Indian woman seeking advice: filing a complaint in India against a Dubai-based Indian man (false promise of marriage). How does it work on the Dubai side?
Hi everyone, I'm looking for guidance from lawyers or anyone familiar with India–UAE legal matters. I'm based in Bangalore, India, and the man involved lives and works in Dubai.
Background:
We were matched through a well-known Indian matrimony site. My parents manage my profile, and my father shared his number after he sent an invite, so both families knew from the start. We talked for about two months. Within the first week, he said he was certain he wanted to marry me, started making wedding plans, and began referring to me as his wife. I repeatedly said we should meet in person before deciding anything.
He flew from Dubai to meet me. My parents wanted him to come to my hometown, but he said he had limited leave and suggested meeting in Goa instead. With my family's knowledge, I went to Goa and spent about a week with him.
During the trip, I clearly told him I wanted to wait until we were officially engaged before becoming physical. When things escalated, I stopped him and said I wasn't ready. He assured me that things were already official, that he had come from Dubai specifically to marry me, and that I was already his wife. I consented only because of that assurance.
The day after he returned to Dubai, he ignored my calls. After a full day of silence, he texted that it "won't work out" because the "vibe doesn't match." He then blocked me everywhere. When I contacted his sister, she said it was consensual and a normal breakup, and asked me to move on.
Where I am now:
I have decided to file a complaint in India. My understanding is that under Section 69 of the Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita (sexual intercourse by deceitful means, including a false promise of marriage), this may be an offence, and since the incident happened in Goa, Indian law applies. I'll be consulting an Indian lawyer for that part.
What I'd like to understand from the UAE side:
-If an FIR is registered in India, what practically happens to someone living and working in the UAE? Can Indian police take any action while he is there?
- How does the India–UAE extradition treaty work for an offence like this? Is it realistic, or is extradition usually reserved for more serious cases?
-Can a Look Out Circular or Interpol notice be issued, and how would that affect his residency, visa, or employment in the UAE?
-Is there any way to file a complaint directly with UAE authorities, given that the incident happened in India?
-Should I involve the Indian Embassy or Consulate in Dubai at any stage?
-Is there any legal risk to me under UAE law, such as defamation or cybercrime provisions, if I contact his employer, share screenshots with authorities, or post about this?
- Can anyone recommend a UAE law firm that handles cross-border cases with India?
I have saved our chats, messages about marriage plans, call logs, travel details, and his sister's messages.
Thank you for reading. I'd appreciate any guidance.