r/AccessibleAnarchy

Politics is a fancy way of saying "how humans organize", and that is an aspect of everything we do, make, use, and every interpretation of it. Defining some things as political and not others is simply a way to define who gets agency over their ability to describe their experiences
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Politics is a fancy way of saying "how humans organize", and that is an aspect of everything we do, make, use, and every interpretation of it. Defining some things as political and not others is simply a way to define who gets agency over their ability to describe their experiences

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A tumblr post and a self-reply by the user crippled-peeper. The person has a sunflower as a profile picture. The text of the first post says "“what’s it like being disabled in the USA?” I once told someone my mom died of Covid and they replied “can we not talk about politics right now?”". The text of the second post says "no “sorry for your loss”, no “wow you’re only 26 and your mom died”, no “wow that’s terrible”

The second post says: "just “stop making me uncomfy by mentioning your mom dying because I don’t believe the disease that killed her actually exists”"."

u/RosethornRanger — 8 hours ago

What can I do for others, as well as for myself, as someone who is autistic with severe social anxiety and selective mutism?

Everyone keeps stressing how important it is to organize and build community, and I agree and want to help, but I honestly don't know what I am capable of doing. I can't talk to most people most of the time and even when I can they look at me weird and try to get the conversation over with, which makes me feel more anxious.

Someone recently told me that only I can know what my skills, talents, and abilities are, and of course that makes sense and I guess it's true, but I honestly don't think I have any that are in any way useful.

I'm a pre-transition trans woman and I live with my bigoted conservative parents in a rural area. I'm an adult and I feel like I'll always be stuck here because there's nothing I can do to help myself leave. I have no job, no money, I'm not in therapy or see any kind of doctor at all except in rare emergencies. I essentially never leave the house and never talk to anyone outside of my family members who I live with. They're all either in a similar boat as me or they're like my parents. So I can't get any support from them.

I was originally making this post specifically about organizing and building community, but now I'm thinking about all the ways in which my life is limited. I can't even transition because my anxiety prevents me from making appointments and stuff. I feel like nothing can ever change and I'm gonna live the most worthless life ever in my parents house never being seen for who I am or given any kind of support for anything until I eventually die.

I don't expect to find some magical solution to my problems, I guess I'm just posting here because I need some kind of advice or encouragement or something from someone who's not just gonna dismiss my struggles or tell me to get over something that I've literally been trying to deal with my whole life. I'm scared of even just making this post because of how bad my anxiety is.

I'm sorry if anything I've said is in any way wrong, bad, or offensive to anyone. I'm still learning a lot about... basically everything.

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u/AJ-the-flower — 4 hours ago
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our non-existence in conversations and ideas is seen as "neutral" to most of society

A tumblr post and two replies. The first tumblr post is by just-shower-thoughts and says ""An electric toothbrush and an escalator are two things that can stop working and still accomplish their original goal."

the next is by "randomSlasher" and says "Ah, wonderful! This post can help me illustrate something I’ve been trying to articulate for awhile: the concept of benign or unintentional abelism.

Escalators and electric toothbrushes are perfect examples of things that many able-bodied people assume exist for their own convenience, and this post is a perfect example of that unconscious assumption.

An escalator that has broken down is still perfectly functional, right?

Well, sure–if you could have used the stairs to begin with.

But for people like me, for whom the escalator was not a convenience but a mobility device, a broken down escalator is not functional.

An electric toothbrush might seem like something that could be just as easily used turned off as turned on, but for someone with Parkinson’s, or any other number of nerve, coordination, or grip issues, the function of the electric toothbrush is a necessary feature, and without it, the task at hand becomes far more arduous (or even impossible).

I’m not angry or trying to point out why this post is “bad” or “wrong”–I’m simply trying to point out that people who assume every time or energy-saving invention was created as a means to help able-bodied people be lazier should consider re-examining those assumptions. It might help you become more compassionate toward your disabled friends and family, or at least more aware of the struggles we face daily.

I’ve had plenty of folks ask for examples of abelism and I am terrible at coming up with them on the spot, so here you go. This is a great one: assuming every modern convenience is only a convenience for everyone, when for some, it is, in fact, a necessity. "

The last is by "adasWordLace" and says "When I heard that this is why all those infomercials show “impossibly clumsy able-bodied people” - that these random convenience devices are really made more for people with troubles like randomSlasher describes, and it’s just able-bodied actors trying to act those mobility issues out - I kinda had to stop making fun of those clips."

u/RosethornRanger — 1 day ago
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Remember yall, bigots get angry about other communities existing because that provides options. A major aspect of abuse is putting people in a situation they can't leave, and we provide places to go

Alt text: a comic in four panels. The scene is blue on the left, and red on the right, in the middle, there is a white line. In the first panel, there is a white colored human overlayed with the text "LGBT youths", saying "Mom, dad, I'm gay." in a speech bubble above their head. In the second panel, a blue colored human on the blue side of the panel with a text overlay of "Unsupportive Parents" shoves the white human over to the red side. In the third panel, the white colored human is caught by a red colored human with a gay flag overlayed on the head, who says "Don't worry, we support you." The white colored person responds "Thanks." There is another red colored human nearby with a trans flag overlayed on their head. In the fourth panel, the blue colored person is leaning over the white line with a speech bubble that says (all caps) "Stop grooming my child!"

u/RosethornRanger — 2 days ago

I was so happy with the reaction to NFTs, and then absolutely nobody applied that logic outside of them. It seemed like most of it was another example of liberals applying any argument available to hate on things they already disliked, instead of people actually believing something

Twitter post from the user @sikeemay, dated January 25, 2022, at 10:12 AM. The text reads: 'Land ownership is the original NFT. Oh, you "own" this piece of ground? Because it says so on that piece of paper? Even though I can just walk right on it?'

u/RosethornRanger — 2 days ago
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It is essential to remember that it is not oppressed people causing your problems

A tumblr post by sudscrub that reads "I need you guys to stop forgetting that neurodivergent people can still be ableist. If someone is autistic and says that all people with NPD are monsters and evil, they are being ableist. If someone with adhd says that someone doesn't really need their cane and is just lazy, they are being ableist. If someone with OCD calls someone else 'psychopathic' and 'psychotic' they are being ableist. You can't hide behind your neurodivergence does not cancel our ableism."

u/RosethornRanger — 4 days ago
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Accessibility isn't for the people who "need" it, it is for the people it helps. That is probably one of the biggest things I see people get wrong about it

An image of two tumblr posts by the same person. They have the profile picture of some kind of animal and it appears to have the non-binary flag next to it. The username is Androdragynous.

The first post says "I'm a disability advocate (I think you should be disabled)".

The next says "really though a lot of people put themselves through a lot of pain or inconvenience because they have decided they aren't Bad Enough to need help with something and it sucks. so I truly do want to encourage identifying as disabled. you can get a cane if you think you'd only use it on the really bad days or if the deciding factor is that it's your favorite color or if you think maybe it would make one single task a little easier. you can use a screen reader if it's more convenient to hear text spoken to you rather than reading it. you can get cut-proof gloves, or a chopping gizmo, or pre-cut ingredients if it would make you feel safer when cooking because you're a little clumsy. you can use a wheelchair if it would just make you less tired.

as someone who struggled (and struggles) with feeling Bad Enough to justify the tools I need: it's okay if you don't think you need them. A want is enough. A passing "oh, that would be useful" is enough, especially if it keeps happening. you're allowed to want things to be easier and you are allowed to make them easier. I love you."

u/RosethornRanger — 4 days ago

TW: Rape. What would you do if every system meant to protect you failed? I genuinely don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore.

Hi everyone. I'm a 25 y/o disabled trans man from Indonesia, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore. I feel like I've exhausted every realistic option I could think of, and I'd really appreciate hearing what other leftists would do if they were in my situation.

I grew up in an extremely abusive household and have spent years trying to escape. Alongside that, I live with chronic illness such as sjogren's syndrome, arthritis, autism, ocd, adhd, and other conditions that make working a conventional job incredibly difficult, especially after years of abuse. For a long time, my entire life revolved around trying to find a way out. I contacted refugee organizations, activists, journalists, governments, UN agencies, and countless NGOs. I researched humanitarian pathways almost every day. I built an online community, fundraised enough money to leave Indonesia, and a month ago escaped to Malaysia after a trans organization suggested there was a possible resettlement pathway through UNHCR.

Unfortunately, after I arrived, that organization decides to bailed on me. UNHCR's waiting times and limited capacity made it clear that it wasn't going to be a realistic solution for me, and living in Malaysia as a foreigner without the right visa was financially impossible. While I was there, I was also >! raped !<, and reporting it to the police became another traumatic experience. I was treated without basic empathy and was ultimately encouraged to drop the case because I would soon be leaving the country anyway.

After spending almost all of my savings simply trying to survive in Malaysia, I was forced to return to my abusive home in Indonesia a few days ago.

Coming back has been devastating. I genuinely thought when I left that I would never have to return here again. Being back has brought back memories and realities that I somehow stopped thinking about while I was away. Every day revolves around managing abuse, trying to avoid conflict, and surviving. At the same time, my brain won't stop thinking about how to escape again because I know staying here isn't safe either.

One would suggest scholarships, student visas, or work visas, and logically I understand those are probably the most realistic long-term pathways left. But when I actually look at the requirements, I feel completely overwhelmed. I would be competing against people who had stable homes, healthcare, supportive families, tutors, and opportunities I've never had. Meanwhile, I'm trying to recover from years of severe abuse, chronic illness, disability, trauma, and recent >! sexual assault !<. I don't know how I'm supposed to compete with that.

I don't feel like I haven't tried. I really have. I've spent years researching, emailing organizations, contacting anyone I could think of, fundraising, advocating for myself, and trying every realistic avenue that came to mind. It feels like I've already been fighting at full capacity for years, and now the only options left seem to require even more from a body and mind that already feel completely burned out.

I know life isn't fair, but I struggle to understand just how unequal it can be. I see people who never had to fight this hard getting opportunities that seem completely out of reach for me, while every step forward for me feels like climbing a mountain with weights tied to my body. I wish I had simply been born somewhere else, with a stronger passport or into a country where abuse, disability, and being trans didn't stack so many barriers together.

So I guess my question is this:

If you genuinely found yourself in my position, after exhausting organizations, fundraising, trying refugee pathways, and now being forced back into an abusive home because there were no viable alternatives, what would you do next?

I know there probably isn't an easy answer. I'm just very tired, and I feel like I'm running out of ideas.

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u/Candid-Function6330 — 4 days ago

The hate and constant effort to remove graffiti in many areas shows how much effort we can put into managing the environment around us. It shows that the lack of accessibility tools built into that environment is not inherent, that it is a choice

A picture of graffiti on a cable box that reads "OH NO! Your upper class neighbourhood has writing on it" with sad face

u/RosethornRanger — 4 days ago

please help me escape extreme abuse permanently

hi, my name is nana. i'm 25, disabled, and a trans man from indonesia.

i initially escaped to malaysia hoping to access a UNHCR resettlement pathway, but after exhausting every option, i was forced to return to my abusive home in indonesia.

this was never what i wanted, but it is currently the only way for me to reduce living costs (simply by not paying rent), save money, continue fundraising, and work toward permanently relocating to a safer country in the future.

as a fellow comrade, please consider donating and sharing this post.

donation link:

https://ko-fi.com/andy\_aeternum

more about my situation:

https://www.instagram.com/andy\_aeternum?igsh=b3pjazI0aWZtOW1l (check my reels)

other ways you can help without donating money:

• volunteer to actively fundraise for my cause on your own social media

• volunteer to contact anyone you think may be able to help by sharing my fundraiser, providing financial assistance, or helping me relocate to australia, canada or scandinavian countries, especially through humanitarian pathways

• volunteer to offer consistent emotional support

u/Candid-Function6330 — 4 days ago

This shows how much more likely the current temperatures are because of climate change, with the highest being 5x more likely. This heat you are facing is now your norm. Take note of the tools you need now, and prepare

A graphic by climate central titled the "climate shift index" saying it is using NOAA GPS forecasts of minimum temperature for july 2 2026. The graphic contains an image of the north eastern US and some of canada and has a color coded bar ranging from -5 to 5. The color representing 5 covers most of the US shown, with some pockets with the colors corresponding to 1 to 3. https://csi.climatecentral.org/climate-shift-index

u/RosethornRanger — 4 days ago
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URGENT MEDICAL APPEAL: Stand with our Trans Sister in South Sudan Camp, we feel forgotten this pride month.

We are writing to you as part of the LGBTQIA+ refugee community living inside Gorom Refugee Camp in South Sudan. We are reaching out to the global queer family and allies because one of our own is in critical danger, and we have no way to save her on our own. The person you see is our transgender sister who fled to this camp seeking safety, only to face a new fight for her survival.  

Living in Gorom Camp is an everyday battle, especially for transgender and queer refugees. On top of the harsh, crowded conditions, we face severe discrimination, daily homophobic attacks, and constant threats to our safety. Recent massive international aid cuts have made a terrible situation catastrophic. Food rations have dropped, and the camp’s tiny medical clinic already stripped of basic supplies cannot handle complex emergencies. As LGBTQIA refugees, we are blocked from working and have no source of income. We cannot rely on local systems or help ourselves financially, we are entirely dependent on humanitarian aid and outside donations to survive.  

Our sister fell severely ill with a dangerous combination of typhoid and malaria. Because of the aid shortages, the camp clinic lacked the medication and equipment to treat her. As her body began to fail, she had to be evacuated to a larger hospital outside the camp for emergency stabilization. While she is currently on an IV and vital monitors, we have a massive hospital bill that we have absolutely no way to pay.  

This Pride Month, we are calling on the global LGBTQIA+ community to stand with us in real solidarity. We urgently need to raise funds to clear her medical bill and secure her ongoing treatment. No amount is too small, and every single euro goes directly toward keeping our sister alive.
Beyond financial help, we are desperately asking for your advocacy. Please use your voice to speak up about the forgotten queer refugees in Gorom Camp. Share our stories, pressure international human rights organizations, and help us advocate for emergency relocation and resettlement to safer countries where we can live without fear of violence and starvation.  

How you can support us today:
 Donate: Help us clear this emergency hospital bill and obtain basic needs by contributing directly to our fundraiser. ⬇️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️
https://4fund.com/sd9trv

 Advocate & Share: Post this to your networks, alert human rights groups, and amplify our call for safety.  
Thank you for standing with us when we have nowhere else to turn.

u/256ugft — 6 days ago

Pro tip: you don't know what genitals a person has just because they say they are trans.

A comic consisting of a title, and two panels of a white person with long brown hair, a grey shirt, a purple jacket, and grey shorts talking. Presenting fem I believe

The title says "Saying you wouldn't date a trans person makes you a transphobe."

The first panel is titled "What it means:" with the person saying "Trans people have all types of bodies and genetalia. It's not a preference, it's stigmatisation and stereotyping."

The second panel is titled: "What it doesn't mean:" with her saying "Date a trans person this instant, bigot!"

There is an atline that says sophie labelle

u/RosethornRanger — 7 days ago
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you don't beat oppression by treating everyone like a privileged class

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A tumblr post by that-eds-life that reads "I don't see you as disabled! My dude... My man... That's not a compliment.." and a response from theChronicChillPill "I'll erase your identity and your struggle! I'm so great!"

u/RosethornRanger — 7 days ago

Society and people are far more complex than the systems "common knowledge" groups people into. If they do not describe you that is ok

A 4 panel cartoon of a person with 4 different types of plant growing on their head: 1) if you're not an early bloomer 2) or a later bloomer, 3) you're probably some kind of super cool fern, 4) or an incredibly fascinating species of moss.

u/RosethornRanger — 7 days ago
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the point of "autism speaks" is to talk over us autistic people

A tumblr post with a picture of a woman in a tan skirt suit holding a roll of tape standing over a child on their knees with tape over their mouth she says "they're speechless the poor things" while patting the child's head as the child looks scared and waves their hands under this a user sunnidazed replies with "the amazing disability activist Amy Sequenzia has said on her FB that she wants this to go viral. If you see it please please share it." Autistic-females responds "It's sad to see this but it has to be shared for so many reasons."

u/RosethornRanger — 8 days ago
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Abled people have spent so much time and energy framing accessibility is harmful. Never forget that a "crutch" is a good thing, freedom to choose and interact with more things is a good thing.

An image of two tumblr posts. The first is by "inkSkinned" and says "if you take medication for that, you'll be taking medication all your life!!" yeah, and?? bug I already put on my glasses every morning. It's like a condition of mine, not a side hobby I'm pursuing irresponsibly." The next is by "lady-harrowHark" and says "and the thrilling sequel: "taking meds for that is the easy way out!" right you are my dude, I'm a huge fan of not making things harder than they have to be"

u/RosethornRanger — 9 days ago
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The problem is not consumption of individuals, but the fact that capitalism must both overproduce and destroy the environment to force us to rely on it. Anybody who blames the needs of individuals was never serious about fighting capitalism

alt-text: An image with text. The text says "'but that's just lazy' no, it's accessible. and is by @disabled.Daisy Between the sentences are drawn images of fresh fruit in a styrofoam package, grated cheese in a plastic bag, and vegetables in a plastic bag.

u/RosethornRanger — 8 days ago

when all the systems fail us, please strengthen your solidarity with a marginalized queer

hi, my name is nana. i'm 25, disabled, and a trans man from indonesia.

i escaped an abusive home in indonesia and came to malaysia alone after a trans organization suggested there was a possible resettlement pathway through UNHCR. unfortunately, this organization bailed on me.

during my time in malaysia, i contacted countless organizations, activists, journalists, and UNHCR. despite everything i went through, i was unable to find any tangible long-term support.

after exhausting every realistic option i could think of, i made the painful decision to return to my abusive home in indonesia. this was never what i wanted, but it is currently the most realistic way for me to reduce living costs (simply by not paying rent), save money, continue fundraising, and work toward permanently relocating to a safer country in the future.

as a fellow comrade, please consider donating or sharing this post. even a like, comment, or share helps more people find my story, and i genuinely appreciate every bit of support.

donation link:

https://ko-fi.com/andy\_aeternum

more about my situation:

https://www.instagram.com/andy\_aeternum?igsh=b3pjazI0aWZtOW1l (check my reels)

other ways you can help without donating money:

• volunteer to actively fundraise for my cause on your own social media

• volunteer to contact anyone you think may be able to help by sharing my fundraiser, providing financial assistance, or helping me relocate to australia, canada or scandinavian countries, especially through humanitarian pathways

• volunteer to offer consistent emotional support

u/Candid-Function6330 — 6 days ago