does resting go agaisnt the grit?

For years, I thought resting was something you earn. Finish the list, then you can sit down. Except I'm the person who can literally always find something to do, which means never resting

Until I started to have anxiety attacks, and then I had multiple coaches telling me I just needed to REST!

Anyway, the obvious advice was right. What did you used to believe about rest that you don't anymore

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u/anitnelavcreate — 13 days ago

you get ONE of these for the next 30 days and everything else stays exactly the same

1. Eight hours of real sleep every night
2. Two hours a day that are only yours
3. Someone who checks on you without you asking
4. Someone else handles all your food
5. Your head just goes quiet

Comment the number and why! 💚

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u/anitnelavcreate — 20 days ago

Audiobook as self-care?

Thanks to u/EmergencyUnusual8486, u/MockinJay7 and u/Tallfuck, we just noticed that some people in the community see audiobooks as part of their self care!

Why don't we share our favorite audiobook that helps you take care of yourself?

What’s your favorite?

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u/anitnelavcreate — 1 month ago

If your hours move around, what do you actually do about sleep?

Most sleep advice assumes you go to bed at the same time every night. If that's not your life (nights, shifts, early starts, a baby), what do you actually do?

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u/anitnelavcreate — 1 month ago

What did you set up once so you never have to decide again?

Noticed this a lot this week in the community: the habits that stick are the ones where the decision is just gone. Cook every second day. Delete the app. Same lunch every time.

What's yours?

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u/anitnelavcreate — 1 month ago

What is the one thing you changed about where you sleep that actually made a difference?

I've seen many people getting the "natural light" alarm (I don't remember the name). I personally decided to remove every possible screen at least 15 minutes before falling asleep

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u/anitnelavcreate — 2 months ago

Do you actually enjoy your workout, or do you just like having done it?

Some weeks I genuinely look forward to it, and some weeks I am only doing it just to see my good "movement" percentage on my watch

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u/anitnelavcreate — 2 months ago

What does the hour before bed actually look like?

Do you read? Do you have small hobbies that help you fall asleep? Also, if you have a cute bedside table set up, share it with a picture!

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u/anitnelavcreate — 2 months ago
▲ 115 r/TrueGrit+1 crossposts

a positive environment flourish your talent. So choose to be in it

u/MysticLine — 3 months ago

let's build a recipe book in the comments. What's your go-to high protein meal when you don't have time?

mine are a feta, tomatoes, bacon and egg sandwich, and quiche. both quick, both keep me full without needing something sweet after. Drop yours below, and let's make this a list people can actually come back to.

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u/anitnelavcreate — 3 months ago

my sleep is great, waking up is the problem. Anyone else?

falling asleep is easy for me. it's the waking up that's tricky. Too little sleep and I'm off, too much and I'm also off. I've been letting my brain ease in slowly (light, no noise, no tasks), and it helps, but still figuring it out. What works for you on the waking up side?

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u/anitnelavcreate — 4 months ago
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How many people shower twice daily?

I do it even in winters and even when I have not sweat or been outside. Its just calms me so much, in morning and at night before bed.

Nobody I know in my friend group shower twice daily and they said its excessive and unnecessary but I feel dirty without showering twice even though i dont sweat or smell bad.

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u/More_Pension4911 — 4 months ago

what brought me to the edge of the real melt down was being always reachable

Always one notification away from someone else's urgency. Anyone?

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u/anitnelavcreate — 4 months ago

What if you're burned out from doing things that don't mean anything to you?

Exhaustion from overwork makes sense. But some people are just as depleted working normal hours. Anyone else feel this?

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u/anitnelavcreate — 4 months ago