r/AppearanceAdvice

If so, what kind?

Recently, one thing I’ve become insecure about is how young I look. I’m 20, but everyone, and I mean everyone, is constantly saying to me how young I look, especially compared to other guys my age. I thought about facial hair but it doesn’t grow in very strong and it actually makes me look even younger, like a 14 year old with peach fuzz. Any advice helps!

am I crazy or do my lips look so thin when I look slightly down but so full when I look up? is this a filler fix or do I just stick to using lip liner to sorta hide the illusion? (edit: I’m focusing a lot more on my top lip, ik my bottom lip is big but i feel like it throws off my top lip which is why im considering filler just on my top lip😔)

Should I keep my hair long/feminine with trim + layers?(like in the second to last pic from when I last had my hair cut a year ago and before my rapid aging from stress). Or should I get a shorter/masc haircut? Or something else?

I feel like I look masculine enough in my face and build that a long/fem haircut balances it out to give androgyny but maybe I’m delusional about how I actually look. I do enjoy looking masculine and I’m trying to attract women only but being read as a woman probably makes my life easier.

As for general appearance, I don’t know if there’s anything to be done other than the usual sleep (not great) and go to the gym (working on it) and get a new bag (this one is fine). But any suggestions about style/grooming/whatever else are welcome.

I don’t have self confidence problems I just would like to continue to improve cause I’d like a decent shot to becoming an actor or someone on social media and let’s face it looks play a part in that.

Anything from skin care, hair, fashion, workout advice (I’m 6ft 160 lbs trying to gain weight and muscle), or anything else I’m interested.

Im 22 female ive never had a boyfriend and I've never been approached by guys . No one ever seems interested. I would call myself put together and I always try to look presentable. Im not the kind that goes to parties or bars but I do go out to cafes on occasion by myself . I also go to the gym weekly . Is there anything that im doing wrong. Why am I not getting any male attention. The most I get are looks but I can be that im just taking for it more than it is it could be a look when someone just passes you buy and nothing more. Am I not attractive ? Or do I just look not approachable? It makes me question myself and causes me to feel insecure and that something is wrong with me ...

Pics 1-3 (straight)

Pics 4-6 (curly/natural texture?)

Pics 7-10 (in between/ blowout)

Also, please don’t be too mean about my hair frizz I live in the Midwest and it’s humid as hell right now😔

18f I dont want any surgery comments because I know I am chopped already. I just want a cuter vibe to go with what I have. My hair will be all brown soon. Im sick of the split dye.

I’m thinking about letting it grow more on the sides. What do you guys think?

Any tips are welcome i know i should smile more 😅

I feel like i need to improve some how!