r/SydneySingles

33 F4M - long term relationship

Helloooo

I posted about the week ago and thought I’d post again and see what happens.

I’m finally ready for something long term after getting my shit together, except for my dream job which is taking longer than planned. I don’t think it’s gonna happen anytime soon so…

I’m Aussie born Vietnamese and work for NSW Health. I own my own apartment, car and have a 3YO cat.

I’m tan, curvy, 5”3.

Ideally, I have a preference for men older than me, straight and monogamous.

Thank you ☺️

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u/Ricebun93 — 1 day ago

35f4m any other single cat lovers?

Ideally under 30-45, white, fit and taller than me 174cm and no tattoos no smoking

Looking for something more long term and willing to share face pics on reddit

u/darlinglum — 1 day ago

36M4F Chatswood Ryde Area, looking for a friend!

hello! I’m looking to chat with someone first, hopefully it leads to a meeting! White European guy, full time employed, honest, sincere and down to earth :D

ice creams are delicious, allow me to buy you one

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u/Humble_Bed_7154 — 2 days ago

27 [F4M] lets's go karting

I know this is a bit random but I've been wanting to go karting for ages and none of my friends are into it. I genuinely love it. Something about being behind the wheel and going full throttle just switches my brain off completely. Work gets intense and this is honestly one of the few things that actually works.

Been looking up tracks around Sydney lately and found a few worth checking out and wanna go to go karts sydney. Would be good to find someone who's actually keen rather than halfinterested. Doesn't have to be a whole thing, just show up, race, maybe grab food after.

So if you're in Sydney and don't mind getting beaten, are you actually down or just going to say you are?

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u/woutr1998 — 7 days ago

25 [F4M]

Hey! I’m 25 years old from Australia. I come from a middle eastern background and I’m looking for someone to chat to or develop into something more. I would prefer to meet someone who is also from a similar background and 26-33.

I’m a quiet and shy person but once I’m comfortable I’m easy going, loyal and enjoy a good laugh. I love to spend time outdoors in nature. I enjoy reading, gym, watching documentaries and hiking and I’m definitely open to other interesting hobbies that pique my interest along the way.

I value family, loyalty and honesty and would like to meet someone kind with good values who want something real.

If this has piqued your interest and sounds like something you are willing to explore send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. Please mention your age and location when you message.

I won’t be responding to any accounts labelled NSFW. Take care.

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u/Kindly-Concern-3401 — 5 days ago

33F4M - looking for a partner

I am an Aussie born Vietnamese looking to date and find something long-term. I am a healthcare worker at a hospital near the city but live around the Strathfield area. I own my apartment and I have a a 3YO cat I adopted 6ish months ago.

I am open to all ethnic backgrounds but prefer straight men my age and older.

I’m not good at describing myself so happy to exchange pics.

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u/Ricebun93 — 9 days ago

25 [F4M]

Hey! I’m 25 years old from Australia. I come from a middle eastern background and I’m looking for someone to chat to or develop into something more. I would prefer to meet someone who is also from a similar background and 26+.

I’m a quiet and shy person but once I’m comfortable I’m easy going, loyal and enjoy a good laugh. I love to spend time outdoors in nature. I enjoy reading, gym, watching documentaries and hiking and I’m definitely open to other interesting hobbies that pique my interest along the way.

I value family, loyalty and honesty and would like to meet someone kind with good values who want something real.

If this has piqued your interest and sounds like something you are willing to explore send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. Please mention your age and location when you message.

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u/Kindly-Concern-3401 — 7 days ago

33 F4M - North Shore

Let’s talk about something that excites you.

I’m a little sick right now and in the midst of change in so many aspects of life, it would be nice to find someone grounded in themselves whilst also having a silly side. (I don’t want to talk about my problems, I have them under control for now, I’m looking for distraction and depth)

I look after my mind and my body and I’m constantly self improving or doing informed research into a white paper from the 1930’s that will help cure someone close to me.

If you had a little glimpse into my mind, you would see that I have 9,781,111 tabs open at once but somehow I manage to be stable in how I show up for others. I recently renovated a place and found it extremely rewarding to see the transformation. Not just finger pointing, I’m talking about everything you can do that doesn’t require a professional, electricals and plumbing are left to the experts. When I’m on the site, I’m in my own world and appreciate the thrill of being involved in the hands on nail breaking work like jack hammering, hard labour, painting, getting rusty nails stuck in my finger and getting an emergency tetanus shot, running back and forth carrying palettes of travertine into the house when they’re unexpectedly delivered on the council strip and they warn you that you’ll get a fine if it isn’t removed in 1 hour. That’s when it gets fun. I’ve done this with family since I was young girl so it’s basically my happy place.

You’ll likely receive pictures of my day to day life, our city and advise me on which outfit looks best on me. I will give you random daily facts about things you never knew that you needed to know. I have a calm, grounded energy and I somehow thrive off spontaneous plans. I want to adore your soul before anything physical. For now I would like to find someone that I can cook lamb tacos for and kiss their lamb fat covered lips.

You will also ideally be someone that loses themselves on the dance floor, that’s not the best dancer but still gives it a fucking good shot.

Right now I channel all of my energy into work obsessively and I’ve been trying to change that.

I need to find an excuse (you) to stop working ungodly hours.

I welcome long term friends and I’m confident that I’ll find something more. Must be authentic, a bit spontaneous and reciprocal.

I can sense the unspoken and I can see through strategic generosity. If you’re not a good communicator, please spare us.

I would prefer to connect with people that are NOT married/ taken please. I have had some really unpleasant experiences of people lying about their circumstances. Biological men only. Please be honest.

I’ve never tried a dating app before so I thought I’d give reddit a try. So far I have not met a single person on here and I want to change that.

EDIT: Whoa, I unexpectedly received over 400 messages from this. I’m really sorry if I take a long time to get back to you. I need to clone myself to get through them 😅 Why is there still 1/3 of married men wanting to chat, please leave me alone. I am not interested in pursuing a married man and I explicitly wrote that on my post. I want to build an honest life with someone and have kids of my own one day (with the right person). I’m not interested in complicating my life.

Ps. “Hey” doesn’t cut it, tell me about yourself and why you should be in my life.

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u/doubtitx — 9 days ago

39F4M seeking friendships

Good evening all!

39F seeking friendships so we can go out, have dinners, coffee, fun etc

Southwest Sydney however don’t work in area

Looking to enjoy what my ex didn’t want to with me. I love comedy shows, Lego, dancing, and generally just having great company.

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u/Nervous_Expert_7079 — 10 days ago

35 F4M - looking for my books and brunch partner

I’m 35, live in Sydney, and have a pretty full life already with a good job in communications, my own place, a solid routine, friends, interests. What’s missing is someone to share it with.

Physically: 5’3ish, curvy/plus-size, love to do dressed-up and polished when the occasion calls for it, but day-to-day I’m more about good company, good food, and finding new spots around the city.

My ideal life looks something like this: long brunches that turn into late afternoons, spontaneous weekends away, travelling well, and bringing our rescued greyhounds along for the ride. I’m politically left-leaning and am permanently child free. 

Personality-wise, I’m direct and pretty self-aware. I don’t play games, I don’t love ambiguity, and I value people who can communicate clearly. I like depth and curiosity, but I also need humour and ease. I’m looking for a real relationship and would like to get married one day.

Looking for someone roughly 30–43, intelligent, emotionally steady, and have your life together. You take initiative and you’re consistent. 

Please note that I will be asking you for a selfie early on in the conversation. I like knowing who I'm speaking to. If that doesn't sit right with you, please don't message.

If this sounds aligned, drop me a line (yes, the rhyme was intentional 😄)

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u/curlsandcola — 8 days ago

44M4F - Genuine connection and fun dates

I date with intention, laugh often and still get excited about booking flights.

I'm a big fan of travel, beach days, mountain views, great coffee, good conversation and people who don't take themselves too seriously.

Looking for someone who wants a genuine connection, a few adventures, a lot of laughs and eventually a long-term relationship.

To see if we're compatible, you get to pick one:

Unlimited travel budget for a month

Front row tickets to any event in the world

The ability to instantly master one skill

What's your choice?

u/Sea-Cryptographer-41 — 8 days ago

28M4F Arab Muslim looking for good chemistry

Hi all, 28m, from an Arab Muslim background. I am university educated, and a successful business owner. My hobbies including going to the gym, playing sports, drinking coffee, going for walks, reading, and trying new foods (big foodie!).

I am looking for someone to chat with, hang out with, and hopefully build a good chemistry and see where it takes us. I can get busy with work, and want someone to help me unwind. I am naturally dominant, and like looking after a woman and taking her out.

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u/Perfect_Nature_5081 — 8 days ago

25F4MLooking to meet genuine guys around Sydney who enjoy good conversation and seeing where the vibe takes us,single open to meeting new people, and always up for making a real connection.

Keen & DTF

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u/Pleasant_Ice185 — 8 days ago

28F4M

This year, I’ve decided to put myself out there more than ever. I’ve been single for quite a while and I’m often asked why. Truthfully, I’m not entirely sure myself. The last four years have been spent healing, navigating life, building a deeper relationship with myself and focusing on my health, fitness and overall lifestyle. I’m incredibly grateful for that journey because I’ve never felt more peaceful, grounded or content in who I am.

That said, I’ve reached a stage where I genuinely yearn for a deep connection and true intimacy rather than something superficial. Attraction is important to me. I believe there needs to be a spark and mutual chemistry for something meaningful to grow.
I’m drawn to confident people who are emotionally intelligent, kind, self-aware and take care of themselves. Someone with good banter, a warm heart and a positive outlook on life. When I’m with the right person, I naturally bring out the best in them and they do the same for me.

I spent most of my twenties building a life for myself in Sydney, often independently, with a small circle of friends. Along the way I’ve grown tremendously. I’m fun, adaptable and love experiencing life. Dancing and music have always been a huge part of who I am, I grew up dancing and playing sports, so I enjoy being active, outdoors and surrounded by nature.
Fashion is another passion of mine. I love getting dressed up, feeling beautiful and embracing life’s little moments. My friends joke that I’m always dressed as if I’m heading on a date.

If you’re genuinely looking for your person and feel like we might have something in common, send me a message. Let’s see where a conversation takes us.

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u/Top-Extreme3652 — 11 days ago

25 F4M

Hey! I’m 25 years old from Australia. I come from a Christian middle eastern background and I’m looking for someone to chat to or develop into something more. I would prefer to meet someone who is also from a similar background and 26-33.

I’m a quiet and shy person but once I’m comfortable I’m easy going, loyal and enjoy a good laugh. I love to spend time outdoors in nature. I enjoy reading, gym, watching documentaries and hiking and I’m definitely open to other interesting hobbies that pique my interest along the way.

I value family, loyalty and honesty and would like to meet someone kind with good values who want something real.

If this has piqued your interest and sounds like something you are willing to explore send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. Please mention your age and location. I will not be responding to any messages from NSFW accounts. Sorry.

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u/Kindly-Concern-3401 — 8 days ago

27 M4F inner west. Lonely outdoorsy man looking for someone interesting.

Hi, I'm looking for someone who is willing to hop on the back of my motorbike with me or on my boat (once we get to know each other) and just do something adventurous and exciting. I'm not sure what to say about myself here, if you're curious just ask. I have 1 cat and I work full time.

u/Silent-But-Deadly123 — 10 days ago

28 [F4M] Sydney single looking to meet someone

28F in Sydney here. I am a hairdresser , and outside of that I’m usually trying new food spots, going to the beach, or pretending I’ll become a runner (still waiting for that phase to stick). Not looking for anything super intense 🙈 just someone easy to talk to, go on dates with, and see if there’s a vibe. Bonus points if you can recommend a good hidden café in Sydney.

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u/BeautifulWriting763 — 13 days ago

22M4F 6’4 Blue eyed European trying to get to know someone and see where it goes

I’ve never actually posted here so I’m curious to see the response, if you’re interested in what i look like check my profile and shoot me message x

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u/hungeuro1 — 12 days ago