r/SydneySingles

28f4M

Hello everyone

I’m a warm, genuine, and easygoing person who enjoys good conversations, laughter, and making meaningful connections. I’m a hairstylist, so I’m naturally creative and love helping people look and feel their best.

In my free time, I enjoy music, travelling, trying new places, staying active, and spending quality time with people I care about. I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, and good communication.

I’m here to meet someone genuine who is ready to build a meaningful connection. I believe the best relationships start with friendship, mutual resp ect, trust, and plenty of laughter. If you’re kind-hearted, honest, and know what you want, I’d love to get to know you.

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u/Old-Combination873 — 9 hours ago

25 F4M

Hey everyone!

Thought I’d put myself out there even though it can be over daunting.

I enjoy going to the gym, reading and spending time outdoors.

I'm looking for someone who's genuine, kind, and knows what they want. Someone who enjoys good conversation, has their own interests and goals, and is looking for something that could turn into a real relationship if there’s a connection. I’m not looking for a fling or anything short term.

It'd be nice to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors too. I'm just looking for someone to share life together.

If you think you fit the gig, I'd love to hear from you. Please don’t write a one word message. Tell me about yourself.

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u/Lost_Employ_1115 — 1 day ago

35M4F Hopefully this is the alternative to dating apps.

Hey, first of all I just want anyone who reads this to ignore the username it was made a joke and never considered finding anything serious on here but priorities have changed. I'm from South West Sydney and just looking for someone who I can do life's adventures with. I'm easy going, respectful, and down for anything fun. I don't go out much anymore as all my close mates have families so it would be nice to not be the odd one out. I'm not picky with what I'm looking for if we connect, have good chat and get along that's fine by me. Would love to hear from anyone that is keen.

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u/BigDickStuey — 2 days ago

22 F4M Looking for cute dates and yap sessions after a long day?

Well I’ll be frank it’s horrible for women on dating apps as well…

Which brings me here, where people can anonymously hit me up beyond the “hey” and “hi” before the timer runs out.

(If you message me with just “Hi” or “Hey” i will block you)

I am looking for something more meaningful and intentional, all good if we stop at friendship but please don’t be dry in conversations.

Open to all age really so long as you’re fun to talk to!

P.s. if you send me a DP that’s an instant block as well.

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u/Allergictograss6969 — 2 days ago

34 [M4F] 6ft – Heavily Tattooed IT Guy Looking for Something Genuine

34, Aussie born, of French heritage, and work in IT. Heavily tattooed (full Japanese bodysuit), but definitely more of an introvert than a party guy.

I spend most of my free time at the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, watching Dota 2, following esports, trying new restaurants, or having a quiet night in with a good series. I’m big on loyalty, honesty, and communication.

I’m looking for a genuine long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together. Having a family is important to me, and I’d love to have 2–3 kids one day. Ideally, you’re kind, don’t smoke, aren’t into partying every weekend, and you’re ready for something real.

If that sounds like you, send me a chat. I’d love to get to know you. feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.

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u/Nerd-with-tattoos — 2 days ago

40M4F - Penrith

40M Single, lives alone, owns his home, has kids and doesn't want more.

Exparamilitary, I've done things, I don't care about delicate words or sensitivities. I tell jokes, I laugh a lot, I sing, I can barrel roll through a drama and come out with smiles, because I've done harder things and dating or relationships aren't hard things.

I was raised by people who were born in 1940 and survived the great depression.... If you want something, go get it... if you cant.. then you don't get it.

If you break it replace it, if you pick it up, you put it back, if you open it, you close it...

I can speak fluent please and thank you, and fire rocks and rockets when they're absent.
I'm not here to parent someone who failed to be raised.

My life isnt hard, its quite easy, everything is paid for... the hardest part is dealing with people who get upset when the sun rises..

SO! feel free not to be one of them and hit me up, lets go for a river walk, do a coffee, do a phone call! I'm here to people!

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u/Scary_Temperature707 — 3 days ago

25 F4M

Hey everyone!

Thought I’d put myself out there even though it can be over daunting.

I enjoy going to the gym, reading and spending time outdoors.

I'm looking for someone who's genuine, kind, and knows what they want. Someone who enjoys good conversation, has their own interests and goals, and is looking for something that could turn into a real relationship if there’s a connection. I’m not looking for a fling or anything short term.

It'd be nice to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors too. I'm just looking for someone to share life together. One preference I do have is that I prefer someone within my age range (+7 years)

If you think you fit the gig, I'd love to hear from you. Please don’t write a one word message. Tell me about yourself.

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u/Lost_Employ_1115 — 3 days ago

32 M4F Single & Apparently Still Looking 😅

I’m 32, have my life reasonably together, and somehow still haven’t been claimed. So here we are. 😂
I’m an easygoing, loyal guy who enjoys good conversations, spontaneous plans, trying new places, and laughing at things that probably aren’t even that funny. I’m big on honesty, communication, and treating people properly—apparently those are important things, who knew?
I’m not looking for someone who ticks every box because, honestly, I don’t even know what half the boxes are. I’m just hoping to meet someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and fun to be around.
Ideally, I’d like to find someone who can be my best friend, partner in crime, and the person I annoy for the rest of our lives. Someone to share good times with, support each other through the stressful ones, and argue over where we’re ordering dinner from. 🍕😂
If you’re looking for something genuine and can handle terrible jokes, questionable dance moves, and someone who will probably steal your fries… we might get along.

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u/noturbusiness987 — 4 days ago

25 F4M

Hey everyone!

Thought I’d put myself out there even though it can be over daunting.

I enjoy going to the gym, reading and spending time outdoors.

I'm looking for someone who's genuine, kind, and knows what they want. Someone who enjoys good conversation, has their own interests and goals, and is looking for something that could turn into a real relationship if there’s a connection. I’m not looking for a fling or anything short term.

It'd be nice to meet someone who enjoys the outdoors too. I'm just looking for someone to share life together. One preference I do have is that I prefer someone within my age range (+7 years)

If you think you fit the gig, I'd love to hear from you. Please don’t write a one word message. Tell me about yourself.

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u/Lost_Employ_1115 — 5 days ago

42M4F | 6’0” | Indian Australian | Looking to meet someone genuine

Hi everyone,

I’m a 42-year-old Indian Australian, 6’0”, working as a professional in Sydney and based in Lower North Shore Sydney.
I’m hoping to meet someone who is kind, curious, and looking for a genuine long-term relationship. I enjoy good conversations, exploring Sydney, trying new cafés, museums, live performances, movies, and the occasional weekend adventure.

With the weather looking a bit ordinary this weekend, I thought I’d put myself out there. If you’d enjoy getting to know someone over a museum visit, a movie, a café, or another low-key activity, I’d love to hear from you.

A little about me:
- No kids, never smoke
- Professional with a stable career
- value honesty and kindness
- Enjoy learning new things and meaningful conversations
- Looking for a real connection rather than endless texting

If this sounds like we might get along, feel free to send me a message. Happy to exchange a few messages first and see if we click.

Looking forward to meeting someone special.

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u/OverExplorer6255 — 8 days ago

33F4M | Looking for someone to steal my weekends

Hi! Thought I'd give this a shot.

I'm 33, female, from the Central Coast, Australian-born with Balkan roots. I’ll leave the country as a little guessing game and if you guess it correctly, I’ll buy you a coffee. ☕️

The last couple of years have been pretty focused on work and studying, so my dating and social life has taken a bit of a back seat. I'm finally at a point where I'd like to meet someone and hopefully finding a genuine connection outside of spreadsheets and textbooks.

I'm looking for someone around a similar age (mid to late 30s), Balkan background, who is kind, emotionally mature, has a good sense of humour who can laugh my socks off, and is genuinely ready to build something meaningful long term.

A perfect weekend to me isn't anything too complicated — grabbing a coffee, wandering around a farmers' market, going for a scenic drive, playing tennis, bike riding, taking a coastal walk, or finding a little café we've never tried before.

A few random things about me:

- Family is really important to me, and I'd love to have one of my own someday.

- I love cooking, especially when there's someone to cook for.

- I'm pretty private, calm and low-key. A little shy at first, but definitely cheeky once I'm comfortable.

- No tattoos, non-smoker.

- Never married, no kids.

- Not on dating apps.

- I barely drink, but on a special occasion or with good company, you'll probably find me with a Malibu and Coke. 😄

I live and work on the coast, but I'm happy to make the trip to Sydney for the right person. I actually like the idea of having the best of both worlds — city adventures one weekend, beaches and coastal sunsets the next.

I think the little things matter: good conversation, laughing at terrible jokes, sending each other random memes, remembering favourite food/places, holding hands on walks, and genuinely looking forward to seeing each other.

Chemistry is important, of course, but kindness, consistency and emotional availability are what really catch my attention.

So if this sounds like your kind of vibe, and distance isn't an issue, feel free to send me a message.

You could tell me your favourite weekend adventure, your go-to coffee order, or try your best terrible dad joke. And if you think you've worked out the Balkan country, take your guess. 😉

Worst case, we have a good chat. 👍

Best case, we end up telling people we met on Reddit and have to explain that it actually worked. 😄

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u/BreakingBiscuits — 10 days ago

31M4F | New-ish to Sydney, looking for dates, banter & maybe something solid

31(M4F), recently moved to Sydney from Brisbane. Keen to meet someone for a good date, and open to it turning into something more solid if we get along. Dating apps have been predictably titillating, but I’ve kind of lost interest in them. Thought I’d try my luck on Reddit and see if I’m missing something.

Indian background, 5’11” (if height matters to you). I work full time in marketing/design and I’m also a film photographer. My work’s been featured in Photo Vogue Global, magazines and exhibitions, and I was Runner Up for Asia Australia’s Top Emerging Photographers 2026.

I’m fairly laid back, friendly, a bit nerdy and politically aware. I like being creative, working on projects and learning new things. I have a pretty dry sense of humour, enjoy a bit of banter and appreciate someone who can give it back.

Would be nice to find someone for dinners, crafty Sunday arvos, hikes, galleries, gigs, touristing Sydney with no real plan, or sitting in a park reading our books (strictly fiction)
Not in a rush to put a label on anything. Just looking to meet someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with and see where it goes.

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u/ReporterMedical3886 — 9 days ago

20 [M4F] Sydney , giving this a shot lol

20m, uni student in Sydney. Honestly just here to meet someone around my age, talk for a bit and see where it goes.
I’m pretty social, love going out/exploring Sydney, gym, movies and random spontaneous plans. Also very much down to just chill and yap about absolutely anything 😭

5’11, South Asian if that matters. Happy to swap pics pretty early on.

Not really going in with any expectations, if we vibe we vibe. Hmu :)

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u/Big_Conference_4500 — 9 days ago

38 [M4F] CBD

(Repost) 38M Singaporean, 1.84m, will be in Sydney CBD area today till 16th Aug 2026. (In fact anyone free for a walk and talk tonight?) Looking for women who are intellectuals, witty, and perhaps with sweet candour and lighthearted humour. HMU.

I’m a firm believer of therapy and hoping you’re emotionally attuned and done your work too. I will be visiting bars and museums, coastal walks, mini hikes, and standup comedy sets or a morning sunrise thing, this week till 16th and if you’re free right now (Thursday night), Friday or Saturday, drop me a message!

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u/Vegetable-Collar-512 — 8 days ago

31F4M - Western Sydney

Happily single, but every now and then my grandma gets bored and tries to remind that it might actually be nice to have a lovely man around.

I’m feminine, tall (179cm), athletic, practical, curious, and a little hard to categorise. I love getting dressed up, having a laugh over good food and good music, and admiring beautiful things, but I’m just as happy choking someone out in BJJ, trail running, woodworking, gardening, art, DIY, or learning some increasingly niche skill for whatever project has taken over my life that week. I’m the kind of woman who wears makeup while gardening because it has SPF, then somehow ends up deep-diving drill bits and power tools. Definitely a ‘looks like a cinnamon roll, could kill you’ kinda vibe.

Most of my interests turn into projects, quests, rabbit holes, or mildly unhinged money making schemes with my girlfriends. I’m ambitious and intensely curious, but also deeply unserious. I laugh a lot, love quick wit, taking the piss, and conversations that can swing from genuinely interesting to completely ridiculous in about thirty seconds.

I love hiking, camping, remote beautiful places, vibrant cultures, my very questionable LATAM Spanish, too much YouTube, and slow days with my grandma doing Dolce Vita for hours.

I tend to like men who are grounded, kind, generous, capable, and have built a good life of their own. An established career, financial sense, emotional steadiness, and general adult competence go a long way. Competence is extremely attractive to me. Teach me something oddly specific, fix something, make me laugh, bring me something you made or found and do what you say you’re going to do.

Ultimately, I’d love a genuine partnership where we respect each other, make each other’s lives better, and have a lot of fun doing it.

I don’t date much because I genuinely enjoy my own life, so you’d need to be someone who makes me think: hmm… you might actually be better than whatever weird project I had planned for Saturday.

That’ll probably get me.

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u/Dangerous_Soil_1111 — 12 days ago

19 [M4F] - Looking for a potential long term relationships

I’m looking for a potential long term relationship, but till I find someone I’m down to be cuddle buddies/romantic…

I live around the Eastern Suburbs, 5,10, white, long honey blonde hair, blue eyes… I work part time in construction, going into the army reserves, I have my own temporary place… in my own time like like to read, train, practice art, and more… I’m also into weird and unconventional things (in a good way).

I’m looking for a girl ranging between 18-22, I like women who are feminine (sue me)… I also like women who are alternative or who have style. Also being pretty is a plus.

There’s a lot more that can be said but I’d rather talk in our DMs 🫡

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u/Real_Nerve8414 — 10 days ago

43 [M4F] Western Sydney – looking to meet someone 30–43

Recently single and slowly getting back out there.
Open to meeting a woman or even just making new friends with anyone, grabbing a coffee, going for a walk or doing something fun and seeing if we click.
I’m into technology, walking, exploring Sydney and new experiences. Currently enjoying rebuilding a quieter, simpler life after a long relationship.
Not looking to rush anything — just curious to see who I might meet.

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u/OperationOne3093 — 14 days ago