r/Sudan

صروب
دراويش
ميرا ولا ميريا ما متاكد
نكس/بنكسو
يجسجس
القومي
بينتجنج
محمش

Hi guys,

I want to meet people from Darfur, Nuba mountains/South Kordofan, Blue Nile & basically other Afro-Sudanese ppl more broadly. Outside Sudan obviously.

Where is their diaspora? Middle east? USA? Europe? and which kind of cities? are they friendly with other Black people?

Fascinating article: Syrians of African origin in Jleen reflects blend of Haurani traditions.
Did you guys know this??

ي شباب اخوكم ناوي على زواج ان شاء الله.... بسال لو عايز اعمل فحص شامل للجسم من الامراض وفحص ذكورة وين انسب مكان امش عليهو ومطلوب شنو في زول عندو فكرة ؟

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has anyone here tried work online as a freelance before?! , how much can u roughly earn?! , and what apps or websites?!

could someone help by giving suggestions or advice

tnx

اخوكم متحير ما عارف ادخل شنو ادونا نصايح و احكوا تجاربكم.

3 years of unemployment because of this fuckass war it’s getting it’s tole on me

يخوانه اتخيلو رحلت جمبنا (الامارات) وحده مع بناتها و اولادها و راجلها. المهم قلنا نمشي نزورهم نتعرف عليهم و الامور كانت طيبة المره ظريفه و راجلها برضو ظريف جا سلم عاادي و كان سأل اذا الحله ملانه سودانيه قلنا ليهو ايوا اكيد و بعداك خشه في صمت. ما اتوقعت شي يعني ..

اتقابلنا تاني بعديها بي كم يوم ، المرا دي امي سألتها كونسه راجلها شغال شنو..مشت بي كل فخر و بلا تردد قالت انو راجلها شغال مع حميدتي و هو يد حميدتي اليمنى و فوق ده كلو ببقا ليهو ود عمو باختصار شديد دعااامي..

الصدمه الخشت فيني اليوم داك تاني ما مرقت . بقت ياهو بتتكلم انو يوم عرست، حميدتي و برهان كانو حاضرين العرس و الفيلا المأجراها دي أجرها ليها حميدتي بقروشو و لو هم محتاجين أي حاجه ياهو حميدتي برسل ليهم و الامور بخير…

غايتو حسبي الله و نعم الوكيل ، كلما ما اتذكر اني خشيت بيت دعامة بجيني مغص عديل. القروش العندهم دي كلها من دم السودانيين الماتو و الاستشهدو بسبب حميدتي و البرهان …

Cheikh Anta Diop smiling right now 😏

This is more of a vent post than anything (tho i would like an explanation for why this behavior keeps happening), but im really tired and angry at how certain extended relatives are always leeching off others. I even hope to break this dumb trend that plagues so many sudani families.

I understand that the situation in sudan is terrible due to a corrupt stealing government and the ongoing war, leaving the majority of its ppl very poor. It follows that every sudani would have several family members in need of financial support to live decently and safely. My frustration is not with them and i fully believe they need all the assistance they can get.

However, my problem is with the extended (or sometimes close!) relatives who have a weird sense of entitlement over others money and even guilt trip and manipulate them for it, when they are not in a dire situation and have other avenues to get money.

Ive heard countless stories of extended relatives guilt tripping my dad and begging him for money, even when he sometimes genuinely doesnt have anything to give. They assume that since he lives and works in the gulf he is drowning in money, even though life is very expensive for foreign residents here, esp with kids.

Worst part is that these relatives usually have working children/siblings, or children old enough and qualified to work and yet they never ask them for money or pressure them to get jobs bc ‘theyre young and need to live their lives’. Ok and what about my dad’s life? What about his own family? Wouldn’t he also wanna live life with his hard-earned money? They never consider (or care abt) this.

Ive also heard of stories of my mom lending loans of so much value to so many relatives, only to never have them returned even if its been years! She reminds them, they promise to return it and then nothing is ever returned, not even partial! And bc of courtesy she feels she cant bring it up again. How is this acceptable and common?

I asked my parents why do they keep doing this, why not refuse sending money, why not even involve a legally binding document for the loans, and the answer always boils down to ‘oh its shameful oh what will ppl say abt us oh its rude’. Ill never understand this bc imo its infinitely more shameful and rude to steal money from and keep leeching off your own relatives like this.