r/FTMfemininity

Helloooo, the deodorant I’ve used for years (dove) isn’t working for me anymore (ive been on T about 3 years), so I’m trying to find an alternative. I’ve heard “mens” deodorant is stronger, but it all smells so bad & boring to me. I just wanna smell fruity and not stinky. Do yall have any recommendations?

Recently discovered I’m very attracted mascs but I’m worried they won’t be attracted to me because most T4T relationships I’ve seen were either straight, fem4fem trans lesbians, or masc4masc gay trans men and I’m feminine and nonbinary (medically transitioned). And most of the attention I get on dating apps comes from trans women looking for masculine, dominant trans guys :(

Disclaimer I don't know if this is on topic enough to this sub so if it isn't let me know and I'll post elsewhere :]

I'm non-binary (any pronouns) and a few months on T. The only change is my voice sounds slightly deeper - my relatives just think I have a sore throat lmao.

I would say I dress fem, or at least androgynous leaning fem. I have long hair and was wearing an avocado print shirt with short shorts, black knee high socks with rainbow stripes and long dangly earrings.

I was at a casual meeting with my boss and his other friends and acquaintances doing product testing for his project and we split into groups of 3. There's me, my boss and another guy.

During the product testing I noticed the other guy was using "he" for me and looked confused when my boss used "she"

Then my boss left to go talk to the other group so I'm alone with this guy and we make some small talk. He carefully asks: "are you transitioning?" (To which I was taken aback as I have never been clocked to be asked that question especially in verb format rather than adjective ie "are you trans/ transgender?") I go "sorry?" He clarifies that he is asking if I'm trans and whether I'm a guy or girl. I tell him "neutral" because "non-binary" is not well known in my country especially with older folks.

He asked a few more questions, very respectfully and politely saying I don't have to share if I am uncomfortable. I don't mind so I answered his questions. He said he thought for sure I was a cis guy because of my voice and that I dressed like that because I'm an art student. Lmao

He also thought I got a deeper voice through throat surgery because I have a scar on my neck. I tell him about hrt and that the scar is from something else lol. Then the conversation moves away to medical stuff (like tuberculosis and cancer)

Wahoo

I (genderfluid transmasc, they/he) listen to a lot of ASMR to help me sleep, and the account SalemAudio on youtube has a lot of lovely sweet sfw files full of praise and comfort. And one of the nicknames he tried out was a very sweet "you're such a pretty princess boy, huh?"

I about exploded with enjoyment and happiness, I felt like a sailor moon gif yall. It just felt like taking all the qualities of storybook princesses I used to hear about- brave, kind, beautiful in their own way and romantic- and then just. Tacked on boy to the end and it felt like adding a dash of playful masculinity and it's lile AAAHHH 💜🌟🌈🧚‍♂️💜

Princess Boy!! It sounds so cute and fluffy and evokes an image of a boy in a magical girl outfit or a fluffy ballgown, and I love that, it's so so so cute and nice and I want to be that sooo bad 🥺