r/SLOMWsnark

I find it FUCKING CRAZY that her whole thing about not wanting to be on any form of birth control is because she does want “chemicals” in her body messing with her hormones (which that alone is the most ignorant and uninformed reason to not be on birth control, in my opinion). So if she is on some kind of stimulant, (literal fucking drugs that actually do interact with women’s hormones usually in a non productive way, especially not the way that birth control interacts with your hormones to be actually beneficial) that just further proves that the major reason she doesn’t want to be on birth control is so Dakota (or any man) would get her knocked up and keep him in her orbit forever and also maybe because she thought it would be a way of him “choosing her” (which she constantly talks about how no one chooses her which don’t even get me started on that bullshit). Has anyone else had a similar
thought?

Hey everyone, just want to open the floor for us all to discuss Whitney's weightwatcher cover. Honestly I've never heard of the company as anything other than the butt of the joke; when I showed this post to my offline friends who watch the show, they said it was obvious that she was on ozempic, and it's not just "dancing with the stars" training. Thoughts?

I think Taylor is more pissed and jealous of the fact she can’t follow, or be near, or have any communication with Dakota for the next three years. I think she’s also more upset over that than still having supervised visitations with their son. She was and still is addicted to Dakota she’s basically going through Dakota withdrawals. When you think about it she can’t go to him whenever she wants attention or to hook up with him anymore.

She’s taking her anger out on everyone around her because they’re done kissing her ass and enabling her. Which honestly good for them it’s about time they stood up to her. They’re sick of her always getting a pass for everything and the double standards that are always held between her and everyone else. Something big clearly happened that Taylor doesn’t want to be out in the public.

Because they refused to film with her and paused filming and are now vocalizing how they are not longer supporting her or behavior. Mayci and Mikayla are nosy and want to know what Dakota’s going to do moving forward. Him, his lawyer, and E’s lawyers are just gaining more proof of how erratic and unhinged she is on her own. That she doesn’t need Dakota to provoke her to act the way that she does. Taylor is showing us all more and more of who she really is and the only ones that don’t see that are her delusional fans. What do you guys think?????

After all of the drama that has popped up with Taylor one thing keeps coming to mind that makes me unable to give her the benefit of the doubt..

I forget which episode and season but one day Taylor had Dakota come over to visit and baby Ever had a dirty diaper. She was so focused on Dakota that she let him sit in his dirty diaper until she was done talking to Dakota. Producers made sure to zoom in on that almost as if to say “yo this baby still needs to be changed wtf” subtly with the camera.

I also remember on a reunion Demi said “I’m going to protect your Ever in this situation” so it makes me believe that everyone knew about Taylor neglecting her kids and it wasn’t until the video got leaked that something was done about it.

Obviously this stuff is very sad. But I feel like we should collect this evidence together because each thing on its own is easy to say “oh I understand, it could happen to anyone, no mom is perfect” etc. but i have a feeling like there’s a lot more to the story if everyone including production, co workers/friends, and the father are acknowledging it.

Does anyone else remember that scene?

Mikayla’s whole MO is ganging up on someone and trying to get them kicked off the show. She’s letting being the alleged “fan favourite” get to her head and is on an ego trip.

Her throwing a hissy and not being friends with Jessi anymore bc Mikayla is playing the high school mean girl game of “pick me, choose me, or you’re iced out” She’s got an inflated sense of self.

Just before the TFP vs Mikayla debacle people were turning against Mikayla for constantly leaving rude comments on Jessis posts with Marciano. She’s weird and mean spirited, and the only reason people like her right now is because they hate/are jealous of (even if they won’t admit it) Taylor because of her looks.

Mayci is just a follower. She does what is most socially acceptable at the time. Same for Layla and Miranda.

Also, Mikayla does choose having a rash. Her getting Botox and filler is probably a huge part of her autoimmune disorder but yall not ready for that conversation.

Ok if this is true I’m truly disgusted. People in the comments asked why it wasn’t brought up in court but I wonder if it is because it has to do with Ever? And it would be more a custody thing?

as a survivor of abuse during pregnancy and PP I held a lot of space for taylor to heal. as i’ve dug into the nitty gritty of it, it has only become more and more apparent that she is not trying in the slightest to be better for her kids and is awful to her friends and this is where she has lost a lot of empathy from me. we call ourselves survivors not victims for a reason. choosing to see your self as a victim is keeping yourself stuck in a negative headspace as if you have no control over the situation and you can never truly heal when you view yourself as this “small fragile thing”. I know better than most how mentally fucked it is to be in a relationship like that and how hard it is to accept that at a certain point you’re allowing it to happen. that’s not blaming the victim for being abused it’s acknowledging that you do have the choice to leave and it brings so much shame even when that path brings a whole new set of issues. it took me a year from when the abusive behavior began,9m pregnancy and 3m pp, to work up the courage and also even have the opportunity to get out bc I couldn’t just put me and baby in the street and had talked to several lawyers who all told me I was fucked bc the system doesn’t care and wouldn’t allow me to leave the state and he could keep me trapped there unless I got a police record of abuse that the child was in danger (they don’t care if you’re abused only about the child it’s fucked). I only got out bc I thought of my baby first and didn’t react the way my body was screaming at me to. can’t say that I didn’t want to throw a chair at him several times but I didn’t bc i’d never do something that would risk custody of my kid and their safety or be used against me. having a record of abuse in front of my child specifically by calling the police was the only way I was able to escape out of state to family bc I was a sahm with no resources to escape on my own and shelters terrified me bc i’ve heard horror stories and it felt like staying w the evil I knew was better than going to an evil I didn’t. taylor has all the resources I could’ve only dreamed dreamed about and triple the amount of time to get the courage to cut it completely. it’s not blaming the victim to acknowledge that we have to get ourselves out of the situation bc our abuser isn’t going to just let us go. it’s not blaming the victim to acknowledge that trauma isn’t an excuse to hurt other people. i’m not saying you can’t fight back against abuse i’m saying in this system you have to be smart about it especially when a child’s involved, and with all her lawyers and PR team it’s hard to believe nobody gave her the advice I was given especially after her initial arrest. the girls have every right to finally say enough is enough we won’t be abused just bc you’re in pain.