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Moving to LA

33F, no kids, originally from SD but moved to the south over 20 years ago. I’m revisiting LA before my move in October 🛫, and looking forward to it.

Currently in Texas, and I’ll be moving to LA at the beginning of April next year. I figured I’d join now to start connecting with people ahead of time because I’ve realized how hard it can be to make genuine friendships when everything is so location-based.

I’m really into music, singing, writing, and anything creative. I love trying new food spots (I’m a big foodie 😋, so I’m open to everything lol), exploring new places, and just enjoying good energy and good conversation. I can be a homebody sometimes, but I also love getting out and experiencing new things.

I’m someone who really values genuine, mutual friendships; people who are supportive, can laugh, communicate, and just be real with each other. I’m just looking to build solid connections and a community when I make my move.

If anyone is open to connecting, chatting, or even has recommendations for places, groups, or things to do in LA, I’d love that 😊

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I wanted to update my post. I don’t know exactly where in LA I’ll move too. It could very well be downtown. But that all depends on if my family is moving with me or not. I won’t know until October. I have a few friends that are LA natives or grew up around SoCal. I’m aware that the northern part of LA may not be considered LA to some people, however it’s still in LA county and if I need to make a drive I will. Regardless I’m excited to go back home to Cali.

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u/No-Journalist6155 — 1 day ago

Anyone want to join a whale watching trip this Sat? (Captain Dave's, 12pm)

Hey LA! My SO and I booked Captain Dave's Whale Geek Cetacean Exploration leaving at noon this Saturday, but we need at least 3 people to sail and right now it's just the two of us. Boat maxes out at 6, so there's room for up to 4 more.

We really want to see some whales (I heard blue whales are around!!) and would hate for the trip to get canceled! If you've been wanting to get out on the water, this is your sign. Would love some company out there (Also totally fine if you just want to do your own thing on the boat. we are both introverts so no awkward socializing required.)

DM me if you're interested (or don't, can just book your tickets on their website!)

Edit: it's about $200~ per person and at Dana Point! Definitely on the pricier side of whale watching but given the smaller group and going out on the yacht I think it will be worth it!

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hangout this week

Here are some things that people want to do this week around LA and want people to join them! also washedup.app will have a tent at the pride parade in WeHo in June and would love people to come by to even give a hour of energy and celebrate community! App is completely free just a way to bring people together. 😄

SATURDAY JUNE 6TH + SUNDAY JUNE 7TH

WASHEDUP @ WEHO PRIDE — 12:00 PM, West Hollywood washedup.app/plans/washedup-weho-pride-2026 | Mixed, All Ages

TUESDAY 5/19

Let's Play Games at Guildhall — 6:30 PM, Burbank washedup.app/plans/lets-play-games-at-guildhall | Mixed, All Ages, 20-39

WEDNESDAY 5/20

Avalon Emerson & The Charm @ Lodge Room — 7:30 PM, Highland Park washedup.app/plans/avalon-emerson-the-charm-lodge-room | Mixed, All Ages

THURSDAY 5/21

Bowling @ Shatto Lanes — 7:00 PM, Rampart Village washedup.app/plans/bowling-shatto-lanes | Mixed, All Ages, 20-39

FRIDAY 5/22

Grave Rave @ Academy LA — 7:00 PM, Hollywood washedup.app/plans/grave-rave-academy-la | Mixed, All Ages, 21+

Club Decades (Morrissey Night) — 10:00 PM, Hollywood washedup.app/plans/club-decades-morrissey-night | Mixed, All Ages

SATURDAY 5/23

Star Wars: The Mandalorian and Grogu — 4:00 PM, Los Angeles washedup.app/plans/star-wars-the-mandalorian-and-grogu | Mixed, All Ages

Spanish Rock Event!! — 7:00 PM, Los Angeles washedup.app/plans/spanish-rock-event | Mixed, All Ages, 21+

Brunch @ Drake's Hollywood — 7:00 PM, Los Angeles washedup.app/plans/brunch-drakes-hollywood | Women Only, All Ages

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u/Feisty_Spirit9246 — 2 days ago

F27 Solo Traveler looking for fun and safe places in Venice or Santa Monica

Traveling by myself as a 27 yo woman. Staying really close to Venice beach this weekend. Is there anything happening this weekend like shows at small venues, exhibits, activities or especially dive bars that are okay with being by yourself esp as a woman? I love live bands, comedy, dj sets, art shows or anything straight authentic. I also love dive bars lol.

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u/mermaiddmotel — 4 days ago

Looking to get out tonight

I have my car parked at the union station and was hoping to find some plans tonight! 29M Looking for an emo night, punk rock or EDM type venue. Please help point me in the right direction

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u/CowElectronic343 — 6 days ago

looking for friends ⋆☀︎.

hello ! i will be in LA from june 18th-24th
for an ariana grande concert on the 20th. i’m coming solo & would love to make some friends while i’m here that i can keep visiting- i visit usually 3 or 4 times a year just for funsies.

i’m a 25 year old queer woman, i don’t drink alcohol, i don’t smoke any substance, i don’t vape. i of course don’t care if you do though :) i do like to go to bars / clubs / parties for the vibes though! i love to just go places just for pictures, i love laguna beach & orange county areas, i always go to santa monica pier lol.

i don’t care what gender you are but i do not do hook ups at alllll and i only meet publicly for the first time! thanks LA 🌴

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u/5nasa — 7 days ago

How do I meet people now?

I don't know how to meet people anymore. I've been hidden away from the world in the mountains for almost 20 years. I now live in Los Angeles somewhat close to Venice Beach. I don't drink. I don't like the club scene. I'd rather be at home and cook dinner than go out and do stuff. So having an opportunity to meet new people, make friends or a lover is beyond me. How do I keep someone now? I know I'm socially awkward so when I approach people they seem apprehensive. Wanna be friends with a weird dude in LA?

u/InfernallyDivine — 10 days ago
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Nightlife in LA?

Me and my friends (x3 girls ages 22-23) are heading to USA for the first time at the end of July. Wondering is there any nightlife or fun things to do to make the most out of our time there and get the full experience?

We love fun nights out but have been told to reduce expectations for nightlife in LA

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u/cderis — 12 days ago
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stuff happening this week

Hi everyone here are some things people want to do around LA this week 😄 this is a free new app thats just posts things people want to do and want company for.

if you want to come meet a lot of people on the app we are doing a beach day Sunday the 17th! listed at the bottom

TUESDAY, MAY 12

Tuesday Beach Skate, Redondo Beach | Redondo Beach | 6:00 PM | Women Only, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/tuesday-beach-skate-redondo-beach

Sunset Club LA | Venice Beach | 6:45 PM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/sunset-club-la

THURSDAY, MAY 14

Comedy Show at a Brewery with Free Cider! | Gardena | 7:30 PM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/comedy-show-at-a-brewery-with-free-cider

Thursday Ladies Night | Echo Park | 9:00 PM | Women Only, 21+ https://washedup.app/plans/thursday-ladies-night

FRIDAY, MAY 15

Picnic at LACMA | Mid-Wilshire | 6:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/picnic-at-lacma

$10 BYOB Improv Show (SNL, UCB, iO, Second City) | Los Angeles | 8:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages

https://washedup.app/plans/10-byob-improv-show-snl-ucb-io-second-city

Birthday Party Celebration at Ollies | DTLA | 8:30 PM | Open to All, 21+ https://washedup.app/plans/birthday-party-celebration-at-ollies

Lost Kings at Academy LA | Hollywood | 10:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/lost-kings-at-academy-la

SATURDAY, MAY 16

Camping at Serrano Campground (Big Bear Lake) | San Bernardino County | 9:00 AM | Open to All, Ages 20-39 https://washedup.app/plans/camping-at-serrano-campground-big-bear-lake

LA Coffee Festival | Los Angeles | 9:00 AM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/la-coffee-festival

Disney Day!! | Mid-City | 10:00 AM | Women Only, Ages 30-39 https://washedup.app/plans/disney-day-1

Red Bull Soapbox Race LA | Little Tokyo | 12:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages (FULL) https://washedup.app/plans/red-bull-soapbox-race-la

Emmit Fenn, The Light We Leave Behind | Los Feliz | 7:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages (SOLD OUT) https://washedup.app/plans/emmit-fenn-the-light-we-leave-behind

SUNDAY, MAY 17

Mahjong Fundraiser | Central Area | 11:00 AM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/mahjong-fundraiser

WashedUp Beach Day! | Ginger Rogers Beach | 12:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages (46 going!)

https://washedup.app/plans/washedup-beach-day-snack-potluck

Clothing Swap | Glendale | 2:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/clothing-swap

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone in Shared Reality (cosm) | Los Angeles | 10:00 PM | Open to All, All Ages https://washedup.app/plans/harry-potter-and-the-sorcerers-stone-in-shared-reality-cosm

u/Feisty_Spirit9246 — 9 days ago

33M gym friends (24hr fitness) in Hollywood\LA

Hi all,

I’m newish to LA and have a 24hr fitness membership that I haven’t used consistently.

Anyone open to hitting the gym together?

I’m 33, in hollywood, heathy, used to workout 4-5 times a week. Also play soccer throughout the week.

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u/Night_Wolf133 — 8 days ago
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Anyone going solo to Whammy and/or wants to go together/as a group?

I usually go solo to WHAMMY! Analog Media (a VHS store by day, microcinema by night) to watch independent movies (movies that don't get to be played at larger screens in general).
Anyway tomorrow they're playing Veerana, an Indian erotic supernatural horror film and I was wondering if anyone else is also going and wants to go together, to this or other screenings.
Link to event: https://www.whammyanalog.com/events/veerana-1988
Link to trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QM_n6SmJXcU

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u/Top_Willow_9667 — 9 days ago
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Los Angeles readers looking for book clubs to join?

A ton of women are meeting at park this upcoming weekend, on May 17, and a lot of us know each other from different book clubs that we’re all a part of.

For more information, just head over to Instagram and message the organizer of the free event. Their Instagram handle is aubtron

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u/Crafty-Sign-8925 — 11 days ago
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Hi everyone, I started a nonprofit called Main Street Fellows that matches a group of skilled volunteers with small businesses that need extra help. No cost at all for both sides, just real support from people in your community.

We're currently looking for businesses in:

- New York City (all boroughs)

- Los Angeles (all neighborhoods)

Volunteers can help with things like:

- Marketing & social media

- Data Analytics

- Inventory & operations

- Bookkeeping basics

Feel free to DM me or submit a request here: https://www.mainstreetfellows.org,and we'll follow up within a few days to find the right match for you.

If you know a small business owner who could use some support, please share this with them.

u/Consistent-Reach1241 — 12 days ago
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Hello, my name is Marcus, and I am looking for a friend or an excuse to meet new people or feel less lonely.

I'm male and I'm 30.

My interests include cooking, baking, board games, video games, movies, television, and live-action role-playing.

Some hobbies I want to get into in the future are powerlifting, strongman, leatherworking, and traveling more.

My red flags are: I live in Inglewood, I don’t know how to drive (yet), and my attempt at humor is mid at best. I'm also a horrible texter, but I'm going to therapy to become a better texter and communicator in general. (Additionally, I’m a late-diagnosed ADHD person working on managing my anxiety and learning disabilities.)

Here is my Instagram @mr_teppenyaki to prove I'm real.

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u/LightAnubis — 13 days ago