u/The-Devil-Cat

There is always discussion of the effects of having kids too young but I think having kids "too late" is also ass

By the time that kid is 18, you will be in your 50s. Do you really wanna deal with teenage/young adult shit by that time? And its even worse when you have a kid at 40.

Youre gonna retire while your young adult child is figuring out life. You no longer have the time and energy to run after them and help them the way you could.

Then soon enough they will have to think about taking care of you in your old age.

Idk just seems like shit

fuck all that noise.

My biggest issue is that both of these things have been used for centuries and wont go away over night. Some people used shaving and makeup for spiritual reasons. Others use it for cultural or gender affirming purposes.

The biggest issue is women and girls who feel they need to do either in order to be seen as a woman.

Yes we should abolish any cultural norm that decides women should look and act a certain way. It should definitely not be normalized to push the idea that young girls and women NEED to shave and put makeup on.

But to think that people just shave and use makeup for men is really silly.

As an alternative person I use my makeup for self expression and my own spiritual practice. Most men don't even like makeup, they hate bold colours and strange shapes. They fail to even understand what makeup looks like.

We need to decolonize the idea of womanhood, make up and shaving away from patriarchial values.

I just think this discourse is so exhausting. There are so many bigger issues young women and girls are facing.

they love bringing up divorce court and custody of children, but they do this to make the woman's life worse

they dont actually care about being a parent and caring for the child

the cool restaurant is no longer cool once there is the presence of kids. It doesn't feel chill or relaxed anymore.

Now it is automatically a family place. The vibes are just different!

I went to a fancy restaurant a few years ago, it is almost like a club because its dark with loud music. Food is expensive and not kid friendly (fancy sushi, lobster, steak tartare etc) and we saw a couple bring their two young kids in the restaurant!

I felt bad for the kids because it is loud and dark and none of this food is appealing for the kids.

But way to ruin the cool hip vibe.

Idc how mean this is. Kids and babies are cringe and vibe killers

for them beauty has to = sexy/fuckable

They have no true deeper understanding of beauty, it is extremely surface level and it can only be beautiful to them if it serves them

i find it so strange how they cant just see someone and view them just as a beautiful person just for being them authentic self without wanting to degrade/fuck them/date them/possess them on some level.

even inanimate objects they find beautiful, they use so much sexual language around it

I'm still thinking about how many moms on mothers day just want a day of being alone and that is fine but I couldn't stand having alone time be a luxury

And also no weekends to just do what you want! It has to be about entertaining the kids. No spontaneity ever!!!!!

Lol I took a monday off at work just so i could go to a K beauty event. This saturday im going to brunch with my bestie and then we are gonna check out events going on in the city

I couldn't imagine life being so rigid. Being a parent is really lame and boring sorry

Killing animals for food = bad

using human slave labor for fruits and veggies = good

Every year manufacturers release a new model ! for what reason? there are barely any innovations/improvements from the previous model. So many of them get recalled as well because of lack of oversight and desire to mass produce.

It should be illegal to be producing so many cars en mass.

"As of early 2026, an estimated 3 million unsold vehicles are currently sitting on U.S. dealership lots, ports, and storage, representing a significant inventory surplus."

In Canada it is the same thing

So many resources like water being used to create new cars that will rot and to get people, who already have an expensive depreciating asset, to buy another

utter madness

In reality so many of them are straight up racist and misogynist.

They care more about animals than the lives of POC!!!

They love using their diet as a baseline of how "good" they are instead of actually being good people. Because animals don't have a voice of their own, it is easy to advocate for them and seem like you are good person.

I think equating morality with food is straight up toxic. It is just like religions who require you diet in a specific way to maintain your religiosity or not upset god.

I don't like the phrase "cheating" because it implies relationships are a game and having multiple partners is "cheating" the game. Also it down plays just how damaging it can be. I prefer the term "intimate partner betrayal".

People die (cardiomyopathy "broken heart syndrome"), commit suicide, develop damaging coping strategies, mental health issues, anxiety disorders (relationship anxiety) etc.

Sometimes "cheating" isn't just a thing that happens, it can be devastating and I think we should bring more awareness to what it does and how it can affect someone.

Especially in this age of red pill content in which they state it is normal male behavior to cheat. That simply isn't the case and it isn't some type of animal behavior that males can't control.

It is used to destabilize women, weaken their trust, control them through coercion and make them fear they aren't doing enough to keep their partner. It opens up a whole can of worms for coercive control, emotional abuse/manipulation by implying "cheating" is a normal human male behavior.

Women should not have to suspect their partner betraying them and expecting it.

I really get tired of vegans comparing humans and animals and saying "whats the difference" in term of an animals intelligence and such.

They use terms such as rape, murder, slavery etc to compare animal consumption too which diminishes actual human suffering. (its like when anti abortion people compare abortion to the holocaust....it is simply not the case)

It is not weird or wrong to put the life of a human or human child over the life of an animal. I don't care about pigs and cows the way I care about human beings and this is not nor should it be weird.

I'd rather people be able to eat food and survive. I get sick and tired the way they act like there isn't a hard line between animal and human. This is a silly moral argument they use to stump people and guilt them

I need some tips for how to help this pain/soreness

thanks