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I’m stumped

Hey folks! 33M Gay here. I see a lot of folks post about wanting to make more gay friends (me too!) so I was thinking about doing a mini bar crawl or something in NoMa and other neighborhoods some time?

If anyone wants to come, feel free to respond to this post!

Thanks!

Here from out of town. What are the best gay bar scenes tonight (Monday)?? Younger crowd preferred

Hi everyone,

I’m sure this has been asked before but I need some real help. Does anyone have any recommendations for a gay male therapist in DC? Specifically one that deals with alcohol related marriage issues?

Thank you!

I just moved into a ground level/basement apartment in Columbia heights. Exterminator said no rats or mice evidence seen inside but they are swarming the outside area. Pretty much right in front of my window I watch them fester all day. Am I actually going to be able to get rid of these things or should I beg landlord to let me out of the lease

It’ll be my first time experiencing Capitol Pride this year. I’ve got at least one planned event to go to, but trying to fill the rest of the weekend with fun activities and events. What’s everyone else got planned? This’ll help me get an idea of what to plan for.

I’m pretty open to all sorts of vibes from circuit parties to rooftop parties to picnics/outdoorsy to barhopping.

Thanks in advance!

Is there any trans (Female to Male )friendly wax shops here? I wanna do a full clean up downstairs and im tired of shaving acne.

Men only would be great but open to mixed as well. Also would be great to do naked activities / sports, thanks for any recs!

Any gay bars/clubs where international folks hangout? I feel like DC isn't the most international city, but would love to meet some other expats in the area and maybe find a bar scene that leans a little less like Bunker/Eagle lol.

I went to Bite the Fruit a while back and it was just meh. We don't seem to have a great sex shop scene like other cities. Which is odd given how gay DC is. Any recs? One with toys, leather, lubes, etc. you know the drill.

So I just saw the announcement of Violet, a new gay cocktail bar & lounge coming to U Street. It gave me déjà vu. Does anyone recall a DC gay bar with a name like ‘Lilac’ or ‘Lavender’ from maybe 8 or 9 years ago. I may have memory of the name completely wrong, but I think I recall it being a color.

I recall it being open around Pride season of 2017 or 2018. Do not know how long they lasted. Anyone recall or have stories of this bar’s existence? Never heard any mention of it outside of a Pride season one year.

Hey folks! Idk if anyone would be interested, but I'm thinking about starting a gay poker group. It'd be monthly and pretty casual lol.

If anyone is interested, feel free to comment or DM me!

Hi All, wondering if folks know any social coaches in DC that you’d recommend? I used to be extremely social when I was younger. Since the pandemic, it’s been incredibly difficult for me to interact in large social situations, which is a problem since I have a very external job. And I’d also like to learn to be more comfortable at gay bars or in gay spaces again.

We all know what you are doing. And no, no one is interested and hanging out in the locker room and bouncing between the sauna and showers is completely obvious.

For anyone who works out at vida mid afternoon to early evening you 100 percent have seen him. I wont describe to avoid doxxing

Only reason I started paying attention is I caught him staring at me when changing a couple times.

Since then I have kept an eye out and it seems like *every* time I work out he is there. i have changed. done a full 60+ min workout, 15 min in the sauna and shower and he is still there, sometimes moving back and forth between the sauna/steam room and showers.

Can we stop please!

Da fuck, I had been texting with a guy, we had matched in multiple occasions, finally meeting up after some back and forth on scruff, only to find out he had blocked me just before taking the metro 😂 and this was a normal date, no hookup (so no classic jack off then delete)

I guess it was something to check off the bucket list!

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22M. I recently moved to DC and I want to start going out more. Online people seem to agree that these are good places. Are they ok for people to go solo? At least i’ll get s drink but just wanna understand the vibe.

going to spa world this week. any suggestions? anyone going to be around?