r/bostonDating

Essentially I would love to have a long-term relationship but ultimately I really need to have sex.

I really need to make love even though hypothetically I don't know you but I am kind of clingy.

I'm an original Boston bad boy. I'm a musician /artist.

I'm in between bands right now. Focusing on going back to school to get my masters degree in early childhood education. .

Self-reliant ,I live on my own in my own place alone in East Boston.

Currently on SSI - kind of a free show to be honest with you but I'm an attractive handsome and sexy man.

I'm looking for a lunatic woman that has a brain.

It's really been a year !!!!;I can wait until I find what I want.

I'm not looking for a model I'm looking for a model but I can settle with chubby nice tits beautiful face.

I'm going to spend the next few days fucking.

My name is Jimmy and I grew up in the North shore hit me up.

Like I said ultimately I would like a long-term relationship cuz I really need a strong woman to help me stay strong focus because I'm having a hard time in life cuz I let go a lot of friends because they're all junkies and I'm sick of fucking their lifestyle.

I don't know what's so hard about putting the pipe down it's a christ sakes

I was stuck intermittently on the street chronically homeless for a way too long and I put in a lot of hard work to get myself out of that and there's no way in hell I'm never going to go back.

I'm not exactly a type of guy you bring home to your mother but I'm this type of guy you bring home to your bed at the very least.....

So fuck all this online bullshit and let's get it in and hang out and have some drinks loosen up you can come to my crib I can come to your crib we can meet up at a bar whatever ( I'll pay for you)

Feeling the blues after leaving Boston last week! My chest hurts from the laughing, my liver hurts from the beer and my fingers are cut to bits from traffic cone handling.

We had an absolute blast and despite the many, many amazing interactions and conversations - solving the world’s problems at 1am - I still want to know more about your amazing city and people!

Would love to get to know someone a bit more and if we click, get to know you a lot more! I definitely want to come back soon and I travel a lot for work too so can definitely swing by Boston on my next trans-Atlantic trip!

If you are interested, please send me a msg! I don’t want to rule anyone out on specific rules on age or appearance - this is an all inclusive post!

Hello there! I just want to give this a shot and see where things go. I’m 33 and looking for a companion to figure life out.

I don’t drink, smoke or go out clubbing or bar hopping. When I’m not working, I like to explore restaurants or points of interest such as public parks, museums and the occasional small town hopping. I’m by no means tall and muscular, but I’d like to compare my physique with Solaire of the Sun from Dark Souls… I like video games, anime, and stand up comics such as Dave Chappell, Pete Holmes, and John Mulaney. I listen to a myriad of music genres, lately I’ve been really into Bob Dylan, Tom Waits, and Fall Out Boy.

I’m a huge nerd and try my best to growth oriented. I hope to meet someone who’s also passionate about learning and growing.

***LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP INQUIRIES ONLY**

just a hopeless romantic, a blip on the radar or everyone’s none of the above. I’ve exhausted all resources and why should I pay money for dating sites when ppl will just reject or ghost me? what I’d really like is someone to do all the cute couple stuff in a long term relationship (cozy movie nights, meal dates, sports outings, late-night cuddles, or just walking around the city.

A bit about me:

I [34/F] live in Somerville (originally from the Philadelphia area) and been here since late 2024. Big fan of sports, riding bikes, random trips to anywhere, picnics, and good food/drinks! I have a long list of interests, yet that some of the major ones. I work as a 1:1 behavior technician at a ABA agency for kids with special needs. I love my job and the growth of the kids that I serve.

Physically, I’m little over 5’5 (African american), not a supermodel, I’m curvy, pretty active and take mental health as upmost importance.

About you:

•Communication and honesty are the two most important things to me. If we can’t be that, why are we here?

•Ages 29-40, males only

•located not too far away from greater Boston. If you live near a T station thats an extreme plus but not required. I drive and have a car but I refuse to drive in downtown Boston (IYKYK) hence why I stated a plus if you live near a station.

•drinking or smoking/“gardening” is ok with me, no hard/illegal drugs please.

•is communicative, honest and upfront

•I don’t want you to change who you are to impress. Your personality in its true form is the most attractive.

If I sound of interest, DM me a fact about me or what I’m looking for that you’ve read on this post. Please also include your age a little about yourself. I will not respond/ignore messages if those are NOT included and will NOT respond if your looking for a hookup or not read this in depth (simple instructions). Thanks for reading.

M 35 looking to to hang with someone cool

Sorry I’m not Scottish 😂

Basic info
Name: Bram
Age:29
Pronouns: He/Him

Location: Boston, Massachusetts

Looking for: Long-term relationship. 23-36

A little bit about me:

Politics: Democratic socialist. Looking for some level of political compatibility. No Kings in the USA. F*ck Trump F*ck Stephen Miller F*ck ICE

Current job situation: Recently lost my job but am hard at work to find another one. Very excited that I have gotten to several interview stages within the last month or so. It feels great to have that momentum 😊.

Here are some of my interests:

Movies: my all-time favorite movie is the LOTR. So if you’d like to nerd out about this. I also love B-movies and would love to hear your list.

Music: Music is really big part of my life so I have an interest in anything "Alternative". I can definitely share some playlists. I have always dabbled with the idea that I could make music but that’s something I would go about that.

Favorite sub-genres are Midwest Emo, 5th wave Emo, Skramz, Slowcore, Anti-folk, folk punk, Shoegaze.

Environmental issues: I graduated with a degree in environmental studies back in the day and live my life to make sure I do my own personal contribution to combat the climate crisis.

Puzzles: Great winter activity. 500+ piece puzzles

Public Transit: Partially explained above but I think I love the idea of publicially funded networks which promote and or hope to achieve sustainability. In US we do have a patchwork of public transit but there is a charm to diversity of options we have here. Wish I was friends with Miles in Transit or Noel Phillips to go on little adventures. If you know them hit me up.

History: Political history is some of my favorite things to look at (all different types of labor movements and the many offshoots of leftist movements) . I also have interest in sports history. Especially basketball.

Art work: as a comfort activity I work on collages and have notebooks filled with collages. Definitely looking to diversify my style.

Feel free to answer one of these three questions when DMing me:

1. What is one way you are living a

environmentally friendly

1. life? Thrifting? Vegetarian or Vegan? Car-free living?
2. What is your funniest family memory? Something that had happened on accident? An event that created an inside-joke?

Hii I’m 22, 5’1, long dark hair and dark eyes, curvy body, and really kinky! I want to be comfortable and get to know you first before we start any kind of fwb arrangement. Must be in Boston, able to host, older and takes care of himself.

Message me with a picture of you, what part of Boston you’re in, and what makes you a good dom :)

I love to travel overseas ✈️ and I’m always adding new places to the list. Sapiosexual here — a sharp mind gets my attention faster than anything else.

A few honest questions instead of a bio: What are you most proud of yourself for? And what’s something you learned the hard way that actually stuck?

I’m into swimming and working on getting better at it (advanced strokes, technique, the whole thing), good food, real conversation, and staying curious. Drug-free, surgery-free, caffeine-free, Debt-free and low-key proud of it. People say I look put-together without trying — though my brother got slightly thicker and longer eyelashes than me, still not over it.🤪

I’m not here for casual or undefined. Looking for a man in his 30s-40s, grounded, no kids, who knows what he wants and says so.

What’s your answer to either question above? DM me and If we vibe, happy to trade pictures and move toward meeting in person — that’s the goal. 😊🙏🏼