Image 1 — Tired of being told that you HAVE to experience dysphoria to be trans
Image 2 — Tired of being told that you HAVE to experience dysphoria to be trans

Tired of being told that you HAVE to experience dysphoria to be trans

someone even told me that I’m not trans because I’m pre op and a femboy. I hate this so fucking much. why do people have to be such dicks and invalidate other people’s experiences without knowing anything about what they’ve gone through?

experiencing dysphoria is common in the trans community, but it’s not a requirement. this pissed me off so much I’m literally abt to cry

u/bunny_daze — 17 hours ago

Anyone know where this is from?

I’ve had her for about as long as I can remember, so I have no idea where she came from and I’ve been growing increasingly curious about it as I haven’t been able to find anything online

u/bunny_daze — 1 month ago
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Spells for Revenge?

hi, this probably seems like a weird request, but does anyone know any good revenge spells? i am not looking to physically harm someone!

I just need a spell that gives them severe nightmares or something like that. household items are definitely recommended as I don’t want to go out of my way to find stuff for this

this person ABSOLUTELY deserves it - if you want I can explain the situation or link a post I have about it if you’re curious about why they deserve it.

any help is appreciated! also if this is the wrong place for this, then I apologize! if it is, please help me find the right place to post this as I really want help for this and the internet only shows me books that I don’t have the money for

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u/bunny_daze — 1 month ago

Could someone draw my oc?

meet my oc Birdie! he’s a guy. I’d appreciate if anyone could draw him! btw he has green eyes and his hair is strawberry blonde :3 I’d love if you also gave him freckles! I forgot to add them to the avatar lol

u/bunny_daze — 2 months ago

My LPS collection

I’m super sad that I got rid of almost all my lps about a year ago, but at least i have these! also don’t mind the custom lol

u/bunny_daze — 2 months ago

Ex-Friend Is Spreading Extremely Harmful Rumors About Me

location: missouri - a lot is just background info, what shes saying abt me and what my current plan is is towards the end

I’m just putting the first letter of names btw. Also cw for mentions of drugging, rape, and sexual assault (nothing explicit is talked about, it’s just mentioned)

Way back in middleschool (about 4 or so years ago now) I had two friend groups, but we’re gonna focus only on one of them. Our friend group consisted of me, S, and B (I think that’s all but I’ve repressed a lot of memories from that time). S and I were pretty close already as we were both alt and trans, and later on B joined our friend group for the same reason. Everything was fine for a while, and B even joined my other friend group (consisting of me, D, and A- they aren’t trans, we just happened to be friends as I met A in elementary school and D joined us in middle school).

At one point an incident happened in our friend group as I had said something insensitive to D (we’re on good terms now and I didn’t mean what I had said, it was like word-vomit) and I was sent screenshots of a conversation between D, A, and B from A. B was saying that everyone should stop being friends with me and that I “took it too far,” essentially trying to get my friends to turn on me and playing me up to be a villain. Luckily my friends didn’t listen to her and did forgive me after a while.

For some context, B is autistic (as am I but didn’t know at the time) and often stims and whatnot, which is totally fine, but during that time one of their stims was straight up just punching people- hard. They punched me pretty badly right where I have some self harm scars, which were super sensitive at the time because of how deep they were. (I’m clean now and have been for a while.) B also has mentioned having a bad house and their parents cooking bad food, I wouldn’t know as I’ve never been to B’s house, but A, who I believe has been there, did confirm that it’s gross. B once told me they had a wild rat in their house that they were friends with.

For a while I had become friends with a girl were calling K. B told me how K had assaulted them and tried guilt tripping me about being friends with K, as well as guilt tripping others to isolate K so that they wouldn’t have any friends. I found out just this year through D that K never assaulted B, and all that happened was that they dated in elementary school and kissed, and then nothing else happened. I also remember that B had told me about how their mom gave K a “gummy” to calm down while they were at B’s house - basically admitting to drugging K.

Later on, B raped a person called G. I don’t know much about what happened, but S does because they were close with G (I believe they dated at one point). Me and S stopped being friends with B after this happened I believe.

Now in highschool, our friend groups aren’t the same. I don’t talk to A anymore as we don’t have much in common anymore and never had any classes together, I talk to D infrequently but still consider her my friend. I am still friends with S, and we have another friend in our group, J, who I’ve known since elementary school. B doesn’t have really any friends, other than people who sit with her in class- I believe D was sort of friends with her but mostly just being nice cause they had to sit together in a math class we shared.

It’s important to know this: S, B, and me have DID. I found out much later about mine, but S and D knew about having it in middle school. At one point in time B tried making a “callout“ post about S, posting discord screenshots from 5 years ago. In the screenshot S was saying something about looking for a pacifier, as one of their Littles was fronting. Almost *everyone* with DID has littles in their system, it’s just something that is bound to happen, meaning that B most likely has littles in their system and yet still tried to shame S for it. B also posted a message from S from 5 years ago saying something like “am i verbally abusive?” (They are not- I’m assuming B was trying to guilt trip them back then and is now using those screenshots to try and make S look bad). It’s fucking creepy how B kept those screenshots for over 5 years tho, none of us have been friends with them for 4 years so it’s just really weird to bring that stuff up.

Jump to the end of school for this year, my friend L told me she didn’t want to be friends with me because of something someone told her. Someone told her I was a rapist. I am not, nor will I ever put my hands on someone as I am asexual and have only ever had sex twice and that’s because I was coerced (he later turned out to be a pedo). I have, in fact, been sexually assaulted a few times, as well as groomed. I talked to L, cleared everything up, and found out it was B who was saying I am a rapist.

unfortunately I have no way of contacting B to clear this all up, unless I wait for school to start back up for our senior year and talk to them then. The only way I can really reach out to them right now is through our school email, but I don’t know if they would even look at it

for some more context: in 7th grade I was sexually assaulted by a girl we’re gonna call DS so we don’t get them confused with D. I’ll spare the details, but it happened in the locker room with plenty of witnesses- one who reported it because I was too scared to and didn’t even fully understand what had happened at the time (im incredibly grateful to that person). there was a whole police report about it, almost everyone who had seen it happen had to talk to the principal to talk about what they say, and I remember being told that I am case #22.

DS lied later in highschool that I was the one to assault them. thank god they moved so I don’t have to deal with it anymore, and i also have screenshots of text messages between us of DS “apologizing” to me and saying that they wanted to be friends with me again, which I feel is enough proof to show that DS was the one to assault me, not the other way around. im considering getting the police report though just because it would help me in the case I ever need to prove that it happened again.

I mention DS to say that only plausible reason for B to say I’m a rapist is that they either believe what DS said, or they’re saying I raped B despite the fact that I’ve never been alone in a room with B, and I don’t think I’ve ever even really touched B in general (they were kinda gross)

I’d really appreciate some advice on what to do about this, as my current plan is to wait until school starts and then talk to my counselor or principal to try and arrange a meeting between me and B and B’s parents about everything that has happened to try and clear this up, along with threatening to sue B and take this to court as I’ve lost sleep and have stressed over this for my whole summer break.

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u/bunny_daze — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/ToxicFriends+1 crossposts

Ex friend is obsessed with ruining me and another friends reputation

I’m just putting the first letter of names btw. Also cw for mentions of drugging, rape, and sexual assault (nothing explicit is talked about, it’s just mentioned)

Way back in middleschool (about 4 or so years ago now) I had two friend groups, but we’re gonna focus only on one of them. Our friend group consisted of me, S, and B (I think that’s all but I’ve repressed a lot of memories from that time). S and I were pretty close already as we were both alt and trans, and later on B joined our friend group for the same reason. Everything was fine for a while, and B even joined my other friend group (consisting of me, D, and A- they aren’t trans, we just happened to be friends as I met A in elementary school and D joined us in middle school).

At one point an incident happened in our friend group as I had said something insensitive to D (we’re on good terms now and I didn’t mean what I had said, it was like word-vomit) and I was sent screenshots of a conversation between D, A, and B from A. B was saying that everyone should stop being friends with me and that I “took it too far,” essentially trying to get my friends to turn on me and playing me up to be a villain. Luckily my friends didn’t listen to her and did forgive me after a while.

For some context, B is autistic (as am I but didn’t know at the time) and often stims and whatnot, which is totally fine, but during that time one of their stims was straight up just punching people- hard. They punched me pretty badly right where I have some self harm scars, which were super sensitive at the time because of how deep they were. (I’m clean now and have been for a while.) B also has mentioned having a bad house and their parents cooking bad food, I wouldn’t know as I’ve never been to B’s house, but A, who I believe has been there, did confirm that it’s gross. B once told me they had a wild rat in their house that they were friends with.

For a while I had become friends with a girl were calling K. B told me how K had assaulted them and tried guilt tripping me about being friends with K, as well as guilt tripping others to isolate K so that they wouldn’t have any friends. I found out just this year through D that K never assaulted B, and all that happened was that they dated in elementary school and kissed, and then nothing else happened. I also remember that B had told me about how their mom gave K a “gummy” to calm down while they were at B’s house - basically admitting to drugging K.

Later on, B raped a person called G. I don’t know much about what happened, but S does because they were close with G (I believe they dated at one point). Me and S stopped being friends with B after this happened I believe.

Now in highschool, our friend groups aren’t the same. I don’t talk to A anymore as we don’t have much in common anymore and never had any classes together, I talk to D infrequently but still consider her my friend. I am still friends with S, and we have another friend in our group, J, who I’ve known since elementary school. B doesn’t have really any friends, other than people who sit with her in class- I believe D was sort of friends with her but mostly just being nice cause they had to sit together in a math class we shared.

It’s important to know this: S, B, and me have DID. I found out much later about mine, but S and D knew about having it in middle school. At one point in time B tried making a “callout“ post about S, posting discord screenshots from 5 years ago. In the screenshot S was saying something about looking for a pacifier, as one of their Littles was fronting. Almost *everyone* with DID has littles in their system, it’s just something that is bound to happen, meaning that B most likely has littles in their system and yet still tried to shame S for it. B also posted a message from S from 5 years ago saying something like “am i verbally abusive?” (They are not- I’m assuming B was trying to guilt trip them back then and is now using those screenshots to try and make S look bad). It’s fucking creepy how B kept those screenshots for over 5 years tho, none of us have been friends with them for 4 years so it’s just really weird to bring that stuff up.

Jump to the end of school for this year, my friend L told me she didn’t want to be friends with me because of something someone told her. Someone told her I was a rapist. I am not, nor will I ever put my hands on someone as I am asexual and have only ever had sex twice and that’s because I was coerced (he later turned out to be a pedo). I have, in fact, been sexually assaulted a few times, as well as groomed. I talked to L, cleared everything up, and found out it was B who was saying I am a rapist.

unfortunately I have no way of contacting B to clear this all up, unless I wait for school to start back up for our senior year and talk to them then.

for some more context: in 7th grade I was sexually assaulted by a girl we’re gonna call DS so we don’t get them confused with D. I’ll spare the details, but it happened in the locker room with plenty of witnesses- one who reported it because I was too scared to and didn’t even fully understand what had happened at the time (im incredibly grateful to that person). there was a whole police report about it, almost everyone who had seen it happen had to talk to the principal to talk about what they say, and I remember being told that I am case #22.

DS lied later in highschool that I was the one to assault them. thank god they moved so I don’t have to deal with it anymore, and i also have screenshots of text messages between us of DS “apologizing” to me and saying that they wanted to be friends with me again, which I feel is enough proof to show that DS was the one to assault me, not the other way around. im considering getting the police report though just because it would help me in the case I ever need to prove that it happened again.

I mention DS to say that only plausible reason for B to say I’m a rapist is that they either believe what DS said, or they’re saying I raped B despite the fact that I’ve never been alone in a room with B, and I don’t think I’ve ever even really touched B in general (they were kinda gross)

I’d really appreciate some advice on what to do about this, as my current plan is to wait until school starts and then threaten to sue them (I have the money and the time) for defamation. If anyone knows a better way to go about this, please let me know as I’ve really been struggling with this and have genuinely lost my peace and sleep over thinking about this.

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u/bunny_daze — 2 months ago

Could someone make my oc into a skin?

much appreciate if you make it into a Minecraft skin! I have an idea for a Minecraft world in my head and I keep procrastinating making it because I want to have a skin that matches it 😅 i think the only thing I want changed is to maybe add shoes lol

u/bunny_daze — 2 months ago