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Most people do not care but there's always mixed opinions when 1 person ends with __teen and the other 1 starts with a 2. If its 23 and 18 then i can kinda understand, but 19 and 23 isnt a big deal dependings on how they met

Where do you find a sugar daddy… lowkey in need of one real bad. I honestly don’t want to do anything too freaky in order to receive anything. Genuinely curious, where do you find one that’s legit? Willing to spoil someone with attention while they spoil me with their wallet. Any recommendations help <3xoxo

What is the religious intent?

Alright guys and gals, I undersrand the need to discuss theology but it seems everytime this topic drops there never fails to be an argument breaking out. I've been watching religious topics posted here for a while and nearly every single one has had people name calling, insulting and just being an all around asshat to each other.

In conclusion please refrain from posting religious topics here. There are a plethora of religious subreddits you can debate on. This is an announcement but I am leaving comments open. No, this is not a freepass to be a jackass.

My friends and girlfriend think this is weird apparently, but what I'll do is call someone until they either decline the call or answer. My logic is that if they aren't by their phone and come back to see one missed call they might not respond but if they come back and see they are being actively called, they would likely answer. And if they were by their phone and unable to answer they would most likely hang up before the 5 rings have finished, or text me saying they can't talk at the moment. My girlfriend especially has told me this is annoying but I don't understand how because nobody just gets a phone call and watches it ring and if the person were to decline it or answer I would of course stop calling.

Really not trying to be mean but I don’t get it 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯 I feel like if ur dating u should be dating that person cus u only want that person so if ur not exclusive why date them at all?? Isn’t it at that point just a friends with benefits thing? I dunno it just feels like an excuse to not be loyal / fully committed "(ノ _ <,, )

bit of context i live in the state of Nevada in America and heavily interested in kei trucks and after a lot of research of my own i haven't found a form of just form or requirements i need to meet to be able to drive one here with it being OHV (off highway only: which is just designated trails or private property) would there be any way even if its time consuming or expensive for it to be possible for me to be able to legally drive one here or do i just have to pick a different car and live.

Say, if you had a good offer but they wanted you to begin the immediate Monday?

I (42M) am a divorced dad of one daughter (age 10). I am in a relationship with a divorced woman (42F) with two so sons: ages 10 and 13. We have known each other for decades, and began an exclusive romantic relationship about 6 months ago.

I have a good relationship with my daughter, and she gets along great with my girlfriend. My girlfriend’s sons, however, currently have an awful relationship with their mom. They blame her for the divorce. I’ve heard recordings of the father in their ring camera when they were still together openly criticizing the mother to the kids; she would beg him to stop, and he would only continue. He squarely blamed it all on her, and said “mom is going to make us lose the house.”

The kids have adopted his narrative. They are downright hateful to her. They mock her, insult her, threaten her, and disrespect her on a daily basis (she has 50/50
Custody).

So here’s the situation: she wants to move in next year, which is something I’d love. But I absolutely cannot stand her sons. I view them as arrogant, entitled, disrespectful, and weak. I want nothing to do with them. My girlfriend and I are struggling because while her sins are being terrible to her, she doesn’t want to give up on them. On the flip side, I refuse to have these monsters in my home and expose my daughter to them. I truly fear they may attack their mother. So far law enforcement has had to be called twice due to the 13 year olds interactions with the mother.

These boys are becoming a cancer to our relationship. She and I have amazing times together. But whenever the kids come up—which is often—things get tense. She wants to talk about her sons all the time. I mean, I get they are on her mind with all these problems. But I hate these kids; they are not my sons, and I want nothing to do with them. I don’t want to hear about them.

Per usual, she brought them up again today after I had a particularly bad day at work. Literally the first thing I hear upon getting home is what latest insulting thing her sons have done. I asked her if this weekend we could discuss setting a boundary about talking about her sons. That while I understand they are her kids, she needs to understand they are not my kids and I am not interested in revolving my life around another man’s kids, much less awful ones like this. I asked if we could find a mutually acceptable boundary that recognizes those two extremes, which I recognize are in tension.

She basically shut down. She canceled our date night for tomorrow. She got quiet and later told me she is sad and tired. I tried talking ti her but to no avail. At the same
time, she said she still wants to sleep over tomorrow and watch a movie and have wine at home. Not the date night I wanted or that we had planned, but I guess it’s something.

I wish I could just “snap out of it”
And stop hating her kids; but I can’t. She mentioned that her last boyfriend felt the exact same way about her kids and it was a big part of their relationship ending.

It’s hard. I feel so much tension from her right now. Have any of you been through this? Is this relationship doomed? I love this woman; she loves me too. We click amazingly. But her sons have become a huge wedge. I’m unsure if this relationship is viable due to her sons. Any thoughts are quite welcomed.

TLDR: divorced dad dating divorced mom. Mom’s kids are awful and hurting the relationship. Can the relationship survive if the dad can’t stand the mom’s kids?