Student asking for LOR when they only shadowed me once
I had a student shadow me for day to get hours for OT school, and he asked me to write a LOR to get into OT school. He also asked the person who he shadowed with for 3 days. We are both newish grads and a bit uncomfortable with how to proceed.
This student was giving mixed signals and seemed to have some difficulty with professionalism/social norms. For example when bringing in a peds client who's perfectly aware/cognizant if they have autism, asking me how much I get paid in the middle of a session, asking "verbal or nonverbal?" in reference to a kid I just brought in, referring to kids he's worked with before as "a level II" as a full title.
He said he got OT and ST as a kid so I suspect it's more of not understanding social skills and being young than trying to be rude on purpose, and he did work well with the kids and definitely had the heart for it. If I don't do it, they won't have enough letters to apply this cycle.
It's really hard to get recommendations around her due to availability of places to shadow at so I'm really torn. I was thinking a middle could be offering to write him one after he shadows for some more days.
ETA: idk if it makes a difference but he didn’t even officially ask me. He just added my info to the online application portal and it sent me a link to fill out the letter. Only after did he email wanting to give me a “heads up” to look out for the link and if I could just fill it out when I get a minute. He also didn’t waive he is right to view the letter.