u/ComfortableTap4596

I’ve posted here before and had a few good conversations. We’d talk for 2 or 3 days, maybe even move to another app, then suddenly… gone. 😂

I get it. People lose interest. But I’ve realized that a lot of “looking for something long term” doesn’t actually mean long term.

So this time, I’m keeping it simple.

I’m not looking for a pen pal. I’m looking for someone I can actually meet.

Someone who is:

• Single

• Ready to commit

• Done with playing around

• Actually interested in building something

• Willing to eventually meet in person

I’m in the Philippines, so yes, meeting me takes effort. Safety first, always, but if we genuinely click, I’m open to making that happen.

And when we finally meet, I want to find out if there’s enough chemistry for me to think, “Okay… I really want to cuddle this person.” 😂

I want intimacy, but not just intimacy. I want affection, laughter, trust, companionship, and someone I can actually share life with.

If you’re messaging because you’re bored, please don’t.

If you’re looking for the same thing I am, message me. Let’s see where it goes. 🙂

39, Filipino, single parent of a teen. I’ve been single for years, I work, I provide for myself and my daughter, and I’m not looking for a wallet with legs. 😂

I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who actually wants a relationship and, eventually, a life together. I’m not interested in endless chatting with no plan to meet. Let’s get to know each other online, and if we click, come see for yourself. We can talk about the future from there.

I’m open to relocating for the right person, but safety and security come first.

Also, please don’t lead with “cuddles,” sex, or other intimate talk. Yes, I’m an intimate person, but that side of me is for my partner. Get to know me first. You’ll survive. 😂

I’m financially independent (trying to meet ends). Asking for money is not my goal, so please don’t ask me for money. I still believe a man who wants a family should be capable of providing. I can take care of myself, but I’m not looking to raise another dependent.

If you’re serious, emotionally mature, and actually want to build something real, tell me about yourself. Let’s see where this goes.

I'm 39, from the Philippines, and a single mom to a 14-year-old daughter. I've been single for 10 years and have a job that's enough for the two of us. I'm not looking for someone to provide for us.

I'm here because I'd like to find a genuine connection (i worked online for 10years- reason why im here for "genuinity") someone to grow old with and enjoy life alongside. I'm not in a rush, but I'm also not interested in talking for months without any intention of meeting or building something real.

I was in a long-term relationship before, and although it didn't work out, it taught me what I want in a partner.

If my situation doesn't put you off, tell me about yourself. I'd love to get to know you.