r/chicagofriends

29M looking to make some friends in Chicago

Moved to Chicago not too long ago and realized I need to actually make some friends outside of work/family life lol. I’m 29, pretty laid back, into grabbing drinks, trying restaurants, sports, exploring the city, random conversations, and generally getting out of the house.
Would be cool to meet some people around my age who are down to grab a beer, catch a game, hit a bar, get food, or just bullshit and see if we click. Guys or girls, doesn’t matter. Not looking for anything weird, literally just trying to build a solid friend group in Chicago.
I’m on the Northwest Side but I’m down to go pretty much anywhere in the city.

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u/OddEconomics7359 — 12 hours ago

33 M need friends lol

I’ve been in rogers park for a little while and it seems hard for me to connect with ppl outside of playing basketball at the beach . I’m black with locs so a lot of ppl seem intimidated. But I’m pretty chill I like the lake front walks , smoke a blunt grab a drink go to an even it’s whatever I’m just tired of being by myself lol

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u/kaywhy07 — 11 hours ago

26 Femboy new to Chicago, looking to make friends!

Hi! Just moved from Washington state earlier this month! i moved alone and don’t know anyone so looking to make new friends, haha! I work in healthcare as a nurse and am new to the area! I live in Wicker Park/ Logan Square area and have a pretty flexible schedule with work so lots of free time haha! I love to cook, read some true crime, and run! Anyone who wants to chat please message!

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u/Sea-Journalist-1175 — 11 hours ago

29F looking to go get a drink or just chat (girls only please)

Hi ladies. I’ve been pretty bored lately and don’t really want to stay in. I’m dying to have a drink with another girl or even just a chat.

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u/Ok-Somewhere6424 — 1 day ago

23f in Chicago and desperately want my girl friend group

Hi! I live in Chicago and am looking for people to hang out with, go see a movie, or walk around downtown with! Preferably girls !!

I love talking on the phone and playing video games, taking photos, and music.

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u/secrcts — 1 day ago

27F Lakeview/Wrigleyville, I moved here a week ago and don’t know anyone!

I’ve lived here a total of 8 days and now that I’m (mostly) settled I want to make friends!

About me: I finished my PhD in May, moved here last week to start my career as a professor. I’ve been in college and moving around since I was 18 and I just turned 27, so I’m excited to pick up new hobbies and put down roots for the first time as an adult. Chicago is home 🥹 I’m painfully extroverted but I thought I’d make a post on here since I’ve been known to adopt introverts lol and you never know who you’ll meet where.

Things I love doing:
- watching sports!!!!! Both live and on TV (favorites are rugby, baseball, football, and hockey)
- live music (I live small/indie/underground venues, I used to work at one in New Orleans and so I have a soft spot for these types of shows but I’ll go see any artist in any genre in any setting)
- trying new bars and restaurants especially small plates type places and cocktail bars (but I also love me a sports bar or a dive, not a huge drinker but I absolutely love the social aspect)
- watching movies and going to movie theaters
- hot girl walks
- playing Pokemon Go
- meeting new people and going on side quests and just collecting memories and experiences and getting to know as many people as possible.

Some things I want to do/try:
- yoga, Pilates, rock climbing (basically trying to get more into anything active that isn’t a contact sport, even better if it’s outdoors)
- explore the city both touristy things and hidden gems because I know nothing lol
- get more into / better at cooking
- honestly add literally anything to this list because I’ll try most things once!
- I just signed up for a 5 week Skee-ball league at Sluggers for singles starting in September so that should be fun. Anything like that I’m game, I’m super easy going and again will try most things once.

I’m primarily looking for girl friends but also I am single and quite a catch (shameless plug)

If you think we’d vibe comment or send me a message and I’d love to hang out! I just got my course schedule for the semester so we can plan something very soon!

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u/kingcakebabies — 2 days ago

Any running buddies F/M ?

So I’m Eddy ! 28m Latino who’s looking for friends to run with . I just started getting serious although I’m fit and always have been working out but I just didn’t realize how much I was missing out on RUNNING culture . So any experience welcome 🤗 I would love to do some weekend runs in the Lake Michigan. preferably Sunday morning but lmk ! Also into music so any music lovers are welcome to dm me. I just want to enjoy the city more since there’s always a ton of great activities going on . Thank you and God bless y’all

u/suburbman69 — 1 day ago

Looking for Chicago concert friends

I go to so many shows, but I’m getting bored of going by myself. I’d like to be able to comment on the music, get excited with other people, keep an eye on stuff if I have to go to the bathroom, etc.. haha

I listen to anything. Live music is life.
Some examples of shows I’ve been to in the last couple months.

Noah Kahan
Lollapalooza
Jack White
Foo Fighters
Chance the Rapper
Modest mouse
World’s largest karaoke party
Guns N’ Roses
J. Cole
Rush
Lucy Dacus
Weird Al

If you’re interested and you’re a good human, I’m here. M45. Thanks.

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u/First_Awareness_3658 — 2 days ago

Looking for girl friends in Chicago 🫶

I’m a 28 year old female, married, and moved to Chicago almost two years ago. I hardly have friends here and I think I’m finally realizing how much I miss having my own girl friends.
I usually hang out with my husband and his two friends. They’re nice people and I do hang out with them maybe once or twice a month but I just don’t feel like we are on the same wavelength. Otherwise I mostly spend time with my husband which I do love but I think it’s also really nice to have your own girlfriends.
I was in Atlanta before Chicago and I went to school there. That’s where I had my best friends and life was honestly so much more happening. After moving here it was such a switch because I basically didn’t know anyone.
I miss having girls to randomly text, go get coffee with, go for walks, try new places, try something new, talk about life or just hang out without having to plan everything weeks in advance 😂
A little about me, I work full time as a data engineer. I’m Indian/South Asian. I like working out and I go to boxing classes. I LOVE going on walks and that’s probably my favorite thing about summers in Chicago. I live right downtown across from a park so I go for walks almost every day unless it’s raining.
I’ve also recently started watching a lot of stand up comedy and I’m kinda getting into it. I love music too and mostly listen to house and techno.
So yeah I’m basically looking for girl friends! And by girlfriend I mean GIRL FRIEND 😂
If you’re also looking for someone to grab coffee with, go on walks, try new places or just have someone to talk to, message me!

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u/Cutechimtu — 2 days ago

42m Evanston and can travel. Looking for a friend m/f

Love tattoos. Magic the gathering playing nerd. Amateur musician. Educated. Really mellow, funny, kind. Love a good conversation. Mental health is really important to me.

I'm looking for people to go to comedy shows and live music with. A movie, golf (can be mini), bowling, happy hour, etc.

Would be a plus to find a wingman/woman to go and hype each other up. Dating in Chicago sucks.

Let's chat and find something to do!

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u/silvergti — 2 days ago

I GOT STUFF FOR YOU TO DO!

What's this, a event post thats actually on time for once? My goodness.

Thanks to Sherbz for getting this created for us every week, and handling the discord side of it :)

If you'd like to track us down and join us at any of these events, join the discord server here, and then click on the thread links next to the event name!

WEEKLY ROUND-UP

## Tuesday, Aug 18

📽️ Movies in the Parks: *Sinners* | Millennium Park | 6:30 PM | Free - https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1511581292561563708

🧠 Pub Trivia | TBD | 7:30 PM | Free/$$ - https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/996857013294350426

## Wednesday, Aug 19

🧠 Pub Trivia | Bad Apple Lincoln Park | 7:00 PM | Free/$$ - https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1003787706188439552

## Saturday, Aug 22

🏐 Archetype Beach Volleyball | North Avenue Beach | 10:00 AM | Free - https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1348777233568891074

👾 Unplugged Gaming Event | Dice Dojo | 6:00-10:00 PM | Free - https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1532063884804882472

## Sunday, Aug 23

🍲 Culinary Exploration Lunch | Trikolah | 12:00 PM | $$ - https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1464373845916909599

**COMING UP**

- Full Moon Jam, Aug 27 https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1506351498752299048

- Goth Night, Aug 28 https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1513978984206041088

- Turtle Racing, Aug 28 https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1537960386232586260

- Movie Meet-up: *Batman*, TBD https://discord.com/channels/992819102408253600/1456397076157038794

Check out Loose Goose's calendar of Chicago area markets, free museum days, and more here!

u/Tehowner — 2 days ago
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First 420 Centric Run Club / Org Based in Chicago, IL 📍

Runners High Chicago was established in June 2022 as a 420-centric run community. We meet every Saturday at 9 AM and explore different neighborhoods and routes throughout Chicago and the surrounding suburbs.

Over the past few years, our community has grown through weekly runs, events, conversations, and community-building around running, wellness, and cannabis culture. We’ve been fortunate to be featured in the Chicago Tribune, South Side Weekly, High Times, and Women’s Health Magazine.

We’ve also hosted conversations around cannabis and wellness, including a panel with former NFL player Ricky Williams, where he shared his journey and relationship with cannabis.

Outside of our weekly runs, we set up cheer zones at major races, including the Chicago Marathon and Half Marathon, to support and encourage our runners along the course.

If you’re in Chicago and this sounds like your kind of community, come run with us! 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

We’re always happy to meet new people and welcome anyone who wants to move, connect, and be part of the community.

I hope this post reaches the right people!

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u/AK40SEV — 2 days ago

Looking for Chicago improv friends

I was involved in theater in college and always wanted to try improv, but unfortunately it never really happened. I’ve been interested in it ever since and would love to finally give it a shot!

I’d love to finally give it a shot and meet some people who are into it too! If anyone knows of free/cheap improv nights, beginner-friendly events, open jams, or places where you can try it out, I’d love some recommendations.

Even if you’re already into improv and just looking for someone to go to events with, I’d be down! Would be cool to make some new improv friends around Chicago.

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u/Crafty_Interest_3000 — 3 days ago

25F, anyone want to go on a walk with my golden puppy and I?

Making friends is hard, making friends working from home is even harder 😭 So, here I am putting some feelers out into the universe to see if anyone wants to make a new friend or bestie! I'm open to friends of any gender, and location wise, I live near Wrigley Field😊

A bit about me, I'm a 420 friendly software engineer at a fintech, I love plants, music, and my pets (I have 2 cats and a golden retriever, puppy tax included!). I also have a plethora of random hobbies I pick up and drop like side quests (painting, aerial yoga, reading, poetry, baritone ukulele, etc). I love listening to emo, alt rock, and indie mainly. I would describe myself as very sweet, bubbly, nerdy, and caring. The golden retriever friend who happens to also have a golden retriever puppy lol.

I think my ideal friend/best friend is someone kind who I can be silly and goofy with. I'm the type of person that gets excited at the small random things, and it would be great to have someone who finds my bubbly, giddy self endearing. My fatal flaw is that I'm a slow walker (short legs, I'm sorry 😭)! I'm also pretty ADHD, so I like.. can't get through a movie without a break or two to meander around. Totally understand if those are deal breakers though lol. I also love deep convos about life, the universe, psychology, or pretty much anything! I'll stop rambling, but if you think we may click, definitely send me a message! 😊

u/LittleMissCoder — 4 days ago

Just looking to hang out and chill tonight . M33 ☕️

The night's still young, and if anyone else has canceled plans, hitting the arcade, grabbing a coffee or a drink sounds good lol. I'm in Albany Park. I prefer to stay within range, but it's ok if you're a little further. Let's hang out, chat, vent about your day, whatever lol

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u/YoureSuchAn0range — 3 days ago

24m hopefully this goes well :)

Been finding myself wanting to go to a few new places but kinda seems boring to go alone, and most of my other buddies tend to be busy, so hopefully someone here is interested, im actually trying to go to an arcade this week but I enjoy going out for food and walks aswell, id prefer for female friends but male friends are cool aswell just dont be weird please.

Message me your youre interested, we can talk :)

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u/Leather-Performer-11 — 3 days ago

32F - mom to a toddler looking for mom friends - Wicker Park

I’m not exactly the quintessential mother type though I absolutely love being a mom and my daughter is the love of my life. So it makes sense why I’ve been having trouble making close mom friends. I have mom “friends” who we get together and our babies play with each other but it feels very forced. And that’s okay, those friendships are important and my daughter has a lot of fun, so all good.

However, now that my daughter is less baby and more toddler, almost 19 mo, I’ve chilled out a bit with my postpartum anxiety, like I was really really anxious. Now I’m looking to make mom friends that I vibe with more. My daughter is likely going to be my only so I’d love for her to also have “family friends” like people with kids who we go on vacations with, like a best friend for her at least until they get to the point where friendship is more of a personal decision vs someone who will give me back the ball when they take it from me haha. I know this is a long shot and I’m not expecting that from a Reddit post

So a little about me. I work 9-5 though my job is reasonably flexible and her dad is the sahp. We have a courteous relationship but really we aren’t very coupley anymore (which I’m ok with) but kinda hard to make couple friends or explain to new mom friends that ehhh don’t really feel the relationship anymore but staying for the time being. But then I can’t really make close friendships without being honest.

A little more about me… I am the type of mom that does not care or get embarrassed if my daughter tantrums in public or acts weird. I mean now can I expect her, a toddler, to be normal when I, an adult, have been called a “strange bird” more than once.
And more details to note - I apparently have ADHD, I like solidcore and running. I go out to bars no more than twice a month, maaaybe 3, and when I do I enjoy drinking. Otherwise I’m a teetolater. I have pretty simple hobbies. I like shopping, tennis, going to the spa, eating, watching trash tv.

I’d love to find a mom friend who resonates with my post

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u/crashhhyears — 3 days ago

23M looking for anyone that wants to ride bikes w me

Listen, before you like reply to this post or dm me

I just want to introduce myself a little bit
I’m black, I’m 23 and I live near the south side of Chicago

It’s hard making friends in my area and I really do just want to travel and roam around with someone. Idk if this helps but I’m also into gaming a lot I even run a bit of content creation and I love space stuff

I wouldn’t mind going to an arcade or even a movie and get food or BETTER YET THE WATERPARK

Whether you’re man or woman it doesn’t matter I’m open to all.

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u/StankySalt — 3 days ago

28M - Saturday Night Dive Bar-in’?

I (28M) am thinking of finding somewhere to shoot some pool on the north side near Roscoe Village. Anyone have some recommendations or want to get together this evening?

Some things about me - New to the City, originally from New England. I am a certified cat dad twice over. I love to host game nights and dinners (albeit I need to make some more pals here before I do). I also come with an annual pass to the Field Museum if anyone wants to talk about dinosaurs.

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u/Ok_Leek_9664 — 4 days ago