horrible people nowadays....thanks to trump.