r/ExilesFromPCG

The premise of this drama is so disturbing and blood boiling. Pushing in the narrative of "meri maa" as if this hasn't been happening in subcontinent already for ages. Like COME ON. Why do we need another show to fulfill the fantasies of milaws who already torture their son's wives and live with the 'im superior' mindset? What's with the mai apka maal hoom dialogue? Why are we promoting mothers who are basically mentally married to their sons? Here abu bakar's motjer is shown as this angelic women with a past but NOT all milawas are like this. Rarely tbh. It's disturbing and gross and this is the time pakistani men need the most lessons on keepimg balance then countrie's BiGgEst writer drops a banger like this. I didn't even care about umera ahmed tbh but I'm becoming a hater cz what is wrong with her and her characters.

If you’re in this sub, you probably know about the whole thing around Usman Javed. The guy who played Torsam in Zanjeerein drama. Idk if its all true or just a rumor to spoil his name because I saw just a few posts and didn’t go to the bottom of it. I really don’t care that much about celebrity gossip. Guy is a really good actor. But I am truly disappointed. Mtlb when will this ever stop? I am not really in the favor of ppl prying into the personal and private lives of our celebs but jab aesi baat saamnay aati tou I feel its not as wrong. Every other day there is some male actor or male cricketer getting dragged over the same thing. And kuch ki tou itni serious hoti hy that their wives have filed reports against them in courts.

Honestly, there should be some proper back check of ppl in fields that have to potential to become limelight. Ap aik random teacher ya accountant ya doctor ki job k liay shortlist hotay ho tou wahan bhi the organization does a background check on you. Then why not the entertainment industry? Why do they hire actors who have shady personal lives? Ya an ounce of shadiness in their lives. Aik abusive ya toxic husband hona is a serious thing when the guy is an actor. When the guy gets some level of fame ya plays a character that the audience loves, there are ppl who will want to follow him, know more about him, get inspired by him and yes that includes the toxicity and abusive factor too.

70s 80s 90s k majority parents and society ny boht toxic tarbiyat ki hy mardon ki and we can see the affects of it with every other case nowadays. Gen Z and late millennials do not tolerate any kind of bullshit and even if they do, it’s not for long. And aaj k time mein koi baat chupi nae hy. Its high time for men to stop being a disappointment and learn to treat women in their lives with decency. Wrna look at actors like Feroze Khan, no matter what good character they play, no matter unka drama super hit ho, many ppl will avoid watching those dramas just because they do not want to see faces that are associated with abuse and toxicity.

I wrote this post with immense disappointment in my heart because honestly, Usman Javed has the face and talent to play really strong characters and I really really hope all of it is just rumors and nothing else. Wrna it’ll be a major failure on the industry’s part for not doing proper background checks on the actors they hire to play in such big budget dramas.