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The Road to Tender Hearts by Annie Hartnett

The Road to Tender Hearts by Annie Hartnett

I adored this book! It’s hard to find a book that can balance some very dark stuff with a proper dose of absurdity. What an absolute fun ride it was throughout. Initially, as I read the first few pages, I thought this book would be pretty surface level as it was heavily leaning into over-the-top (almost slapstick) scenarios, but I was surprised at how much I cared for the characters towards the end. This is such a wild ride of a book. Quirky, hilarious, chaotic, and dark at times, but ultimately full of heart. Absolutely recommend!

A quick one second summary on it:

A 60-ish year old lottery winner embarks on a journey across the US with his daughter, two of his recently orphaned niece and nephew, and cat that can predict when someone dies, to win the heart of the “one who got away”. Crazy plot right?! Trust me, it all makes sense!

A favorite quote of mine:

“Death is a magnificent invention, the cat knew, because it’s the impermanence of life that makes it beautiful.”

u/santim92 — 3 days ago

My Review of The Wedding People by Alison Espach

I haven't been able to finish a book in a very long time because of my struggles with depression and concentration. I even got stuck on chapter four of Project Hail Mary a while back. But The Wedding People is the first ebook I’ve actually survived and finished, and it gave me such a huge dose of dopamine. Once you start, it feels like a movie you can't wait to unpause. You constantly find yourself questioning what’s going to happen next—will Phoebe actually take her life? Will she have an affair with Gary after that hot tub chemistry? Will she go back to her husband, Matt? It keeps you hooked.

What I loved:

I felt so deeply validated by Phoebe. A lot of critics on Reddit complain that the book’s portrayal of depression is "too light" or that her plan with the cat sleeping pills was unrealistic. But I completely disagree. Depression isn’t a monolith. You can be loud and functional on the outside while fighting a silent, agonizing war in your head when you're alone and trying to sleep. Phoebe’s desire for a quiet, comfortable, and painless escape perfectly mirrors how real depression feels for a lot of us. Her habit of isolating herself and completely shutting off from family and friends hits so close to home.

​I also loved that the author didn't give us a cliché, rushed "Hollywood" ending where Phoebe and Gary immediately end up together or she miraculously fixes her marriage. Leaving their future open-ended but hopeful felt very true to life and respectful of her actual healing process.

​What Disappointed Me:

While Phoebe’s journey felt very real, the "wedding people" themselves felt a bit artificial. It’s hard to believe that a woman who is ignored by her own coworkers would suddenly be embraced and loved by a group of total strangers at a wedding.

​The biggest flaw for me was how the wedding cancellation was handled. Lila calling off the entire six-day destination wedding on the day of the ceremony just because she didn't get a vintage car felt very cliché and unrealistic. In real life, that would cause catastrophic chaos, furious parents, and massive tension over wasted time and money. Instead, the wedding guests were unrealistically "chill" about it, which felt like a cheap shortcut by the author to wrap things up neatly.

​Final Verdict:

Even though the plot handles the background characters with some "fiction magic," the emotional truth of Phoebe's pain and her slow awakening gave me a safe space to see my own struggles reflected without judgment. It’s a beautiful, gripping read for anyone who needs a glimmer of hope in the dark.

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u/KaleBubbly5506 — 2 days ago

Gates of Fire - Steven Pressfield

What a book! This is exactly what the movie “300” should have been: an in-depth study of the Spartan philosophy towards life and war. I found the beginning a little slow until the narrator, Xeones, finally made his way to the service of the Spartans and began to describe their training and lifestyle. From then on, I couldn’t put it down as Pressfield masterfully depicted the battle scenes but also the more emotional and vulnerable moments of the fierce men and women.

My favorite character by far was Dienekes: an Obi-Wan like figure that exhibited a lot of wisdom and thought underneath his weathered appearance. The moments where he discussed fear and the proper responses were inspiring. Gates of Fire is a perfect example of why the historical fiction genre is so intriguing and incredible.

u/GalahadTech — 2 days ago

Pachinko by Min Jin Lee

Reading this book felt like living with the characters. Generation by generation when every character grew up, it felt like I grew with them. I loved every bit of it. The description of the war time and their living situations was in such detail that when reading you can't help but get caught up in the book.

I think everyone should try reading this book once, I loved it so much. When I picked it I did not think there would be so much happening but I'm so thankful to that volunteer who recommended it to me and assured me that it's a good read.

I think all the characters of Pachinko are going to live in my heart for a long long time.

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u/JournalistFine409 — 3 days ago

CAN WE BE STRANGERS AGAIN by Shrijeet Shandilya

Just finished "Can We Be Strangers Again" by Shrijeet Shandilya and this book absolutely amazed me in the best way possible!!!

It's about three college friends who meet during online classes during COVID - Dev, Avantika, and Tanishka - and how their friendship completely changes when feelings get involved. Sounds simple but it's so much more than that.

What actually got me:

• The writing style is so simple but hits so hard? Like the author doesn't use fancy language to make you feel things. Every sentence just hits differently.

• Tanishka as a character - she's that friend everyone has. That one friend who listens to everyone's problems and is a expert in hiding her own feelings because that's just who she is. Watching her character arc was actually painful but in such a beautiful way.

• The way the author captured what it felt like to be in college during COVID. The loneliness, the weird connection you have with people through screens, the confusion of being young and figuring yourself out - all of it just felt so real.

• The friendships actually feels genuine and not like the romanticized version. It's messy and unclear and sometimes you don't even know what you're feeling and the book captures that perfectly.

It's not just about romance or friendship drama. It's about how people you care about deeply can become strangers, and sometimes there's nothing you can do about it. How the hardest goodbyes are the ones where the person is still in your life but something fundamental has shifted. And that's something everyone goes through but nobody really talks about.

Honestly if you haven't read this, you should. Especially if you want a book that makes you feel something real and doesn't try to wrap everything up in a neat little bow. If you read it in school and didn't get it, give it another shot. It's actually incredible.

Honestly if you are on a search for good books to read, you should definitely read this one.

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u/Soft_Apclypse — 2 days ago

a thousand splendid suns by khaled hosseini

i finished reading a thousand splendid suns yesterday, and i feel so numb while thinking about it. my heart goes out to the women of Afghanistan and everything they've had to endure. It pains me to realize how easy i have it and how i've never really sat down and thought about how privileged my life is compared to theirs.

coming to the book itself, khaled hosseini's writing is just perfect. he writes women so beautifully, you can truly see his admiration and respect for them in his writing. the story is deeply captivating and i wasn't bored for even a minute while reading it. i also loved that the book wasn't only heartbreaking, it had moments of happiness too. if it had been sad all the way through, it would've felt monotonous and wouldn't have had the same emotional impact.

this is a book that makes you feel too many things all at once, and one that stays with you for a long, long time. I know it will stay with me.

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u/eternally_c0nfused — 3 days ago

Station Eternity by Mur Lafferty

Everywhere Mallory goes, people die, and she can't help herself from solving the crime. Thinking it's all her fault and she's a catalyst for murder, Mallory seeks sanctuary on an alien space station where humans are forbidden. Unfortunately, murders and her need to solve them, follow her into space.

I really thought this would be a fun sort of Murder She Wrote on a space station, but it was actually far more complex and layered than that. Very pleasantly surprised! I'm going to start the sequel right away!

u/Amesaskew — 3 days ago
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The Bear Hunter’s Daughters by Anneli Jordahl, translated by Nichola Smalley

I literally just finished this and I’m almost bursting to tell someone about it. After their parents die, seven nearly-feral sisters decide to withdraw from society even more and survive on their own in the woods. This book was fun, exciting, gross, inventive, and engaging until the last page. It’s the best book I’ve read so far this year (okay, maybe a close second to Wolf Hall). I can’t recommend it enough.

u/Some-Bus-1923 — 3 days ago

Vanya and The Wild Hunt by Sangu Mandanna

I like to keep up with children's/middle grade fiction so I can gift my nieces and nephew books that aren't just the ones I remember from my childhood. I read Sangu Mandanna's adult books so when I saw she had a middle grade book I wanted to check it out and honestly I think I loved it even more than her adult books.

Vanya is a normal girl growing up in the UK. Well mostly normal she can talk to the priceless books in her parents bookshop and they actually talk back. She thinks she's the only one but when a monster attacks her family she learns there are a lot of secrets her parents have been keeping from her.

After the secret magical world her parents have been hiding from her is revealed she's whisked off to a magic school/library - Auramere. Where she learns about the wonderful magic that exists in the world but also about new dangers she could have never imagined before.

This book was such a delight to read. Vanya is such a fun character to follow and there are so many great side characters. The author weaves in different creatures from different places and cultures in a really interesting way. Also the audiobook was so well done. If you enjoy middle grade books or have kids in your life I highly recommend it

u/Past-Wrangler9513 — 3 days ago

Midnight’s children by Salman Rushdie

the story - Midnight's Children is about Saleem Sinai, who is born exactly at midnight on August 15, 1947 the moment India becomes independent. He later discovers that he and the other children born in the first hour of independence have special powers, with his own being the ability to communicate with them. As Saleem grows up, his life is shaped by family secrets, love, loss, and major political events like wars and the Emergency. The novel mixes history with magic and fantasy to show how Saleem's personal journey mirrors the story of modern India, exploring themes of identity, destiny, and the impact of history on ordinary people.

why I liked it - this book sold itself to me solely on the basis of prose! It’s a beautiful beautifu book. Even at those points where I’m not fully engaged I cpuld continue that’s how evocative and vivid the prose is. also, I usually do not enjoy magical realism but here it worked for me to an extent

u/KiwiMasala — 4 days ago

I finished - Buffalo Hunter Hunter by Stephen Graham Jones

I truly do consider this to be the best modern American gothic I have read in years. SGJ is almost flawless in all his executions in this book and I enjoyed it SO much.

u/gothicmommylite — 5 days ago
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this was amazing - Housekeeping by Marilynne Robinson

This is actually so rich, beautiful and transcendent idek. I actually felt like I had to get out sticky notes to mark things which admittedly I hardly do lol. I’ll dogear pages sometimes but I was like stunned frequently and just had to w this book. I feel like this found the transience and liquidity of meaning. Her prose kind of says you might be everything, and that is almost unbearable

I almost read it like an elegy for both the living and the dead or maybe for those in-between, all the ghosts that wander the earth

She’s always testing whether meaning can be honestly held by someone, and her prose is so precise and specific about the that inner way of looking out at the world. I think it rested the entire time in that in-between place between the physical world and our interpretation of it or what is beyond it, what we can extract from it even as it moves away from us or we move away from it or even if like Lucille all we want to extract is fitting in or presenting an image (opposite of Ruthie who doesn’t care she’s almost a living ghost, quiet and letting intensity wash over her at all points)

Sometimes I really started thinking about Keats and the concept of negative capability which is the capacity to remain in uncertainty and intensity without grasping for relief, which I think this asks of the reader. I also love that the intensity never feels contrived, it just feels like it has to happen, like it is inevitable

Anyways wow I’m gonna put an excerpt here cos nothing I can really say will accurately explain how I felt about this book.

“Imagine a Carthage sown with salt, and all the sowers gone, and the seeds lain however long in the earth, till there rise finally in vegetable profusion leaves and trees of rime and brine. What flowering would there be in such a garden? Light would force each salt calyx to open in prisms, and to fruit heavily with bright globes of water—peaches and grapes are little more than that, and where the world was salt there would be a greater need of slaking. For need can blossom into all the compensations it requires.

To crave and to have are as like as a thing and it’s shadow. For when does a berry break upon the tongue as sweetly as when one longs to taste it, and when is the taste refracted into so many hues and savors of ripeness and earth, and when do our senses know anything so utterly as when we lack it? And here again is a foreshadowing—the world will be made whole. For to wish for a hand on one’s hair is all but to feel it. So whatever we may lose, very craving gives it back to us again. Though we dream and hardly know it, longing, like an angel, fosters us, smooths our hair, brings us wild strawberries.”

u/Infamous_Wave9878 — 6 days ago

A Good Person by Kirsten King

Just finished A Good Person and loved (to hate) it. Its protagonist Lillian is perhaps the most frustrating anti hero I've ever read -- in exactly the way the author intends.

She's given juuuuust enough of a tragic backstory to ensure you give her the benefit of the doubt, and then goes and does something so stupid, self sabotaging and harmful that you want to rip your hair out. She's like if instead of being filled with cunning Amy Dunne was filled with wine (there is Mad Men levels of booze consumption in this book).

It's just...a beautiful mess, written incredibly with more than enough killer one liners to have you chuckling as you cringe page after page. Bit of a content warning - there is one scene in the first third that features some pretty awful SA, which our main character views so flatly and appears so unimpacted, I found it chilling.

In fact (not to play armchair Psychologist here) it's very clear Lillian has...something. BPD, Narcissistic Personality disorder...psychopathy? Hard to say, but as you read along you're living in the head of a stunningly anti social, unempathetic person. And it feels very real (and weird.)

All in all -- check it out if you have the stomach for TRULY unlikeable protags!

u/CandyMan77 — 5 days ago

Just finished reading "The Nightingale" by Kristin Hannah

It's an absolutely amazing novel, falling into the genre of historical fiction. Let me tell you, I don't usually read historical fiction or fiction in general; I am more of a person who usually reads philosophical pieces.

Despite establishing that premise, I must state that this novel by Kristin Hannah is nothing short of a masterpiece! The whole narrative is crafted in such a coherent fashion with absolute attention to detail to France during World War II and the lives of the French with special emphasis on the lives of the two protagonists Isabell and Vianne, the story doesn't fall short of developing their characters.

Isabel initially comes off as a person who's rash, bold, reckless, and a bit naive. Yet, her character would never seem to irritate you or make you feel that she could be better, Isabel's character arc is presented in such a way that her immaturity, her recklessness and her will makes her the most loved character of the story. The whole sequence of her joining the resistance, establishing the Nightingale escape route, falling in love with gaëtan, coming close to her estranged father, and her always being in regret about how she endangered Vianne and her daughter are all the elements that have contributed to building the foundation of her character and justifying her as the true Nightingale.

I don't wish to spoil the story much, so I would just recommend this book to everyone who's into reading. It's a beautifully written novel and not a single soul reading it would regret their investment into this novel.

Happy reading!

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u/FREAKERKNOWS — 4 days ago

Homecoming by Cynthia Voigt

Many of you are probably familiar with this book, as it's a classic that's been around for decades. I was introduced to it when in middle school when it was part of our reading curriculum. This book was important to me because it helped broaden my taste in reading. Prior to this book, I was mostly into science fiction and fantasy. I adore this book, because it is a ground and harrowing adventure, and the main character, Dicey, is a strong female character.

Homecoming is the beginning of a series, but you could just enjoy this book and it would not be necessary to read the rest. I think I read the sequel, Dicey's Song, years ago, and I would be curious to see where the story goes through the rest of the novels.

The story follows Dicey and her siblings, who are abandoned by their mother at a shopping mall in Connecticut when the story begins. Dicey is 13, and works to keep her siblings safe, fed, and together as they're journey to find a new home.

I recently found this copy at a thrift store. It's a 1st edition former library copy, and I had to repair the binding, but otherwise it's in good shape. I'm looking forward to reading this story to my own daughter.

u/LordThistleWig — 5 days ago

Someone Who Will Love You in All Your Damaged Glory by Raphael Bob-Waksberg

WOW.

This collection of short stories about love just absolutely tore me apart in the best possible way! I didn't expect to be as moved by the shorter stories as I was, but every single piece in this book had at least one line that made me pause reading and just sit and think about what I'd just read. Absolutely incredible. I checked it out from my library but when I get paid tomorrow I will be buying my own copy!

Anyone else who's read this: I would love to know which piece was your favorite! I think mine was "A Serial Monogamist's Guide to Important New York City Landmarks."

u/eclectic-worlds — 5 days ago

Angel Down by Daniel Kraus - An extremely well deserved Pulitzer !

(SPOILERS AHEAD)

I honestly went in thinking i'd hate the book due to its writing style but the one sentence thing was only extremely grating at the start but slowly just faded away and became.....good ? Like the lack of a comma does wonders in building up a sense of being suffocated which shines forth in the books extremely detailed gore ! Your never given a moment to breath and I found it amazing

The prose is also one of the best i've ever seen , there were moments where I just took pictures of the text due to how fucking good it was . Bagger is also an extremely well written and multi-layered protagonist for such a small book and I loved seeing all his layers and interactions . He genuinely feels like a real person ! The side cast is a bit on the weaker side , Veck was cool and a bit tragic but Godspeed and Popkins were cliche and Arno serves really no purpose to the story beyond being Baggers emotional rock

The scene where the Angel shows Bagger the soul-ammo-war machine factory thingamajig (this section is extremely wordy and is a singular passage making it intentionally very hard to read) was amazing even thought I really had no clue what was going . The Angel overall was cool but i'm not Christian so I probably missed something here and there . The Angel also being revealed to be a demon/hellspawn was a cool twist , after doing some research it seemed pretty obvious for anyone familiar with the religion but again i'm Christian so it was a complete shock lmao .

The vibe is amazingly done , the vivid descriptions of the trench's of France in their apocalyptic gory detail and done very well thought I sort of felt it was a bit excessive at times (but im not a ww1 soldier what do I know lmao)

Overall extremely good book and the Pulitzer was deserved !

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u/OrangeSpaceMan5 — 5 days ago

Midnight Library by Matt Haig

I finished this novel the day before yesterday.

I know she receives a lot of criticism and I can understand why, especially since she seems very childish and predictable.

But honestly, I enjoyed it and finished it. I've been suffering from a kind of burnout that has made it difficult for me to finish any book for a while now, and this was the first book I've finished in years.

Although the events were predictable, I agreed with the lessons the author wanted to convey, such as that life is unpredictable and can be either good or bad. I like it because I have experienced some unexpectedly bad experiences in my life.

In addition, the concept of the library of many lives was brilliant and could have opened up possibilities for more complex stories. I wish the author had explored it further. It's a vibrant and wonderful story, and I became attached to many of the characters, but the author succeeded in giving them their place in the narrative without focusing solely on Nora.

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u/Accurate_Reality_618 — 5 days ago

Hiroshima - John Hersey

What I appreciated the most about “Hiroshima” was how no words felt like they were wasted. Hersey describes the suffering of the six individuals that the narration revolves around and others without dwelling on them, even though it would have been righteous for him to do so. The admiralty of the six individuals is not in their survival of the atomic bomb but how they responded to it in their personal ways. A very short book and one I’d encourage everybody to read.

u/GalahadTech — 5 days ago

Baby Driver by Jan Kerouac

I loved this book so much— it is brave, heartbreaking, unflinching, unapologetic and gorgeously written.

It opens with Jan living in a shack on the coast of Mexico, waiting for her 22-year-old husband John to come home, hoping that he’s caught some fish because otherwise they have nothing for dinner. She is eight months pregnant. She is fifteen years old.

From that opening the book divides into two alternating narratives. One is about her childhood and everything that led up to Mexico. Her mother was a fearless child of the ‘60s, entangled with the Beat poets, but women sometimes get pregnant, and men romanticizing being On The Road aren’t going to stick around for that. Jan grew up in true poverty, but loved deeply by a mother who worked hard to balance her own restlessness with her children’s needs. Sometimes that was enough. Sometimes it wasn’t.

The other narrative moves forward into the years after Mexico, becoming a coming-of-age story told from the road. You travel with Jan through the ‘70s, sampling hippie life on the West Coast, a dip into sex work in the Southwest, a journey back south into Central and then South America where she ends up with a man whom she truly believes is going to kill her, and from whom she must escape.

I don’t know how bleak I’m making this all sound, but the book doesn’t feel that way when you read it. Jan is utterly unapologetic and she also asks for no pity from you as a reader – in fact she actively refuses it. She has a sly feminist eye and does not miss the fact that exploitation always seems to end up in play with the men she gets involved with— as she says, “somehow I always ended up playing the servant”— but the next job, the next man, the next adventure is always just a bus ride away. She dips in and out of drugs and in and out of sex work, as she owns all of her choices. And the book is full of her joy in stolen moments— in fifth grade when her mother was a month late bringing her back to school from their beach vacation, and she was briefly queen of fifth grade and the envy of all the other kids there; the beauty of the birds surrounding her in Mexico as she sits and watches them for hours in the lush greenery; the friendships with women that she makes along the way- especially that.

This is a book about women in a way that only slowly becomes clear, as you move toward the book’s point, its revelation, and I don’t want to give that away. I will say it very much is a book about mothers and daughters.

This particular edition has an awful introduction. Do you ever read an introduction and think, “did you just read the same book I read?” I don’t think either the reviewer’s judgmental views on drug use nor her fascination with Jack Kerouac served her very well (Jan only met her famous father twice and even in that brief span she noticed his sexism). Jan didn’t write this about her father, she wrote this about her own journey.

It’s not just her story that haunts me now, a week after I finished it, but also some of the images and moments that she describes so beautifully that it’s as if you were there. At the same time, I don’t think I’ll see the Beat poets the same way: “freedom’s just another word for nothing left to lose” looks a lot grimmer from a woman’s point of view.

Such a powerful book. It’s an incredible ride.

u/YakSlothLemon — 8 days ago