r/nonbinarylesbians

Ever since I’ve accepted my genderfluidity, I feel like I’m at war with parts of myself. When I feel like a woman/feminine or genderless/neutral, I’m sometimes uncomfortable with the part of me that’s a boy/masculine. I think my discomfort with the masculine/boy part of my gender might come from my lesbian identity. I’ve been trying to unpack this, but’s it hard and I’m having a tough time. It’s especially difficult when I’m feminine and masculine at the same time. It’s confusing because accepting the masculine/boy aspects of my gender has been freeing. Does anyone have any experience with this and what have they done to get through it?

hey! anyone have any recommendations for books on androgynous or nonbinary lesbian coming of age books? whether they know their gender identity or preferred presentation at the start or figure it out throughout the novel, either works. im just a closeted lesbian & would love to read a book about other lesbians experimenting with identity and presentation and finding community and stuff :) maybe even androgynous or nonbinary lesbians reflecting on that time of their life and their discovery of their androgyny or nonbinary identity too. fiction or nonfiction works! ive gotten some good butch lesbian recs from the other sub but as a nonbinary androgynous lesbian myself id love to hear stories about others like myself in this way too :)

Ok so the question is hard to put without explaining and i think im using the right one for this if not im sorry but im looking at T to make my voice sound more neutral and im scared about im scared my dr will deny me bc i just want it for my voice really and to make me look even more gender neutral then i already look 😭 but i dont want anything else that cose with taking T and wondering if non binary’s who have been through this, trans males or anyone whos been on T or is the process of going on it tbh bc i need a bit of tips on how to go about this how what will happen if do go on T really 😅 so just mostly tips bc i have no idea what im getting myself into and i just want to have gender euphoria not gender dysphoria :(i think i worded this right if not im sorry!!!😣