
One incredibly difficult part of this is how hard it is to find people who both like how you look and don't fetishize you, especially when people outside your class cannot tell the different and keep bringing those people who fetishize you closer.
A tumblr post by VisGrapplingHooks posted 1 day ago that says "women will be sexualized and objectified for particular attributes of themselves in ways that intersect with other hierarchies, the intersectionality of exoticism is an understated part of patriarchal sexism. fat girls will be fetishized for being fat, asian girls will be fetishized for asian features, fat asian girls will be fetishized for both of these things. non-op trans women will be fetishized for having penises, post-op trans women will be fetishized for simply having trans identity. there is no escaping and no way out because the common thread here is that all intersections are subsumed into the commodity form of womanhood. fem beingness is collapsed into a body-identity-commodity."
It has the tags "#intersectional feminism #feminism #'women' is a stand-in for fems as a social concept #the being-ness of womanhood is to be collapsed into the body-identity-commodity"