r/R4Rstralia

​

\*could be more than friends, who am I to judge.

Hello, I'm Arlo ✨️ I'm twenty seven, and honestly, just throwing a hail mary out there to see if anyone compatible will bite!

I'm into horror movies, watching waaaay too much Markiplier, mixology and I'm easing back into gaming with some indies (Slime Rancher, Slay the Spire 2!). I loooove most kinds of music, and curate playlists in my spare time.

What am I looking for?

Aaah. My requirements are small. Must be over 21, muuuust be able to hold a good conversation.

All genders may apply! But please include your name, age, location and a picture if you feel comfy!

Excited to hear from you 🥰

25f and looking to get my tits played with, mainly licking and sucking but also other things. No sex involved.

Would prefer someone outside of Melbourne or Australia and is only here temporarily (e.g. work, holiday etc.). Looking for something discreet and NSA. Prefer a chubby/dad body build. Open to women as well.

Has to be hygienic and drugs and disease free. That is a non negotiable.

Bit about me: single, brown skin and curvy (plus size)

No low effort responses please.

Mid-30s woman in a happy ENM marriage. We’ve explored before and currently considering stepping back into that space after a break.

At this stage, I’m mainly interested in chatting and connecting with other open-minded, grounded people who understand this dynamic and value emotional awareness and mutual respect.

I’m naturally drawn to connections that feel intentional, a bit deeper, and not purely surface-level — whether that leans toward Tantra or simply good energy and presence. No pressure or expectations — just seeing who’s out there and what unfolds naturally.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out ✨

⛔️No unicorn hunters, single men and cheaters.

Thank you!

Sorry not sorry for the longer post, trying to make this as easy as possible for me. Please read the entire ad and do not waste my time. I will not be nice if you try and take your chances anyway.

About Me:

I'm 24 (25 in a few months if that's important to you), queer, polyamorus, and a sub. I have a fair amount of experience in kink, consider myself sexually adventurous, and practice safer sex. I'm tall, alternative, curvy/chubby, and have a lot of nose piercings. I enjoy cooking, ethical true crime media, and Stardew Valley. I'm in a dynamic with a fantastic Dom.

I'm communicative, have a very clear idea of what I'm into and what I'm not into. I do not need anyone to guide me or 'help me explore'. This is definietly not my first rodeo.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for a man to engage in a ddlg type dynamic. I'm not entirely sure what the specifics of that will include, but we can figure it out together. I am NOT looking for something that is entirely sexual or based predominantly around sex. I am not interested in ADBL or age regression.

Some non-negotiable things:

I am not willing to budge on these, even a little bit!

• ⁠Be polyamorous
* ideally aged 30-35 but willing to talk to anyone 27-37
• ⁠Be experienced with both kink and polyamory
• ⁠Live in Melbourne (not just visiting, or travelling here sometimes for work, actually live here)
• ⁠Be queer (ideally bisexual)
• ⁠Be willing to use condoms and get tested

Some of my preferences:

• ⁠Also be alternative
• ⁠Have your own place (my living situation means I can't have people over, if you can't either we'll have to work that out together)
• ⁠Bearded / hairy
• ⁠Feel free to send me a selfie if you're comfortable!

Some absolute no's:

• ⁠Younger than 27
• ⁠Older than 37
• ⁠Submissive
• ⁠Monogamous
• ⁠Not living in Melbourne
• ⁠Inexperienced
• ⁠"Hey, how are you?" messages and nothing else
• ⁠AI messages
• ⁠Booktok Doms
• ⁠Conservatives
• ⁠Have / want kids

Tell me a little about yourself when you message me. Let me know that you hit all of my non-negotiables. Don't go into my messages penis first. I'm not looking to rush into anything and it takes time to develop the trust that is necessary to build a dynamic like this. Tell me what you'd enjoy in a dynamic like this and anything else you'd think is relevant.

ps. if you're on fetlife, feel free to share your username and I'll check you out on there!

I know this is a tough ask, not sure how I will go, but I am looking to find 2 men to fulfil my MFM threesome fantasy in a few weeks, when I visit Sydney for work (disclaimer, I am taken).

Preferably i would like 2 men who have done this together before, and are comfortable together, but no bi stuff required. This is all about me being pleasured by 2 guys.

Ideally you are both fit(ish), none smokers, D&D free, 5,10 and above, and hung/thiccckk.

I am a 5ft3 brunette, curvy, brown eyes, few tatts, nice smile. Shy at first but fun, flirty and cheeky once warmed up.

I will have a hotel in the Inner City so can host.

I live on the goldcoast, also open to guys here too if that works.

If you tick the boxes, please reach out!

Thought I’d try something different for once today. I’m keen to head out for a drink in Sydney city tomorrow evening (Wed 13th May) and would be open to meeting someone from here to join me. Someone who can actually hold a good conversation- engaging and up for a relaxed but interesting chat

Just looking for my older, tall, brunette handsome Aussie!

Honestly, I feel like the usual pattern is posting, chatting for ages...and then either never meeting or it dragging out for weeks… so I’d love to break that cycle this time and keep things simple and spontaneous.

If you’re up for a drink tonight and can match the vibe, send me a message with an intro on yourself! 🙂

28 F from Cairns. Looking for casual texting pals

Alright, giving this a go!

I’m 32, British but currently based in Australia, however happy moving around! I’m at that stage where I’ve got my life fairly together but it’d be nice to have someone to share it (or at least some good conversation and laughs along the way).

A bit about me:

Big film fan, especially the kind that actually sticks with you after it ends
Into meaningful conversations but equally happy chatting nonsense at 2am
Dry sense of humour, a little sarcastic, but not a dick about it
Appreciate loyalty, effort, and people who can actually hold a conversation

What I’m looking for:

Someone 25+ (roughly) who knows what they want or at least knows what they don’t want
Good energy, good communication, and not afraid to be themselves
Open to seeing where things go no pressure, no weird expectations

Bonus points if you:

Can recommend a great film I haven’t seen
Have a dark sense of humour
Don’t disappear mid-conversation
If this sounds like your kind of vibe, drop me a message. Worst case, we have a decent chat. Best case… we’ll see.