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i’ve had this conversation with other servers but would like to hear your guys thoughts. i work in a tip pool restaurant and i prefer that rather than not. it’s nice not having to worry about competing with my coworkers, no jealousy on who gets better tables/sections, and i know we will all help eachother out because we’re all working for the same money. it’s also nice if my section is having a shitty night/ if i get 0 tips in cash but another server does that night, ill still be able to go home with cash.

i work in pennsylvania so i wonder what everybody else’s thoughts were. i’m sorry if this is a repetitive question i haven’t seen it here before

as you can see by the title, i am moving in a week and i have so much to pack and clean and i haven’t started anything. i know i have so much to do but i have 0 motivation to do any of it. i work everyday mid afternoon to night time so by the time i get back from work, i dont feel like doing anything. i have my day free before i go to work but it is so hard for me to bring myself to do anything but lay in bed all day and do absolutely nothing. currently all of my laundry is dirty and sitting in a giant pile so i cant even pack my clothes. doing a few loads of laundry is the only thing i can do without it feeling like a huge task.

what are ways i can motivate myself to get out of bed everyday instead of laying in bed until i have to work? i feel so lazy and unproductive and i know thats only making me feel worse and not motivating me to want to do anything. i want to be more productive and i hate just laying in bed everyday but it is so hard to get myself up.

i think there’s a lot of points that need to be made with the drama going on and it might not be as cut and dry as what was shown. (obviously)

i keep seeing people talking about how Bea didn’t have an example to provide when she said she saw her do it another time, but she was moving weird as fuck with KC out of nowhere. Aniya was there for her and allowed her to vent and gave her advice and Melanie just casually drops that she’s gonna be exploring her man mind you they’re the only couple not having issues and the ACTUAL strongest connection. There is nothing wrong with exploring connections at all it is Love Island but to not even have a talk and ask if it’s okay and use her being there for you as your opportunity to be like yeah i’m talking to your man. And then randomly pull him for a chat and choose him during the challenge? I know there’s a lot we don’t see but even Aniya looked confused and it escalated out of nowhere. I think Bea knew that this was weird or that Aniya was uncomfortable by it and that’s why she said you’ve done this before, but didn’t want to speak for Aniya or cause more issues so she stayed silent.

As for Bea saying that she wants Kenzie to talk to Corbin because she’s single, i think two things can be true at once. Maybe Bea did have selfish reasonings for saying that and maybe she really didn’t want Kenzie talking to Gabriel anymore so that she could have him to herself, or she could actually be looking out for her and can see Kenzie has had a rough time trying to find a connection and wants to give her that opportunity.

I do think that Bea was being hypocritical though when expecting Kenzie to pull her aside and chat with her about exploring her connections when she never had that talk with Sean and went and explored another connection and was smacking face right infront of him.

I will also like to add that though there is nothing wrong with exploring connections, it seems as though Melanie is doing it for the wrong reasons. She was obsessed with Sincere from the beginning and didn’t want to explore connections, but once he has a quick chat with Kayda and is telling her that he has a strong connection with Melanie and feels good in his connection, she freaks out and tries to take it out on Kayda when she didn’t even go after him herself. She’s doing all of this to attempt to get back at Sincere and not because she actually wants to get to know the guys or to find a new connection. In return she’s just straining her friendships with the girls by not being honest with them about wanting to “explore” connections.

that’s it. that’s the post. not a week goes by where i don’t think about their cupcakes. nothing will ever compare to them

it’s currently 8 in the morning and i cannot fall asleep and it’s driving me insane to the point of tears. i’ve taken sleep medicine and my nose is so stuffy i can’t breathe and i have awful nasal drip giving me a sore throat. i have to blow my nose every 5 seconds and i can’t breathe. i have a deviated septum so i get awful sinus headaches and nothing is draining properly. i’ve been laying here for over 8 hours trying to sleep and i cant. i feel like im at a loss.

please help me!! all advice is appreciated

when they go into the upside down and find dr brenners office and book and look through everything… why have they never thought of doing this before or even looking for his office?? it just seems like one of the first places you’d look imo. ik the answer is shitty writing but i mean in the sense of them trying to actually save eleven/ hawkins

They talked so much about the first shadow and how the entire backstory is going to come full circle in the 5th season and it’s gonna explain so much just to not address any of it in the season at all. Why would they even show max going back in time and hold the flyer where it shows how joyce knows henry/ vecna and they never address it!! there is so much more i can say about this but that’s one that really angers me. i don’t understand why they went through all of that for it to end up having no correlation.

anyone else realize today a lot of mothers coming in today were the ones who ended up paying for the meal? it’s a bit sad to me