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Image 1 — 13 years ago I had to relearn how to walk. Today, I’m stronger than I ever thought I could be.
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13 years ago I had to relearn how to walk. Today, I’m stronger than I ever thought I could be.

I’ve been debating whether to share this here, but I figured my story might give someone who is struggling with their recovery a little bit of hope.

In 2013, I had a hiking accident where I fell 30 feet from a collapsing rock cliff. I shattered one vertebra and fractured another. The impact severely damaged my spinal cord. It was crushed, but thankfully not severed.

I was incredibly lucky.

I had to be helicoptered out and had three emergency surgeries over the following two days. The surgeons removed bone fragments discs and ultimately fused my spine from L1 to L5.

I had to be airlifted by helicopter and my back was in shambles immediately after surgery.

The recovery was long. I spent a good amount of time in the hospital and had to essentially relearn how to walk properly. At the time, I had no idea what my life would look like years later.

Fast forward to 2026, and this is what my back/body looks like today.

I'm not sharing these photos because I think everyone with a fusion needs to look like this. Far from it. Everyone's injury, surgery, recovery, and limitations are different, and I know how fortunate I am to have had the outcome I've had.

I'm sharing them because for me, staying active and trying to build as much strength as I safely can has made a huge difference in how I live with my fusion.

That doesn't mean I'm pain-free. I still have plenty of days where my back, hips, legs, or nerves remind me that I had a pretty bad injury. There are exercises I can't do, movements I have to modify, and days when my body simply doesn't cooperate.

But overall, being active has given me a much better quality of life than I ever imagined I would have after that accident.

If you're early in your recovery, or you're having a particularly bad stretch right now, I just want to say: keep going.

Your recovery may not look like mine. You may have limitations that I don't have, or complications that I was lucky enough to avoid. Don't compare your body or your timeline to anyone else's.

But if you're able to move, strengthen, walk, swim, lift, stretch, do physical therapy, or simply take another step today… keep going.

I'm incredibly grateful to the doctors, family, and friends who helped me get from that helicopter to where I am today.

And I'm proud of myself, too. Not because I somehow “beat” my injury, but because I kept working on myself for the last 13 years and didn't let the worst day of my life define the rest of it.

For anyone else here with a fusion, or anyone who's struggling with their recovery: I hope things get better for you. It can be a long road, but there can be a lot of life on the other side of it.

u/sauceboss38 — 14 hours ago

What are your favorite healthy alternatives to soda?

Looking for something refreshing that still gives you a little energy or vitality without all the sugar. What do you recommend?

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u/Alicetheoptimist — 17 hours ago

How to reduce mental energy figuring out what to wear?

I’m curious how you streamline the process of getting dressed and putting outfits together day to day. I like fashion and want to look put-together, but I feel like I spend a ton of mental energy every time I get dressed, energy that could go towards pursuing my goals instead.

Wondering if you have any strategies that has made getting dressed feel more automatic and effortless for you while still feeling stylish? TIA!

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u/helianthus48 — 14 hours ago

If you sleep 8 hours but still wake up foggy, what turned out to be the problem?

From your experience, what causes you to sleep for 8 hours but still wake up feeling foggy and tired? Was it your sleep routine, environment, stress, schedule, or something else?

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u/SarahDuncan2012 — 1 day ago
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It's Transformation Tuesday What's something you once thought you were "too old" or "too late" to do?

u/Imaginary_Face7698 — 1 day ago
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What's something you've been trying to improve that you're refusing to give up on, even though it's been hard?

u/Imaginary_Face7698 — 3 days ago
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I am so lazy but I want to be healthier

I'm a teen living alone. I feel tired all the time and cooking takes so long and eating takes like 2 seconds. I want to be healthier but it feels hard when cooking more than one thing separately takes exponentially more time and effort. It's a bit different if I can reheat food after though for the next few days. What are some healthy meals I can eat and afford that are either very quick and easy to prepare or that are easily meal prepped and tasty on future dining's?

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u/BellowJello007 — 3 days ago
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What’s the best self-help book you’d recommend to someone who’s just started reading?

I’m still pretty new to reading, but I’ve realised I really enjoy books that help me understand myself better, improve my mindset, and deal with everyday life.

I’d love to hear your recommendations, especially books that are easy to get into and actually made a difference in your life.

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u/GroundForThought — 3 days ago

The grittiest people aren't the loudest; they are the ones who have reached a state of "Calm Exhaustion.

There’s a specific type of toughness that comes after you’ve been broken and had to rebuild. It’s not aggressive or loud. It’s a quiet, steady resolve. You stop trying to prove things to others and start just... existing through the resistance. I’ve found that the more "grit" someone actually has, the less they feel the need to talk about it. It’s a functional necessity, not a personality trait.

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u/EdenHoover — 3 days ago

What’s in your meal prep this week?

What are you making to make the workweek a little easier? Share your meals so we can all get some inspiration and new ideas.

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u/SarahDuncan2012 — 3 days ago
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I know a walk would help. I still can't make myself go.

Not tired-tired. More like running on fumes, right at the edge of not caring anymore.

I know a walk would help - I've felt it work before. Doesn't matter. Knowing changes nothing.

So, genuine question (not "just go for a walk") - what actually gets you out the door on the days when even the door feels far away?

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u/vejula — 6 days ago

The older I get, the more I need real alone time to recover from being social.

It's not that I don't enjoy people — it's after. I need actual solitude to reset. Doesn't mean sitting at home with nothing to do — I can be out, doing something, just on my own.

It took me quite some time to stop calling that antisocial and start calling it recharging.

How do you recover after being around people — or do you not need that at all?

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u/vejula — 4 days ago