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How to become an officiant

Hi. In Ontario. Bride has asked me to be the officiant. Wedding is in 2 years (couple has been together for 10 + years).

Yes i’ve googled and i’m more confused than ever.

Anyone faced the issue? Any tips, strategy?what is the best/easiest path? Money is not an issue.

Thank you in advance

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u/Substantial_Party484 — 7 days ago

Looking for a house rental with a large lawn/yard for a small cultural wedding — Ottawa + 1.5 hr radius

Hi everyone! My family and I are looking for a house to rent in Ottawa or the surrounding area (up to ~1.5 hours from Ottawa) for a small traditional/cultural wedding ceremony.

We’ve had a difficult time finding suitable options through Airbnb, so I thought I’d ask here in case anyone knows of private homeowners, farms, rural properties, or other rentals that might be a good fit. Budget of under $6k

What we’re looking for:

  • 🏡 A house/private property (having the wedding at a house is culturally important to us)
  • 2+ bedrooms so a few family members can stay overnight
  • A large outdoor lawn/yard where we can set up a tent
  • Approximately 60-80 guests
  • Tent would be set up outside on the property
  • Our own caterer would prepare/serve the food
  • Event would run approximately 10 AM–5 PM
  • No alcohol
  • Music will be played during the ceremony/celebration, but this is not a party or nightclub-type event
  • No large gathering/partying inside the house
  • We would respect the property, neighbours, noise limits, parking requirements, and leave everything clean

The goal is a traditional family/cultural celebration during the daytime, with the house primarily being used as accommodation and the outdoor space being used for the wedding.

We're open to Ottawa, Gatineau, Eastern Ontario, Lanark County, Renfrew County, Prescott-Russell, or anywhere within roughly 1–1.5 hours of Ottawa.

If you know of a property owner, farm, cottage, country home, or rental that might allow something like this, please comment or DM me! We’re happy to discuss the details directly with the owner and pay an appropriate event fee/deposit if required.

Thank you!

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u/alizaberry — 7 days ago

Military Mess as Possible Venue

Hello everyone 😀 I’ve been engaged for about 3 weeks now, and we’re looking for an affordable venue. My fiancée suggested a military mess (he’s military), and I was wondering if anyone has had their wedding in a mess before and what your experiences were with your day or someone else’s wedding you attended, cost, ease of setting up and taking down, food/drinks, etc. Our main thing that we’re looking for in a venue is where we can have our ceremony and reception without needing to travel to a different location and that it’s not too expensive. Also, are there any messes in/around Ottawa that you would recommend? We haven’t picked a date yet and number of people because we’re still taking in being engaged ☺️, but we’re going to start planning things soon. That being said, I’m thinking, to be safe, finding a venue that can hold around 100ish people and maybe sometime fall 2028 would be good. We’re still flexible because no actual planning has started yet, but I wanted to know what experiences were like. Thanks in advance 😃

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u/Sweet-Strawberry2312 — 9 days ago

DJ Paul Hill

I am bummed to write this but I feel it is my obligation to warn y’all of DJ Paul Hill from Primetime Entertainment. At my wedding he was on his phone and missed cues. He played music that was specifically on our do not play list. He forgot my wife and i’s names, which made for an incredibly awkward moment. If you’re looking for a DJ for your wedding and his name comes up, keep looking.

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u/Beginning-Way7599 — 8 days ago

Last Minute Catering

As if weddings aren't stressful enough!

Our caterer has pulled out last minute and we are in search of a new caterer for an 85 person wedding on October 24th in Lanark County.

We wanted to do buffet style BBQ meats and sides with a budget around $3-5k.

Edit to include date.

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u/Neat-Suspect750 — 11 days ago

Day of coordinators

Has anyone hired their own day of coordinator for either Strathmere or Stanley’s Farm?
Also wondering what the range of cost for a day of person would be? Any suggestions or information is appreciated!

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u/sunshinefield2 — 10 days ago

Newer or more affordable videographers

Hi,

My fiancée and I are looking for newer or cheaper videographers in the Ottawa area who would be willing to travel to Almonte for a weekday wedding.

I was hoping to find someone for around $1500ish or less! Most of the videographers I’ve seen are around $2500 for their cheapest non micro wedding packages.

We don’t want anything too elaborate, just the main events and some editing.

Let me know if you have any recommendations!

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u/notmmyrealaccount — 10 days ago
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Winter weekend wedding venues

Hello! I am recently engaged and loving the idea of a weekend wedding (Friday-Sunday) during the winter time. my guest list is around 60 people. i’m located near the GTA but would be okay with going a few hours in any direction. i found a few venues that are the vibe i’m going for (viamede, anupaya, sherwood inn). i really liked the pricing of viamede though!
i’m wondering if anyone has other suggestions? i’ve been having trouble finding more online.
TIA!!!!

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u/Adorable_Leave_2721 — 11 days ago