r/fakeclaimingcringe2

I have both and the craziest thing anyone has ever told me about both is:

“That medication will just make you worse! Throw it away!”

This was told to me by my grandmother who also has Bipolar I disorder.

I was supposed to make this a month ago...

1. What is something an anti-endo or uninformed person has said to you?

2. Also what is the most common things anti-endos say?

Personally I think that people really don't like the idea that I became a system at 12. Some people try to tell me that I must not remember my trauma before than, even though I know the exact trauma that caused me to be a system in the first place and know that I was a singlet at 11 then I was a system at 12. (Reason for specific numbers is due to the event that happened)

I hope this is ok...

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before i start, this is a pretty popular tumblr blog so PLEASE don't send any hate if you recognize their post format.

basically, it's a blog dedicated to posting peoples' problems with their fandom, but they've posted multiple submissions like this that are just fakeclaiming people. don't entirely see how this is a fandom problem, but hey, whatever gets your blog attention I guess...

first of all, the otherkin thing. the way we see species in a non-scientific context is very subjective. if you truly believe an otherkin is human, i guess i can't change your mind, but don't just come out and say it especially since many otherkin have species dysphoria. it's just a dick move. if someone intentionally called me (a ghost headmate) "alive" on purpose, they're getting blocked.

second, everyone who has DID is faking but also they're taking away resources? if everyone with DID is faking, who exactly are they taking resources from? regardless, anyone who fakes a mental disorder is struggling in some way. no one healthy wants to pretend to be miserable. people with milder mental illnesses aren't taking away resources from people with more severe mental illness for seeking treatment or just existing.

"just because you have OCs/fictional characters (read: headmates) doesn't make you mentally ill" CORRECT! however, if you do have sentient beings (plural) in your head that does kinda make you a system. not necessarily a disordered one, but a system. either way, most non-disordered systems in my experience are mentally ill in other ways so you're basically fakeclaiming the mental disorders they actually have.

also, i'm assuming by "OCs" they mean brainmades, not OC fictives... so I guess systems that aren't entirely factives don't exist guys ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ guess i'm not real then/s

Ok 2 start, this might have Mild vent elements but its generally lighthearted ranting, thought this sub would relate 2 the experience of this a little (this is one of those things that pisses us off sooo bad but also is super funny 2 us in an wtf way)

We kind of figured out about being a system around the "did epidemic" couple years ago, I think that was during lockdown? (We are traumagenic almost 20 billion % sure DID system)

We waited a while before talking 2 family about it, weren't fully sure at the time and mostly suspecting so we waited. We talked 2 our at the time therapist/counselor who wed been seeing since childhood weekly and when we brought it up she started with "I've never had experience with a patient with this, at least 2 my knowledge, but I'll look into it for you!" Originally started looking at OSDD. Blah blah she was like yeah I dont really know much about this but I can definitely see where youre coming from with symptoms lining up and all that. Basically I'm not qualified or educated but I believe you

So then we went 2 our parents!

"Mom me and my therapist think I might have a dissociative disorder" didn't mentioned cdds just dissociative disorders in general.

AND THIS ! UGH ! our mom responded with "theres only one [name] in there" ?hellooo????? The fact we didnt even say DID or OSDD yet and that was her response 😭

Anyway that shut us down for a while and I dony remember if it was after that or the 2nd attempt 2 bring it up that she brought over her friend with DID, she had pretty overt symptoms and was in her 40s I think?

Also shes so sweet we got along really well and got 2 color with littles from her system. but it felt like a "this is what that ACTUALLY" looks like and later they (parents) would bring her up during our further attempts 2 explain our symptoms as a "me and your dad would know actually because did is super obvious and you dont act like that!"

Um ok...

Plus over the multiple attempts 2 open up 2 them weve gotten the "did only forms from SEVERE trauma" response ...yeah thats not really hurtful at all ??

Now here's the super duper funny part (mostly sarcasm)

Either late 2024 or early 2025 we started a new psychiatrist (after many many over the years) and our mom was sitting with us for intake.

Our mom mentioned "he suspects he has DID and struggles with dissociation a lot"

And our at the time psychiatrist says "well DID would also include identity alteration, part of the disorder."

And we went "yeah I have that actually"

AND AND ! Our mom turns 2 us and says "you didnt tell me about that?"

......................um..............................?

ITS IN THE NAME??? ITS IN THE NAME. DISSOCIATIVE IDENTITY DISORDER?

IT COMES FREE WITH YOUR FUCKING XBOX /REF

Anyway that was devastating because there we just got given proof that our family didnt think we actually did any research beyond tiktok and a Google search because OBVIOUSLY we have identity alteration, it COMES WITH THE DISORDER!!!!

Every time I tell that story I end up going "of course you have uno dipshit it comes with your fucking xbox"

Our partner believes us thoguh and she loves all of our headmates (even the evil ones /j/silly)

But this is just like, ok you didnt believe us about the really traumatic disorder we are experiencing every symtpom of so how are you gonna react when we say "hey mom im suspecting I have NPD"

Can't wait for that conversation...../sar/silly

Kind of venty part

Weve been struggling 2 tell pretty much anyone since being shut down so many times by our own family and past friends that only now after over a year of seeing our current therapist weve gotten anywhere CLOSE 2 opening up about it besides saying we suspected it a couple times but we get like physically blocked from talking by other headmates now :'3 , very dramatic sigh

Anyway thanks for reading i hope this is allowed on the sub please like and subscribe for more epic rants /joke

So I got into an argument with this girl online over anime it was really stupid basically it was her saying that anime was really weird, I told her she may have not found an anime that she actually liked and named a few wholesome animes like Pokemon, she told me no she knew anime but she still found it weird and that's okay, and I asked her when did anybody say she couldn't find anime weird?

I then get a random message from her saying to stop faking disorders and to get a struggle which I was really confused about a question who she even was and everything like that.

She told me that she thought I was faking because I used simply plural which was an app used by fakers, Midway through this argument I thought about it and went through my account and I have never posted my simply plural for multiple reasons firstly I don't use it anymore because it's shutting down and second I wouldn't share that much info on my system.

She then sent a screenshot of my account where she showed a post from Emily and a post of Pica showing off the fact that we made picrews, she tried to imply that we were using these as simply plural profile pictures which was based on absolutely nothing because if you look at the post you will see that there is absolutely nothing about simply plural nor profile pictures.

She then tells us that people with DID couldn't make profile pictures and they couldn't just choose their alters which I told her that I absolutely did not choose to have them and I have never ever claimed to have DID nor OSDD, I use system language because it is something that people understand and is the closest to my experience thats it.

But she also started demanding that I tell her how my disability affects me, medical help, accommodations ive gotten, ect just to prove that I'm not faking and I told her multiple times I was not going to show her my diagnosis paper I was not going to give her all of that information because I don't know her and I frankly really didn't want to talk to her.

However at some point I folded and I eventually did give her my diagnosis paper however on the paper I accidentally showed her my dead name because I didn't realize that I was on the top she did promise that she wasn't going to say this but there was a clear reason why I didn't want to do that.

She then told me that she would tell me HER disabilities just to make it fair so I basically just said fine and she told me she had stuff like fetal alcohol syndrome and things like that which I told her... all right but you got early intervention she kind of mentioned that she got early intervention and is still getting professional help for her disabilities.

We also went back and forth on her asking a lot of questions regarding the kind of help and accommodations and treatment I'm receiving and stuff like that and her just repeatedly telling me that I was using excuses and stuff like that whenever I told her that I was not able to get the help that I needed, if you look through my post once and just look up therapy or something you can see all of the posts where I am talking about my lack of support it's not that hard.

Also if she wanted all of that information on my issues and how they affect me this is very clearly event account just go through the posts that you're looking at and you will very much see how all of my disabilities and my mental illnesses majority of them professionally diagnosed by the way affect me.

This is just such an odd interaction and also when I told her that people have not just randomly messaged me to have these kinds of debates and she says that it might be because she's the only one who can see through my BS... which is just weird how she just constantly kept trying to undiagnose me or whatever.

she told me strangers on the internet couldn't diagnose me this by me saying that I never wanted one and was just venting but she is just sitting here are the stranger trying to undiagnose me 😭.

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Non-traumagenic systems are not ableist for simply existing. And I hate seeing people say that non-traumagenic systems are roleplaying. It's so insulting. We're mixed origin ourselves, and are medically recognized as having DID. To say that we're just roleplaying simply because we have partially endogenic origins is disgusting.

If someone says they're a system, they're a system. They are not roleplaying.