r/GirlPakistani

29F.
I’m looking for recommendations for private, confidential online therapy (call or text preferred). Prefer female therapists who understand Pakistani cultural/family context.
Discretion is extremely important — I need options that won’t involve any shared billing, family accounts, or anything that could be noticed at home.
If you’ve used any platforms or therapists that felt truly private and professional, please share and if possible kindly share personal experiences, Thank you.

Hello,

could you guys please share any trick or tips to move out from very conservative, strict and toxic family? please share your experience of moving out due to toxicity.

for context: i am 26F, financial independent and sole breadwinner since 2021, but my father is extremely strict and conservative and he is the one who make all decisions, communicating with him is not a way as he is very rigid and angry person. Going through alot of things but the main issue is i work remotely(freelancing) and i am not allowed to go outside alone. so there is no way for me to move out due to job, study or any other excuse. I even tried for abroad scholarships, but my father didn't agree. He is now looking for my marriage proposal, but I do not want to step out of one hell only to enter another. I want to live my life for once before getting married.

how i can leave the house? like call police to help me? or call women safety organizations? because i can't step out without anyone's help, money is not an issue, but i also don't want to make a scene in my area, as we live in Muhalla surrounded by close relatives so i don't want to ruin my family's izzat as well. i am from faisalabad.

so please share the possible ways. Thank you

Need ideas for the 14th of August. 27F, working as an HR

so basically i need advice/suggestions.

i’m 21f and i’ll be graduating next year. i’ve been dating a guy for more than 3 years and we’re both 100% sure about each other. a few months ago, a rishta came and my parents told me to consider him asap. he basically ticked all the boxes my parents had for me, but the match had serious red flags/holes that they wanted to ignore. when i told them i like someone else, they completely rejected him because we’re the same age and he still needs time to build himself.

that rishta eventually got called off, but now i’m scared. i don’t want to marry someone else. how do i push back against rishtas that will keep coming in the upcoming years?

i want to focus on my career right now and i don’t want to think about marriage, but my parents won’t understand. they assume i’m doing all of this just because of the guy they rejected.

i’m really stuck and scared of losing both my relationship and my parents’ trust. has anyone been in a similar situation? how did you handle the constant rishta pressure while trying to build your career and wait for the right time with your partner?

Empowering Femaals of Pakistan😍 What are your thoughts on Feminism in Pakistan? What are points upon which you think Females deserve justice?

Being 17 M, here is my take on Feminism:

1. Females (particularly young girls) are not given equal opportunities to work with freedom, as young teens can easily work and get there pocket money
2. Teen girlies and child Marriage is also a common issue in Pakistan's under developed areas
3. Teen Girlies are not given as much freedom as us boys, they can't work, can't go anywhere they want like they always need male permission which is just sh*t
4. Females can't wear what ever they want and ppl/perverts stare like they are gonna eat you😭

I can add several thousand points But I also wanna hear from you guys too, what are your take of this