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My Chocolate Labrador Lashley was Abandoned without my knowledge. I'm Still Looking for Him.

This post is a part of my final attempt to find my chocolate labrador lashley who was abandoned 5 years ago by my father. I will first post a short introduction before explaining lashley's story in detail.

About Lashley:

Chocolate Labrador Retriever

Nicknames: Boochie, Dachaley, Laboli

Distinctive white patch on his chest also known as bolo marks

Age when he was abandoned - 3 1/2 years old

Current age - 8 to 9 years old

Last known area: Domlur, Bengaluru (near Jogupalya, Indiranagar & Ulsoor)

If anyone living in Bangalore recognizes him, knows someone who might have adopted him, or have any information at all—even if it seems insignificant—please leave a comment or contact me through WhatsApp/call +91 8660826795

Detailed explanation of what actually happened & why he was abandoned

Back in 2021, during the COVID-19 pandemic, my family was going through a very difficult time financially and personally. Also during this time my father was suffering from severe chronic depression and other mental issues. After some time we had just moved to a new house, so my dad left Lashley to stay at my grandmother's house and claimed he would bring him to our new house. My father told me he would bring him to our new home once everything settled down. But few months passed by and this did not happen. During that time I used to visit him during the weekends. Some of the pics & videos i have posted here are during that time

So one day without my knowledge, according to my grandmother's account he claimed to take lashley for a walk and when he had returned lashley wasn't there with him. When he was asked about it he told her he had sold it or given it to someone but did not mention the specifics like to whom. When he came home he did not tell us about this. A few days later, my father took his own life at my grandmother's house. It was only then that we found out. During that time, our family was consumed by the shock, grief , funeral, legal matters, and everything that followed after my father's death so our thoughts were consumed by this and finding lashley wasnt at the forefront of our minds I also did not want to disturb my mother and other family members by bringing this up.

After some time we decided to search for lashley but had no idea where he went or with whom he was. We visited some well known breeders and rescue organisations but couldn't find him. Also found out that my father had also given away lashley's vaccination certificates & other things like prescriptions from the vets. So i had lost hope and finally decided that it was almost impossible to ever see him again. I loved him so much and wanted to be with him till his final years this was what made it so bad. I couldn't even see him to wish him a final goodbye before he left me. He was an extremely expressive and affectionate lab who always loved to be around me. I can't imagine how panicked and lost he must have felt after he was given away. He loved me like no other dog ever did. So I just suppressed those memories and went on with my life. But it just didn't work. For the past few months I have been feeling intense regret that I didn't do enough to find him, that I had in a way betrayed him. I kept dreaming about him regularly - both positive and disturbing dreams. So i finally decided I need to make a final and serious attempt to find him before he leaves this world. I want to be with him through his final years.

My search efforts will be both offline and online - I will visit every rescue organisation, veterinary clinics , breeders, pet boarding schools and kennels in my city. I will also be creating pages on every social media platform where I will be documenting and updating my search efforts. Even if the search fails i atleast get to preserve lashley's memories and get to tell his story to many. Hope this post wasn't too long. Thank you for reading

American or English?

Adoption paperwork just says Labrador retriever, someone told me she is English. I’m not sure, but I thought American chocolate lab

u/Different_Wave5301 — 2 days ago

My baby Xena ❤️

https://gofund.me/2cd10860e

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to post a link here or not. If not let me know and I’ll take it down. My baby got into some rat poison while I’ve been at work today. My mom was home with her but didn’t realize she got into it. If you can share or donate, I just need enough to pay for the vet bills for her. I’m not sure where else to go.

u/PhysicalPain2172 — 3 days ago

I miss my boy

He’s okay, he’s home. It’s just Monday, and I’m working. We were home all weekend. He loves to cuddle.

u/Diligent_Sea6315 — 3 days ago

Abaco "Abby" Marie, giving us life after loss!

Meet our sweet girl, Abby! She's a beautiful caramel/latte-colored chocolate with light eyes. We laid our most incredible girl, Paisley, to rest a year ago this month and just mentioning her name or looking at a picture still brings tears to our eyes. She was the richest dark brown and was lean and athletic at 85lbs. She gave us the most incredible nearly 14yrs. We thought we wanted the darkest, biggest girl in the litter (who was projected to come home on the day we laid Paisley to rest in our backyard...) but something pulled us toward the lightest, smallest girl who just melts into her humans and is the shadow to her Portuguese Water Dog sister, Molly. We thank Paisley every minute for bringing us our Abby girl and letting us know it was ok to love a dog again. Oh, by the way, Abby is a solid 17.5lbs at 10 weeks now haha. We grow 'em solid and athletic at our house!

Love following along everyone else's chocolate lab life journeys <3 thanks for helping to fill the void this past year.

u/taylormpriest — 6 days ago

Sharing my fruit bowl with Sasha

Stopped by my local store and bought a bowl of fresh fruit. Just had to share the watermelon 🍉 cantaloupe 🍈 and honeydew with my best friend. 💕🦮🫶🏼🦴

u/BlackFish42c — 7 days ago