Im making a name sign with my name and pronouns but i dont know what color to use for backround.
Context: I sometimes volunteer as a camp leader for a great organisation called Junis. Im swedish, thats why the sign is in writen swedish.
Anyhow my favorite colors are red and blue, but putting both on there would feel to messy. Any tips?
So i decided to do one blue and one red and im just gonna stick em back to back and make 1 double sided one. Bc I rememberd my former attempt had the problem of flipping around in the wind or when i ran around. This fixes that problem too.
How do I dress more masculine and look more masculine? I want to look more masculine to where everyone assumes that I’m a guy, but I feel as if I still look more like a girl. What do I do?
First I just want to say, I appreciate the support everyone gave me on my last post. It really helped me out. I was on the search for a new name to go by. Recently I found that I really like the name Wolf and I feel like it suits me but I am feeling hesitant about it. For one I feel like people at my school will say negative stuff about it, also that that my parents won’t like it and finally that’s it’s just a bad choice . It’s the only name I found in the months of searching that I like. What should I do?
To clarify, common to not just us enby individuals, but to cis people as well.
Mine is common among old people 💔 Stan/Stanley (however for most people outside of close friends I shorten it to Lee)
Really really hate my deadname (Antheia) anyone able to pick a new one for me?
Been thinking about Ash and maybe variations like Aash
So I've been considering changing my name for a while but I can't find one that I really like or feel like it suits me. I'd like a more masculine-leaning name and maybe something vintage sounding but preferably less common.
My current name is Lana, so I've considered something similar like Larkin, which is definitely my favourite so far, but I don't know if it would suit me. I would appreciate it though if you could speak about me in the comments with the name Larkin and they/he pronouns to test it all out to see if I like it please.
Also, if anyone has any other name suggestions I would be very grateful! :)
I was asssigned female at birth but when I cut my hair i look very much like a guy. I still go into the womens bathroom, but I get a bunch of dirty looks and when I explain they just don't believe me. Its gotten so bad to the point where i will lift up my shirt and show them, yes, i am a biological female. I have no problem going into the mens but my mom just doesn't want me to. advice?
I was assigned female at birth and i want to look more queer. does any one have suggestions on how to look slighly more feminine. I'm 13, there is a before and after pic
Being in school while non-binary is so invalidating especially cause the teachers can’t call you your preferred name bc your parents have to confirm. Or just cause the teachers don’t care like I had to keep repeating that I’m not a female and that I’m nonbinary to a teacher and she didn’t even bother listening to me just nodded and walked away and 2 minutes later called me by my deadname and referred to me as a female infront of others I don’t know why people can’t accept I’m not a girl or a boy :(
I'm in the middle of a name change right now, I have no idea what to use I have been going by my middle name, Sasha, but I honestly feel ehhh about it as a middle name. I legally have two middle names and I dont really want to change that because it's something I have been proud of my entire life. I need a first name that flows nicely with two middle names, one MAYBE being sasha. I CANNOT FIND ANYTHING!!!! I like Feminine leaning names because I often present feminine. But I really enjoy feminine names with a masculine nickname a lot! Like "Evangeline" with the nickname Evan.
I was going by Olyvia Juniper Sasha for a bit, but it doesn't suit me. My boyfriend likes Juniper alot but again, I don't think it suits me, and it doesn't go with Sasha. I have been using Sasha for over a year. I'm used to it, and I know people in my life are used to it. I know it's not their transition and I am allowed to change my name if I want to to whatever I want, but it still feels like.. Wrong I guess? Or like I'm inconveniencing them. Especially my boyfriend because he is not around alot of queer people besides me and my friends. My queer friends that he is also friends with have never changed their name or pronouns around him. We already talked and he is very supportive of my decision. He is not the happiest about me not liking Sasha. He's not mad or anything, just sad. He has always liked Sasha and often would tell me how it suits me and he thinks it is a very pretty name. He Is still very helpful and supportive of me nonetheless. In a way I still feel like I'm in the wrong? I know I'm not but it feels like that sometimes.
I guess I just need some advice or name suggestions. I would ask people in my life about this but I don't want this name change to be super public besides a few close friends and my boyfriend and mom. I've asked them about it but they all tell me it's something I need to figure out myself because I am always super picky and they don't give me good feedback. It's always "It's nice" or "Yeah if you like it." (Besides my boyfriend, he wants to help, he's just not very opinionated on names in general, unlike the people in my life who will babble on about baby names but won't tell me if I look like a name or not. 😒)
The photos I listed are me presenting both fem and masc, the most recent ones I have of both!! My hair is blonde now and will be that way for a few years for context.
I have a list, but I don't know about any of the names on it. I would appreciate any lists or suggestions, even with first and middle names together! I absolutely love feminine names with Masc nicknames or nicknames in general. (I am really picky so I'm sorry if I don't like the ones you choose.)
Here are some names I have been considering:
Salem
Evangeline (Evan)
Piper
Delainey
Casper
Forrest
Spencer
Seraphine
Lacey or Lainey?? (As middle name maybe)
I also love the name Theo but not Theodore idk
I hate the letter A for a name and indifferent about K names.
Here's letters I think are pretty:
O L P D S C V B F H M
So for context, I HATE my deadname, but its important to my Grandma, because my mom chose it for me, (my mom passed in 2021), and has said, "I'm not calling you Percy because i don't feel comfortable with it" and started saying how "is your name not 'good enough' and you need a 'better one'?" she supports my identity as a therian and non binary person.... yet got horribly offended when i asked her not to call me by my deadname, because every time someone says it, i can hear it being shouted at me by a person who hurt me, also, it's just not who i am. my grandma doesn't understand that, no, just because im in a safer space DOES NOT MEAN i will automatically heal all my trauma, and now she's freaking upset with me
any advice, im lowkey having an episode
I have bad gender dysphoria and i mean bad but im worried i dont look gender neutral so im wondering if i do to everyone else :( bc i need resurgence from others rn who are non binary bc im worried…..i really am i want to go on T but i dont think i can…..not with everything i have for medical issues:( im 17 next month and struggle with this gosh i feel so bad asking this!
I hate that I got facial hair