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Stranger things moment discussion post part 13/100: Trapping and tagging a demogorgon

Stranger things moment discussion post part 13/100: Trapping and tagging a demogorgon

I love this scene! It feels so home alone coded. I love how brave Mike and Lucas are when confronting the demo, I love how relentless Steve is in his chase. I really enjoyed episode 3 of season 5, it was great.

Now it's your turn. What do you think of this scene? Let me know down below. Remember to keep it civil, all opinions are allowed here.

u/Ok-Minute3743 — 14 hours ago

What is an actual plot hole in the show?

And I mean real plot holes not omissions so no missing Suzie or Argyle.

For me it’s how come Sullivan didn’t track Argyle’s pizza van in S4. There is no way they made it across the country in that thing and nobody noticed.

Other than that I don’t see anything truly horrible.

u/RandonDude3000 — 1 day ago
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On a re-watch...

So, I finally have time to re-watch seasons 1 through 4 before watching season 5 and I have thoughts that I definitely did not have the first time I watched. I'm currently on S2 E9.

  1. Steve Harrington was never that bad. I remember first watching the show and thinking, gosh what a douche, but now? When he broke Jonathan's camera, yeah, pretty rude - but Jonathan had taken REALLY creepy photos of Nancy and Steve was protecting her. That's not that crazy. Okay so we thought he was pressuring Nancy to get intimate before she was ready... Except not. He did back off. He does respect her. He is still a horny teen though, what more could we ask? And when Nancy tried dissing the other girls saying she was not like them he called her out by asking if she was calling them sluts. Nancy was being judgmental there, not Steve. Also, when Tommy spray painted that Nancy was a slut at the movies? Seems pretty bad right? So I hate that this is overused but it gets the point across - if a girl (because they are still kids to me in S1) caught her boyfriend lying to her and in bed with another chick and she wanted to call him a coward or man-whore or prick, or burn his clothes or whatever, as society we see that as understandable. She can spread rumors and make fun of his size or performance, whatever, and we just laugh with her, but suddenly in this moment it was the WORST thing ever? No. It was shitty, but the same grace I'd give a hurt girl or woman, I'll give to Steve here. He also cleaned it up himself.

  2. Everyone was RUDE AF to Max! She really did just move to a whole new town very far away from home and all of a sudden the clearly geeky "loser" kids, all male, start following her and creepily watching her. She finally decides to give them a chance and they instantly make her feel like an invasive intrusion that no one asked for. Every single one of them let her down and it's worse for us watching as the audience because we know how shittily she gets treated by her step-brother as well. Mike is going through a lot, sure, but then Dustin who acted like he liked her started snapping on her too! Yes, we know his feelings were briefly hurt because he knew she preferred Lucas and Dustin is by far one of my favorites of this group but Max gets done SO dirty. Then of course El and her jealousy, making her fall off of her skateboard and then dissing her at Will's house. It's actually pretty hard to watch, and yet Max sucks it up, is VERY understanding and as we all know, becomes a fan favorite.

  3. Why El had to meet her "sister". El needed to make a choice. She needed to reconnect with the closest person from her past that would "get" her and then choose her own fate. Instead of seeking revenge and just being angry like her sister, she chose to become a protector. She chose love. She chose to not become the monster. Which is why she will be able to go against Vecna and not join him? Sorry, it's been a while and I have not watched S5 yet.

  4. Billy's attractiveness is a huge reason fans probably gush over him, but we as the audience can also sympathize knowing that he is abused by his father. Also, the actor Dacre Montgomery, right? Um, did he get the praise he deserves for this role? He plays psychotic teen fueled by passion (his lust for moms and rage) VERY freaking well. That was talent. Such a despicable character was able to evoke a whole range of emotions - that took talent beyond just looks. Also his hair is really weird lmfao.

I just wanted to post my thoughts so far because this is a little different from how I first felt about the characters.

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u/peekaboo_bandit — 1 day ago

Stranger things moment discussion post part 12/100: Will is the spy

I love how terrifying it is when we see all the demodogs arrive. I love how quick Mike is to realise somethings wrong, I love how Bob quickly rushes to Mike's side. I just love Bob in general.

Now it's your turn. What do you think of this scene? Let me know down below. Remember to keep it civil, all opinions are allowed here.

u/Ok-Minute3743 — 1 day ago

Stranger things moment discussion part 11/100: Will shows Mike his painting

I love this scene. Not for the reason that a lot of people do as I'm a vehement Mileven shipper, but I love how selfless Will is. He clearly was planning to confess his feelings to Mike, but decided that he'd rather Mike be happy even if he can't be. I love how much happier he makes Mike feel, even though he's left crying. Will is a sweetheart who deserves the world. This lone scene makes me disagree when people say Will's worst season is s4 (he doesn't have a bad season, let's be fr).

Now it's your turn. What do you think of this scene? Let me know down below. Remember to keep it civil, all opinions are allowed here

u/Ok-Minute3743 — 3 days ago
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When will and Jonathan were born

it would not be surprising if Hopper was there for the birth of both of them and even helped give birth to them both. Lori knows he was more of a father to them than Lonnie was.

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u/TriskaidekaphobiaOk5 — 2 days ago

Stranger things moment discussion part 10/100: Ghostbusters montage

I love this for no deeper reason than I love seeing the boys having fun. Simple as that. It is nice to see the different parents and their kids reactions to the photo taking, also Erica's first appearance.

Now it's your turn. What do you think of this moment? Let me know down below. Remember to keep it civil, all opinions are allowed here.

u/Ok-Minute3743 — 4 days ago

Why the government let the party go in the epilogue.

This has long been called a plot hole but the more I think about it the more it makes sense.

Once El disappeared and the Upside Down collapsed you’d have to imagine that the US government was very pissed off but not just at the main cast but also at Dr Kay. Not only did Kay fail her mission but she managed to lose the literal alternate dimension full of potential weapons against the soviets in their backyard.

There was no way Kay could feasibly punish Nancy or Hopper without it coming back to bite her. The government was not going to cover up the disappearance of like 27 civilians including a bunch of kids that had last been seen being dragged to their headquarters. It would be a way too hard process to undergo for someone who had failed them so hard.

It is an all in one package Kay kills one of them and there is an investigation in which all the others would testify against her and the government would let her take the fall. The only person she could feasibly get away with killing is Hopper given that he was already declared dead but that doesn’t change the fact that there would still be witnesses who she can’t kill that would hold her accountable.

Kay also couldn’t lock them up legally as the government would never risk any of the main cast seeing the inside of a courtroom where they could be able to testify and expose their actions.

As a result all they could do was let them go, make them sign an NDA and put them under surveillance which is why Mike then explains his theory using D&D terms.

u/RandonDude3000 — 5 days ago

Welp we are now getting those spinoffs.

Netflix loves money too much not milk this franchise now.

Here is to hoping the spinoffs are good.

The original show and TF85 were great. Please don’t break the streak.

u/RandonDude3000 — 7 days ago

Stranger things moment discussion 10/100: Farah Fawcett and the key to girls

The moment an iconic friendship was born. I love how Steve slowly begins to open up, eventually dropping the secret to his glorious hair. And I love how much Dustin looks up to him. Brilliant scene.

Now it's your turn. What do you think of this moment? Let me know down below. Remember to keep it civil, all opinions are allowed here.

u/Ok-Minute3743 — 6 days ago

Reddit Rates Every Stranger Things Episode - FINAL RESULTS (Day 39)

Sorry about the delay!
Thank you to everyone who voted! This was really fun to do.

Below are a couple interesting stats I wanted to share. The final results of ALL episodes are at the bottom of this post. 

🏅Top 10 Highest Rated Episodes:

#1 - Dear Billy (S4 E4) - 9.84 🥇
#2 - The Gate (S2 E9) - 9.58 🥈
#3 - The Mind Flayer (S2 E8) - 9.48🥉
#4 - Sorcerer (S5 E4) - 9.43
#5 - The Upside Down (S1 E8) - 9.42
#6 - The Massacre at Hawkins Lab (S4 E7) - 9.41
#7 - The Battle of Starcourt (S3 E8) - 9.37
#8 - The Spy (S2 S6) - 9.26
#9 - The Bathtub (S1 E7) - 9.20
#10 - The Body (S1 E4) - 9.08

😓 Top 10 Runners Up:
#11 - The Piggyback (S4 E9) - 9.03
#12 - Holly, Jolly (S1 E3) - 8.97
#13 - The Monster (S1 E6) 8.93

💩Top 5 Lowest Rated Episodes:
#1 - The Lost Sister (S2 E7) - 5.26
#2 - The Vanishing of Holly Wheeler (S5 E2) - 7.30
#3 - The Bridge (S5 E7) - 7.34
#4 - The Turnbow Trap (S5 E3) - 7.42
#5 - The Flayed (S3 E5) - 7.72

📊 Season Averages Ranking:
#1 - Season 1 – 8.89 🥇
#2 - Season 4 - 8.64 🥈
#3 - Season 2 – 8.45 🥉
#4 - Season 3 – 8.33
#5 - Season 5 - 8.00 

🏆 Highest Rated Finale Episode: The Gate (S2) - 9.58
🍅 Lowest Rated Finale Episode: The Rightside Up (S5) - 8.27

📈 Episode that Received the Most Votes/Ratings:
#1 - The Lost Sister (76 votes)
#2 - The Weirdo on Maple Street (65 votes)
#3 - The Gate (62 votes)
#4 - The Piggyback (61 votes)

⭐ Other Interesting Notes:

  • The Top 10 includes the same episodes as the top 10 on IMDb, except “The Body”. 
  • Both “Dear Billy” (4x04) and “The Nina Project” (4x05), remained at the exact same rating even after the vote reopening (9.84 and 8.15 respectively).
  • All episodes’ averages were rated at 7 or higher, except one, “The Lost Sister” (S2 E7)
  • Both Season 1 and Season 2 have three episodes in the Top 10. Season 4 has two, and both Season 3 and Season 5 have one each. 
  • If The Lost Sister had an average 8.0 rating, it’d bump up Season 2’s overall average from a 8.45 to a 8.72, giving it the 2nd highest season average. 
  • "The Massacre at Hawkins Lab" (4x07) ranking at #6 takes a significant drop from its ranking on IMDb as the highest rated ST episode.

Results from the questions in the 5x08 Google Form:
Average Overall Rating of Stranger Things: 9.27 (59 votes)
Average Favourite Season: Season 4 (21 votes)
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After the vote re-opening and final vote count, there was some spam found in some episodes' voting which seemed to be people trying to manipulate the rating for specific episodes. That spam is now omitted and the ratings are now accurately represented.

FINAL RESULTS:

1x01 – 8.72 ⭐ (60 votes)
1x02 – 8.23 ⭐ (65 votes)
1x03 – 8.97 ⭐ (58 votes)
1x04 – 9.08 ⭐ (54 votes)
1x05 – 8.60 ⭐ (55 votes)
1x06 – 8.93 ⭐ (55 votes)
1x07 – 9.20 ⭐ (60 votes)
1x08 – 9.42 ⭐ (50 votes)
Season 1 average – 8.89 ⭐

2x01 – 8.12 ⭐ (57 votes)
2x02 – 8.26 ⭐ (50 votes)
2x03 – 8.48 ⭐ (52 votes)
2x04 – 8.68 ⭐ (60 votes)
2x05 – 8.90 ⭐ (55 votes)
2x06 – 9.26 ⭐ (54 votes)
2x07 – 5.26 ⭐ (76 votes)
2x08 – 9.48 ⭐ (56 votes)
2x09 – 9.58 ⭐ (62 votes)
Season 2 average – 8.45 ⭐

3x01 – 7.86 ⭐ (53 votes)
3x02 – 7.98 ⭐ (49 votes)
3x03 – 8.24 ⭐ (47 votes)
3x04 - 8.61 ⭐ (31 votes)
3x05 - 7.72 ⭐ (29 votes)
3x06 - 8.09 ⭐ (32 votes)
3x07 - 8.78 ⭐ (32 votes)
3x08 - 9.37 ⭐ (40 votes)
Season 3 average – 8.33 ⭐

4x01 - 8.28 ⭐ (38 votes)
4x02 - 7.80 ⭐ (31 votes)
4x03 - 7.93 ⭐ (33 votes)
4x04 - 9.84 ⭐ (58 votes)
4x05 - 8.15 ⭐ (26 votes)
4x06 - 8.71 ⭐ (53 votes)
4x07 - 9.41 ⭐ (54 votes)
4x08 - 8.66 ⭐ (30 votes)
4x09 - 9.03 ⭐ (61 votes)
Season 4 average - 8.64 ⭐

5x01 - 8.17 ⭐ (33 votes)
5x02 - 7.30 ⭐ (43 votes)
5x03 - 7.42 ⭐ (42 votes)
5x04 - 9.43 ⭐ (43 votes)
5x05 - 7.95 ⭐ (26 votes)
5x06 - 8.16 ⭐ (41 votes)
5x07 - 7.34 ⭐ (32 votes)
5x08 - 8.27 ⭐ (59 votes)
Season 5 average - 8.00 ⭐

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u/Tangerine74 — 7 days ago

Stranger things moment discussion part 9/100: Max is next

Never. In my whole life, have I been filled with such a sense of utter dread. Every symptom Max reads as she realises she has every single one. And then the clock. Set up perfectly by Fred seeing the clock and then dying. I was so hyped for episode 4.

Now it's your turn. What do you think of this moment? Let me know down below. Remember to keep it civil, all opinions are allowed here

u/Ok-Minute3743 — 7 days ago
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Hot Take: Mike Wheeler is really the leader and heart of the Party, and he did not lose his leadership qualities in any season.

In my opinion, the claim that 'Mike stopped being the leader after S2' is very ignorant and exaggerated. What did change was the type of leader he's become and the group he's leading.

In S1-2 and S5 Vol1, his leadership is unquestioned. In S3-4 and S5 Vol2, the leadership is shared and distributed, because the cast expands ridiculously.

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Season 3:

I think because season 3 was where the expanding of the cast had started and was huge, people think he isn't leader anymore.

Steve and Dustin have a very different heroic storyline, where Dustin leads. Hopper had his own storyline, and same with Nancy and Jonathan.

Because the narrative was spilt, Mike isn't dominating every major event or decision like he did in S1-2. The leadership was distributed.

But still, he lead the party under pressure. He's proved he's still a leader.

Most of the season, he spends his time focused on El. But focusing on someone who's your top priority doesn't mean your leadership or personality is lost.

In the theatre, he's the one to notice something is wrong with Will, even when Will hadn't expressed anything much.

He's among the first to believe El after she spies on Billy. He pushes the group to treat Billy as a threat rather than dismissing the possibility.

And then, he came up with the Sauna trap. He immediately understood something's wrong with Will and warns Max, saving her.

He was the only one to react immediately and protected Eleven.

He warned everyone that El is exhausting herself. And the season ultimately validated his concern.

I think people often overlook this scene as he's just being overprotective because he's obsessed with her. They miss the depth of his concern which shows he always thinks beyond what's in front.

He does it because it natural for his personality to think more rationally. Once again proving he hasn't lost his core personality traits.

He is definitely the party's tactical leader in S3.

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Season 4:

Many viewers remember Mike mostly as 'Eleven's boyfriend' but if you watch the California storyline closely, he repeatedly takes commands.

In Hawkins, Dustin and Nancy constantly lead the group, discovered things and made plans. Steve and Eddie got heroic action scenes while Lucas carried Max's storyline.

People think Mike has lost his leadership quality because he isn't in Hawkins leading or didn't have any heroic moment. But that's really dismissive.

His leadership quality isn't lost, he's just leading a DIFFERENT group.

Mike took charge immediately after the attack on Byers house

I don't think Will or Jonathan could ever find El by themselves if it wasn't for Mike. Because Will was emotionally overwhelmed, Jonathan distracted and Argyle doesn't know what is even going on. Mike kept them focused and devised their next step.

It was sure a collective effort from all four, and Mike couldn't have done it all alone. Leadership doesn't mean doing things alone, it's coordinating things and devising the next move, which Mike did.

And if they hadn't rescued El in time and got her to the the pizza dough freezer, the Hawkins group would have failed terribly with all of them being dead

And then, his monologue is dismissed as just 'romantic' or 'cheesy confession'. On the surface, it's a romantic declaration.

At a deeper level, it's the culmination of Mike's role throughout the series, in my opinion. And I can definitely back my opinion.

El's real fight isn't with Vecna, it's with herself. Her belief that her worth is confined in her powers. Vecna wins by convincing people that they deserve to lose. His attacks are more psychological than simply physical.

What Mike did, couldn't be done by anyone else. Not Will. Not Jonathan. Not even Max or Hopper.

And I'm not saying this because I ship or not ship Mileven. It has more meaning than romance.

Because the point isn't simply encouragement. Mike knows the exact fear Eleven has hidden since Season 1, because she clearly expressed it during their argument in El's bedroom.

In simple words, her biggest fear is 'If I stop being useful, will anyone still love me?' because, especially in that moment, she had lost the belief in herself that she could beat Vecna and protect Max.

Mike, through his monologue, symbolically says 'Yes' And that answer destroys the foundation of Vecna's manipulation.

His monologue's core message is 'You're worthy of love even when you're powerless.' and 'You are you.' These messages come in disguise as his love confession.

Vecna says your trauma defines you. Mike says your humanity defines you. Those are opposite philosophies and they work cuz the battle is more of ideological.

Ig for fans who think of leadership as just strategy and heroic moments, this monologue can feel underwhelming.

But Stranger Things repeatedly argues that emotional connection is itself a source of strength. Love isn't presented as a side plot, it's portrayed as the opposite of Vecna's worldview.

Just like music anchored Max's strength and escape from her fears, this monologue anchored El's strength.

And I guess the problem isn't the message, the problem is that Mike is giving that encouragement. If anyone other than Mike gave such a monologue (platonic ofc) the view of people would have been different.

Because people constantly dismiss Mike's importance for El as just a romantic love interest and think El shouldn't have an emotional connection to him because he's her boyfriend.

But in S5, it's clearly Lucas's love that anchored Max's second escape, not even her favourite music, she herself says it. But suddenly its different and appreciated.

Anyways, I don't wanna delve deeper into this hypocrisy.

But if it's not leadership and being the 'heart', then I don't know what is. Do people often forget that Eleven is also supposed to be a member of the party?

So yes, I still stick with my opinion that it wasn't just the culmination of Mike's character arc in S4, but the culmination of all his role throughout four seasons, because he didn't just confess his love to his girlfriend, he highlighted that he is indeed the heart.

Man people disliked or felt bored by his character's storyline or initial actions in S4, so they project this on the character's core importance and goodness, completely dismissing it. It's just really unfair.

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Season 5:

Mike Wheeler carried Vol 1 alone imo. And Vol 1 was concluded by Will.

The real problem is with Volume 2.

It's not that JUST him who didn't do anything, basically no one did anything meaningful in Vol 2 except Will saving Max, Lucas protecting Max and Karen blowing off three demos.

It was all about them finding eachother, coming together, explaining everything to each other and devising a plan.

So using Vol 2 to sabotage him and his personality isn't cool when he's done more than any character in volume 1. It's just so forced hatred and idk what, double standards?

People say he's lobotomised. But that's MASSIVELY exaggerated.

I think some people use this sentence as a short hand for saying 'he suddenly lost the intelligence and strategic instincts he'd shown for four seasons.'

And I would definitely believe that claim if he made an irrational decision like Nancy shooting the exotic matter for no reason, or failed to understand things his earlier self would have grasped. But there are no evidence in the series' season 5 that he'd done so.

In my view, he consciously chooses optimism.

That's remarkably consistent for his character. Mike has always been the character who refuses to give up on people, even when logic suggests he should. It's clearly visible across seasons.

This optimism can sometimes look naive because the stakes in S5 are so much larger than before. But optimism isn't the same as stupidity.

That doesn't mean writing choice lands perfectly.

Personally I wanted Mike to have more strategic scenes or more direct influence over the final battle. Many people think that way and that's a fair criticism of the storytelling.

But that's different from saying his personality was erased.

In fact, optimism is Mike's defining leadership trait. His leadership isn't primarily being the smartest person in the room, that's often Dustin.

It has come from convincing people that it's worthy to keep going on and believe. He calmed down Karen in the hospital in the way I don't think anyone could in that moment.

If Mike also became the cynical realist, the group would lose its emotional anchor. His function is to keep everyone moving forward when despair would be the easier choice.

One could say 'we don't find enough evidence to it'. Of course, the whole series isn't about this only so there aren't many moments, but still enough to support this.

That said, it's also fair to say the writers gave him fewer opportunities to demonstrate his strategic intelligence in the later seasons than they did in Seasons 1 and 2.

That can create the impression that he's less capable, even if his core characterization remains consistent.

We have to remember it's an ensemble cast where the smallest moments became the whole personality of some characters.

They did something just twice or thrice during the entire series and suddenly they are famous for it and nobody can beat them in it.

But Mike has constantly proved his leadership throughout series. And suddenly, when the focus shifts from him even for the slightest, people say he lost personality. That's utterly hilarious.

Double standards peaked imo.

"Lobotomized" suggests Mike stopped thinking. "Optimistic" suggests Mike kept believing. The latter fits his characterization across all five seasons much better.

And then in the finale, his arc was ended with being the heart. The party's friendship had gone through a lot in the previous 6 years, many ups and downs. But they all came together at last and that moment did highlight Mike's journey of years as being the heart.

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Who's the real leader?

And finally, some people say Dustin is the real leader of the Party.

Five seasons of Stranger Things doesn't support this statement.

I would, anyone would, definitely agree he's the 'brain' of the party. But definitely not the heart or the leader when he's barely interacted with Will or El after S2 and Max in S5. Mike has interactions with every member in every season.

In Season 3, Dustin is not with the party and in season 5 also, he's struggling with his grief over Eddie, and constantly pushed his friends aside.

Season 4 makes it look like he's the leader. But let's recall the party members once again - Mike, Max, Dustin, El, Lucas and Will.

Three members were in California and three were in Hawkins. Mike led those who were in Cali and Dustin those who were in Hawkins.

So in true sense, nobody led the Party in season 4, instead they lead their respective groups.

In general, Dustin explains complicated ideas to both the audience and the characters. As a result, people remember Dustin explaining things and assume he's leading. But explaining isn't the same as directing.

Dustin is almost always the smartest person in the room. But intelligence doesn't automatically equal leadership.

Mike isn't necessarily the one discovering things, that's often Dustin or Will(through hive mind), but he's the one converting information into action.

Dustin cracks information. Mike decides what everyone does with that information.

Leaders coordinate. One of Mike's defining traits is delegation.

Many of the plans that succeed require both characteristic. Brain of the group figures out how something works, and leader figures out who should do what to turn that knowledge into a coordinated plan.

That's why, the two complement each other rather than replace one another.

Mike is the leader and heart and Dustin is the brain. Lucas is more of an executor while Will imo the emotional compass, especially in the first two and fifth season.

In S1, Mike's was undoubtedly carrying the group emotionally, even Dustin and Lucas. It just got subtler as the series advances.

Because after growing up, his friends are not always gonna rely on him emotionally. It's such a common sense.

Being heart doesn't mean that. Being the heart means always bringing everyone together, which he clearly did in S1 to S3 and S5.

His storyline in S4 just didn't give him a chance to bring everyone together or directly influence all of the party, but still he emotionally anchored El's strength.

The series never provide any evidence that he's not the heart. His decisions and actions, whether right or wrong, always have an impact on most of them.

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My Conclusion:

So, the statement that 'Mike isn't the real leader of the Party after S2' is contradicted by the show itself.

I would rather say that his leadership evolved.

I understand that people had a lot of expectations from Mike in S4 that all went down due to narrative choice and Cali plot. But projecting this frustration on the character to demean him is wrong.

In my opinion three observations are the reasons of this claim that he's not the leader anymore. 1.He spends more time focused on Eleven. 2.The cast becomes much larger. 3.Steve and Nancy receive more action scenes.

These things make him appear less dominant because not everything happens according to his guide, like in S1 which had much smaller cast. Leadership becomes collaborative instead of centered on one person. But that doesn't mean he's not leading anymore as I explained above in this post

Just like other characters, Mike also had his own moments to shine but he can't have all screentime to prove he's worthy (as expected by many) because it's an ensemble cast where everyone needs screentime and moments to drive the plot.

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With all this being said, do I defend show's inconsistent shitty writing? No.

I do criticize writers for not giving Mike better storyline, better arc and action packed heroic moments.

I only defend Mike as a character from mischaracterizations.

I don't disagree that Mike as a character was heavily underutilised, especially in Season 4 and his arcs were only about his relationship with Eleven in S3 and S4.

Many people don't like his character. They think his storyline got boring or annoying to watch after S2. They criticize that his arc was only about Eleven in S3 and S4. And that's completely fine because everyone has their own opinion.

But it is wrong and senseless to demean his character and dismiss the core traits and goodness of his personality because of the narrative choice and storyline.

Saying that he became useless in Season 4 just because he wasn't the part of the Hawkins plot is completely false. Because whatever plot and less screentime he got, he did meaningful things and clearly displayed his strong personality.

He never lost his core personality traits or goodness and definitely his WHOLE personality wasn't reduced to Eleven, it was just his storyline was reduced to Eleven in S4. There's a difference.

Mike's character is HEAVILY objectified and treated as a trophy in ship wars post S4 by fans. And it's partially writing's fault.

Rather than treating him as a character and giving him an independent arc, writers treated him as plot device for El and Will's development. And the writing choice definitely deserves SEVERE criticism for it.

But he hasn't done ANYTHING for which he should be hated. All of his actions in S3 and S4 were clearly understandable by anyone who has even an ounce of media literacy.

Mike's dragged through mud for things that other characters also did and they got away with it.

When Mike does something wrong, nobody ever forgives it even when he corrects all of his mistakes. But when favourite characters do something wrong, people get triggered if someone even just points it out.

Criticism is fair, but criticism includes both good and bad aspects, especially considering the character's perspective. While all I see is people baselessly hating an emotionally oblivious teenager because he didn't get good storyline.

Trust me he doesn't even deserve a quarter of it. They casually go around throwing words like 'toxic', 'lobotomised' instead of reasonable criticism.

It's ridiculous that people expect him to be flawless and suppress all of his emotions and desires just because he is the leader and then proceed to deny the fact that he's the leader.

I wish people had more media literacy. And I also wish people don't treat him with the goddamn hypocrisy and double standards they have.

You're free to dislike and criticize Mike, especially in later seasons. But please stop pretending he has no personality and hating him baselessly.

Thanks for reading.

u/DangerousRefuse8129 — 10 days ago
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The Tragedy of Loving Completely

This post isn't just about what happened to Mike and Eleven at the end, it's more about Mike's psychology that's probably not talked about. It's about the false belief that he has carried since he was twelve.

I don’t think “leader” is what completely defines Mike Wheeler. Leadership is simply the way his personality presents itself. At his core, Mike is someone who loves with complete commitment.

When Mike lets someone into his life, he doesn't do it halfway. Whether it's Will, Eleven, Dustin or Lucas, his relationships are never casual. He gives people an extraordinary amount of trust, loyalty, and emotional importance. Once someone becomes his person, they become part of his identity. That is why every loss affects him so deeply. And that is the key to understanding Mike across all five seasons.

Mike’s defining trait isn’t hope or leadership, it’s guardianship.

Hope is how he presents it. Leadership is how it looks from the outside. Loyalty is how other people experience it. But underneath all of that is one pretty consistent drive: Mike instinctively feels responsible for the emotional and physical safety of the people he loves, even when that responsibility was never actually his to carry. That one idea explains almost everything he does across the series.

It explains why he throws himself into finding Will in Season 1, why he takes Eleven into his home without hesitation, why he initially resists Max's involvement in Season 2, why he stays beside Will when everyone else struggles to understand him and ultimately, it explains why losing Eleven affects him so profoundly. Because to Mike, losing someone he loves never feels like something that simply happened. It feels like something he should have prevented.

Season 1:

He feels he's responsible for protecting Will. He tries to find him and save him. He refuses to believe something wrong could've happened to him. He jumps off a cliff for Dustin without a second thought. No matter how much he argued with Lucas, he cared about him deeply and freaked out at the idea of him being hurt.

Mike’s relationship with Eleven starts with protection. He’s the first person to give her shelter, ask her to trust him, and make her feel like she belongs somewhere. In a way, he quietly promises her she’ll be safe with him. Then she sacrifices herself. He doesn't just lose someone he loves, he loses the first person who completely trusted him. Despite everything he did, she disappears anyway. The show never has Mike say, "I failed her." But from this point onward, his behaviour suggests that he quietly carries exactly that belief.

The tragedy is that nobody ever challenges it. No one tells him that Eleven's sacrifice was never his responsibility. Life just moves forward with him carrying this guilt of failure.

Season 2:

The radio calls are one of the clearest windows into Mike's psychology. He's unable to emotionally accept a world in which she is gone. Logically, he has every reason to stop. Emotionally, he can't. Because stopping would mean saying goodbye. And saying goodbye would mean accepting two unbearable ideas at the same time, one that Eleven is gone, and the other that he couldn't protect the first person who ever trusted him so completely.

As long as he keeps calling, the relationship isn't truly over. The radio becomes less about expecting an answer and more about postponing a goodbye he cannot bear to make. It's the only way he knows how to survive a loss he cannot emotionally carry.

The same idea explains how he acts toward Max. It’s not really that he dislikes her because she’s “replacing” Eleven. He never has a problem with Lucas or Dustin being friends with her. His resistance is more personal. After losing Eleven, letting someone else in again becomes emotionally difficult, because for Mike, attachment and responsibility are basically the same thing.

This becomes even clearer when Will’s condition gets worse. Mike immediately shifts into protector mode, staying close to Will, believing him when others don’t, and refusing to leave his side. His choice not to tell Max about the Upside Down follows the same pattern. It’s not just distrust, it feels more like Mike trying to keep another person from getting pulled into a world that has already taken too much from him. Letting Max in doesn't just mean telling her the truth, it means accepting responsibility for another person. And after Eleven, that's a responsibility he can barely bear.

Seasons 3 and 4:

Seasons 3 and 4 don’t really change Mike’s personality, they just expose another side of it. The crisis is no longer losing Eleven, it's living with the fear that he still could.

Season 3 shows him trying to hold onto a relationship that finally feels normal after so much pain. Beneath the awkwardness and teenage arguments is someone who has already experienced unimaginable loss once and is terrified of experiencing it again.

Season 4 deepens that fear, given he's experienced an unexpected and unreasonable breakup for 'failing' again and the distance just amplified it. Mike spends much of the season worrying that he is failing Eleven, not physically this time, but emotionally. He worries his love isn't enough. That insecurity is the same wound from Season 1 wearing a different face.

Season 5:

The finale brings Mike right back to the place that shaped him in Season 1. When he loses Eleven again, his first instinct isn’t to blame fate, military or Vecna. He blames himself. “I should’ve had a real one.”(plan) That line explains Mike better than almost any other. Whenever someone he loves gets hurt, he immediately looks for what he did wrong. His grief always turns inward first.

What makes Mike tragic isn't just that he loses Eleven twice. It's that each loss reinforces the same false belief he has carried ever since he was twelve years old, "If I had been smarter, braver or planned better, the people I love wouldn't leave." It's an impossible standard. Yet it's the one he instinctively holds himself to. All this when he himself was barely an adult. It was his age of receiving emotional security, not providing.

That’s why the D&D monologue matters so much. It actually mirrors the radio calls from Season 2. Both are ways of refusing to emotionally let go of Eleven. The difference is that by the end of Season 5, there’s a small but important shift. He still wishes he had made a better plan, but he’s no longer trying to undo what happened or reach her physical. Instead he preserves her in his memories.

Mike doesn't actually overcome his core wound. He simply finds a less destructive way of living with it. The boy who called Eleven every night and the man who tells the D&D story are doing fundamentally the same thing. They're refusing to emotionally abandon the person they love.

Conclusion:

He loves completely. He believes in people before they believe in themselves, trusts them without hesitation, and quietly takes on responsibilities that were never his to carry. That’s what makes him such a loyal friend, such a devoted partner, and someone people naturally rely on.

Perhaps that's his greatest strength, and perhaps it's also the source of his tragedy. He never stops carrying the people he loves with him, even when carrying them means carrying grief that never fully ends.
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