u/QuestioningNby

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Is it weird that my masculinity is more submissive and supportive? When I'm a boy, I want to be the kind of boyfriend/husband who carries his girl's purse, shopping bags, and cooks for her. I'll see this kind of stuff on screen and real life and I want to be that boy. I want to make my future girlfriend/wife or nonbinary partner/spouse feel safe, protected, and served. Is it normal that I'm not a more dominant boy?

Do any other Genderfluid Lesbians or Sapphics feel this way? Cause not fitting neatly into a box makes me feel lonely. Also, my brain likes it when things fit nicely into boxes and the fact that, as a Genderfluid Lesbian, I don’t irks me a little bit.

Let me know if this doesn’t belong here. Ever since I’ve accepted my genderfluidity, I feel like I’m at war with parts of myself. When I feel like a woman/feminine or genderless/neutral, I’m sometimes uncomfortable with the part of me that’s a boy/masculine. I think my discomfort with the masculine/boy part of my gender might come from me being a lesbian. I’ve been trying to unpack this, but’s it hard and I’m having a tough time. It’s especially difficult when I’m feminine and masculine at the same time. It’s confusing because accepting the masculine/boy aspects of my gender has been freeing. Does anyone have any experience with this and what have they done to get through it? Also, am I the only the transmasc feminine lesbian in this sub?

Ever since I’ve accepted my genderfluidity, I feel like I’m at war with parts of myself. When I feel like a woman/feminine or genderless/neutral, I’m sometimes uncomfortable with the part of me that’s a boy/masculine. I think my discomfort with the masculine/boy part of my gender might come from my lesbian identity. I’ve been trying to unpack this, but’s it hard and I’m having a tough time. It’s especially difficult when I’m feminine and masculine at the same time. It’s confusing because accepting the masculine/boy aspects of my gender has been freeing. Does anyone have any experience with this and what have they done to get through it?

I’ve been disappointed in it because I feel Persona as a franchise has been stuck for a while. Like, Persona 3 4 5 have been out for a long time, but they’re still milking them. Not that I don’t like Personas 3 4 5, hell I love P5 Royal and P3 Reload, but can we move on to Persona 6. The franchise hasn’t moved forward in a very long time and it makes celebrating this great franchise difficult. Let me know if I’m wrong or missing something. I will say, I am kinda looking forward to the P4 remake.

Since I’ve come out as Genderfluid, I’ve come to discover that being a Genderfluid Lesbian is an incredibly isolating experience. I feel so alone, I’m so tired and sad. Are there any Genderfluid Lesbians here?