
I’ve been seeing this post circulating and I have thoughts….
I saw this post and it irked me to see this poster bring up MBB’s single sided hearing as a “defense” for why she adopts. I’m pretty sure her hearing has nothing to do with her desire to adopt and wanting to adopt is not something that needs to be justified by outlying factors. It may be unintentional, but I feel the post paints monohearing bio parents in a negative light.
Maybe I’m just feeling sensitive as a monohearing person who will very soon be giving birth. The post suggests that unilateral hearing is genetic, which is widely untrue. Most unilateral hearing loss (as many of us know) is caused by non-genetic factors and there is no risk of passing it on to a child. Even when there is a chance of passing it on, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with choosing to have a bio child anyway. Of course, I don’t want my child to struggle for ANY reason, but I’ve lived a very fulfilling and good life so far and I don’t feel like my single sided hearing has held me back from that.