r/casualiama

My (29F) husband's in prison and I'm bored and lonely. AMA.

Hi. I'm just bored and lonely and kinda in a blah mood right now so just looking for some conversation by answering some questions. I'm an open book. AMA.

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u/New-Recording6899 — 8 hours ago

[NSFW] I (29M) became a bull for a mid-40's hotwife at the age of 18. AMA

For those unfamiliar, a hotwife is the wife of a cuck or a married woman in an open relationship that has sex with other men. A bull is a guy who has sex with the wife. Our time together was usually at least twice a week, with texts and calls too and lasted about 11 months in total until they had to move for her husband's job.

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u/Younghungbullohio — 15 hours ago

I live in a group home for adults with severe mental illnesses. AMA

As my title says - i live in a group home with a total of 7 adults ranging from the age 33-70. I am the youngest. It's my second night here from being a patient in a psych hospital for 7 months.

I am an open book. AMA

update: Well it's been 2 hours and comments are slowing down, so I'm going to head to bed. It was nice answering questions and chatting. If anyone has anymore questions, feel free to ask. I wake up at 5am every morning so I'll get back to you when i wake up.

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u/CourtM092 — 1 day ago

I’m bored, so I like to answer questions about my current situation. (30f)AMA

Hi!

I’ve been with my partner for over 10 years.
We were eachother first.
We are not married.
Our relationship is slacking. My libido is very high. But he only ‘wants’ me like once or twice a month.
We’ve talked over 6 times about it and it resolved my lust issues for a week or two and then it goes back to how it was.
And yea the talks were also about opening up relationship or something like that, but that was a hard no for him.

Lately I’ve been getting better contact with my neighbor. (42m).
It went from just greeting eachother to having full convo’s.
No it’s not sexual and nothing happened. But my thoughts sometimes wander.
How would it feel to be desired again?

And no i would never cheat.

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u/CyntKr — 1 day ago

23F dating an amateur adult actor AMA

Hi everyone, my friends kinda asked me to share my experience.

I'm a PhD (High Energy Physics) student working with the CMS collaboration at CERN, dating a semi pro mostly amateur male performer. Ask me anything.

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u/CoderDecoder14 — 2 days ago

Iama 25m feminine-presenting male "femboy" who identifies as a straight male and has a cis-female girlfriend

Hi! I'm kind of an outlier but I'm happy, healthy, and fabulous! I wear women's clothing daily, makeup and nail polish, the whole set. Ask me anything!

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u/callmekitkathoney — 2 days ago

I won an original Tesla Roadster. AMA.

I genuinely used to assume giveaway winners were either fake, connected to the company, or some random person you would never hear from again.

Then EV Auto called me while I was at work and told me I had won an original first-generation Tesla Roadster.

I entered the giveaway like everyone else and never seriously expected anything to happen. I figured I would submit my entries, briefly imagine winning, and eventually see somebody else’s name announced online.

When the call came, my brain basically stopped working. I kept waiting for the part where they asked me to send money, buy gift cards, or click some suspicious link. Instead, they were actually telling me that I had been selected as the winner.

I already owned a modern Tesla and knew what the original Roadster was, which somehow made the news even harder to process. This was not just a random used car. It was Tesla’s original production vehicle from before the Model S, Model X, Model 3, Model Y, Cybertruck, and basically everything most people now associate with the company.

A few days later, my fiancée and I drove from Indiana to Tennessee for EV Auto’s grand-opening event in Brentwood.

We met the team, saw the green Roadster in person for the first time, talked about the car, and tried to act like this was a normal thing happening to us. Eventually, they called me forward in front of the crowd, announced that I was the winner, and handed me the keys.

Watching that moment back still feels like I am watching somebody else’s life.

The official giveaway video is here:

https://youtu.be/EtV\_\_z2LNuw?is=STKPBnQzPRmDG5R0

For anyone unfamiliar with it, this is the original Tesla Roadster, not the newer Roadster prototype Tesla has displayed over the years.

It is heavily related to the Lotus Elise, but it uses Tesla’s early electric drivetrain, battery system, electronics, charging equipment, controls, and a ridiculous collection of unusual design choices from the company’s earliest days.

That is a huge part of why I find it so fascinating. It is simultaneously:

An early electric vehicle

A rare sports car

A major piece of Tesla history

A Lotus-related vehicle

A snapshot of late-2000s technology

A car filled with systems and components that are completely different from a modern Tesla

I created this account, u/TeslaRoadsterWinner, because I plan to document the car in an honestly unreasonable amount of detail.

I do not want to post a few exterior pictures, say “look at my rare Tesla,” and disappear. I want to show what it is actually like to drive, charge, maintain, research, repair, and live with one of these cars today.

I plan to dig into things like:

Every strange button, switch, display, gauge, vent, latch, and warning light

How the removable roof works

How the original Roadster charging system works

What charging equipment and adapters it uses

Real-world charging speeds and range

Battery behavior

Acceleration, handling, steering, braking, comfort, noise, and visibility

How it compares with my modern Tesla

What parts are actually shared with the Lotus Elise

Maintenance requirements and common failures

Tires, brakes, suspension, cooling systems, electronics, and the 12-volt system

Parts availability and discontinued components

Repair, insurance, charging, and ownership costs

Original manuals, accessories, literature, and promotional material

The history of this specific Roadster

Road trips, car shows, and public reactions

Every strange discovery and unexpected problem along the way

I am not pretending that winning the car automatically made me an expert on it.

I am learning as I go, and I would genuinely love to hear from current or former Roadster owners, early Tesla employees, technicians, Lotus Elise or Exige owners, collectors, automotive historians, independent EV specialists, or anyone who has worked on one of these cars.

Any accurate information, advice, correction, warning, story, technical document, parts source, or obscure piece of Roadster history is welcome.

So ask me anything about:

How I entered the giveaway

What the winner call was like

Whether I believed it

Telling my fiancée

Driving to Tennessee

Meeting the EV Auto team

Seeing the Roadster for the first time

Being announced as the winner

What it felt like being handed the keys

What surprised me most about the car

How it compares with a modern Tesla

What I plan to investigate first

Anything shown in the official video

What you would want tested, explained, or filmed

Anything else you have ever wanted to ask somebody who somehow won an original Tesla Roadster

My inbox is also open to any and all private questions, especially from owners, former employees, technicians, collectors, or anyone with information they would rather not post publicly.

For transparency, I am not employed by EV Auto or Tesla, and I am not speaking on behalf of either company. I am simply the extremely confused person whose name somehow got selected.

I also created a YouTube channel where I will be posting the long-form Roadster deep dives:

https://youtube.com/@teslaroadsterwinner

So, Reddit: what is the very first thing you would want to know, inspect, test, or see if an original Tesla Roadster suddenly landed in your life?

AMA.

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u/TeslaRoadsterWinner — 3 days ago

28f I have DID and most of my system is made up of littles ama!

Did = dissociative identity disorder (used to be called multiple personality disorder)

System = the collective of alters in a person w DID

Littles = child alters

And yes, I have been professionally diagnosed!

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u/Peachyregresses — 3 days ago

20M, did my first porn shoot, AMA

20M, did my first porn shoot for a small studio near where I live, you can ask me anything and I'll try my best to answer!

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u/Dapper-Bat6244 — 5 days ago

Me (M30) and my husband (29FTM) are swingers, AMA

Before anyone asks, my husband is Female to Male transgender on hormones, and 15 inches is our height difference. You are speaking with the cis man, any questions about his transition I will pass along.

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u/Fifteen_inches — 6 days ago

I am a very very beginner pagan/eclectic witch AMA :)

I meant to put wiccan not witch*

I just got into it very recently I have not set up my altar yet but I have plans I'm setting up and discovering my faith and just feel like chattin

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u/TheDollarstoreDoctor — 5 days ago

Iama(n) adult goth call girl currently residing in Southeast Asia. AMA!

Feel free to ask away any burning questions! I will give my honest answer for all sincere and respectful questions!

I thought I'd post in here and do an AMA because no one really talks about sex workers.

Feel free to reply here or DM me (My DMs will be temporarily open)

Nothing is out of bounds! But do maintain respect for sincere questions. Let's be civil together!

I know this is taboo but my goal is just to answer as many questions for anyone who never got to have those questions answered from a hooker/prostitute/escort/callgirl.

I'm 25, and have been doing this since the start of June 2026, I take home between $300 - $1,000 a week.

Here are some common questions:

Can I engage with you? Unless you are in my region, no. To add on, I only do outcalls.

Can we be friends? I don't do casual friendship as I'm running a business.

How do you get paid? I have a deposit system. Clients will pay me to book me. The rest of the payment is made before we start our session.

How do I become an escort? It's not for everyone. You need to seriously know your bedroom kinks and have experience in pleasuring someone. It's not for the sex-averse.

Why are you an escort? For personal financial reasons.

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u/nagisa_darling — 6 days ago

28f I have multiple disabilities ama

(Mentally: complex ptsd, major depressive disorder/treatment resistant depression, generalized anxiety disorder, autism, adhd)

(Physically: CFS/me, migraines that are so far treatment resistant, fibromyalgia, Gastroparesis, POTS)

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u/Peachyregresses — 6 days ago