I just moved here (kaloor) like 2-3 days ago, dont have much friends here. Also i work from home so i have like 0 interactions with people as of now.
Trying to find ppl to vibe with maybe grab a coffee or a couple of drinks, maybe talk abt music too? (I make music)
Also suggest a few things to do around here and meet new ppl, like any cool events?
⚠️** A bit of a long post. I used ChatGPT to shorten it so it’s easier to read**.
Need some advice. Am I just stuck, or is this normal?
My college life was pretty messed up, and after all that, I got into a relationship with someone who eventually became my best friend.
The only complication was that she had come out of a serious relationship just 3–4 months before we started dating. We were together (or at least trying to make it work) for around 1.5 years. During that time, she cheated on me with her ex. I genuinely loved her, so I forgave her and we decided to give the relationship another chance.
Things were never really the same after that.
Towards the end, I was going through a lot of stress. Instead of communicating, I started avoiding her at times. I know that was my mistake. During that phase, she got close to another guy—someone I’ve known for years. Eventually we stopped talking, and around two months later they started dating.
It’s been about six months since our breakup.
The problem is, I still feel stuck. I go to the gym, I run, and I keep myself busy, but when it comes to relationships, I just can’t seem to connect with anyone. I haven’t been able to find someone I genuinely like, or someone who likes me back.
Has anyone else gone through something similar? How long did it take you to move on? Did you eventually find someone, or did you just stop looking?
I’d really appreciate honest advice rather than sympathy.
Every letter on these two paragraphs has been typed with love and friction from my two fat thumbs pressing at significant speeds on my phone. Don't blame me cuz, blame the word count. In the meantime, I'd be balancing things out with my hobbies, such as playing the drums, swimming, general shitposting, riding my motorcycle with buds etc. A little bit of lorem ipsum, and a bit more of dora the explorer, and we've hit roughly 80 words. Other hobbies for placeholder...reading, working out, drinking 2 plus liters of water from a steel bottle every 30 to 45 minutes. And that's a 100.
That being said, I'd be really surprised if you read this whole thing from start to end. Even I wouldn't read my posts this far bruh
Hey, I am 24 I work @ Infopark Kochi 🏢 . Basically from Punjab. Relocated from Bangalore recently. I’m looking for someone I genuinely connect with and can be my extroverted self around ☺️ . I am jack of all trades - Movies, Badminton, Gym, Gaming, Memes, trips etc. etc.
Feel free to DM if this resonates 😇😇
I don't really know why I'm posting this. I guess I just need someone to talk to. My relationship has fallen apart, and I'm struggling to make sense of everything. I know I made mistakes, and I carry a lot of guilt for hurting someone I love. More than anything, I just want him to be happy, even if that happiness doesn't include me. But accepting that feels impossible. My mind keeps replaying everything I could have done differently, and it's exhausting. I feel lonely, anxious, and lost. If anyone has been through something similar or is willing to listen without judging, I'd really appreciate someone to talk to.
I am currently working at infopark Kochi, looking for someone whom I can share every detail of my day with and go for chaaya dates in the evening. I am a great listener so If you love yapping a lot thats a plus!
Keeping it short.. lets know each other more when we meet in person :)
Hi there! I’m a 27-year-old software engineer originally from Kochi, Kerala, currently living and working at a product-based company in Chennai.
I’d describe myself as an ambivert with a witty side. I appreciate a good balance of quiet time and social energy. My hobbies include - Traveling, playing badminton, or going for long walks to stay active, Enjoying music, diving into sci-fi/thriller/comedy movies, playing board games, or hanging out with cats (big cat lover here!).
Lifestyle & Faith: I'm 5'8", a non-vegetarian, and a non-smoker/non-drinker. Culturally, I am a Christian by birth—I’m not overly religious, but I’m not an atheist either. I value my roots but keep a progressive, balanced outlook on life.
What I’m Looking For:
I am looking to connect with a Malayali girl who is kind, understanding, and emotionally mature. Trust, mutual respect, and open communication are big priorities for me.
I’d love to find someone who enjoys what she does, is ambitious about her life/career, and balances it with a sense of fun. Bonus points if you love traveling, exploring new food/places, is a cat person!
Let's Connect:
I wanted to keep this post simple and authentic. If this resonates with you and you're looking for something meaningful, feel free to drop into my DMs with a brief introduction about yourself. Let’s talk and see where things go.
(20F)I'm a hopeless romantic and I've always been someone who gets emotionally invested when I like someone.
Recently I've been thinking about trying casual dating. Not because I don't want a serious relationship eventually, but because I don't think I'm likely to find a genuine long-term connection anytime soon. I also want to explore myself a bit more and gain some life experience.
The thing is, if I were to do something casual, it would only be with someone who is completely upfront about not wanting anything serious. I wouldn't go into it expecting it to turn into a relationship.
My concern is that I don't fully trust myself. I'm not sure if I'm the kind of person who can genuinely keep things casual without getting attached.
What should I do? Should I just take the risk?
29 | Kerala, I am always horny,but today it seems like I am in the core.
I've always had a weakness for older women. I kept thinking life would introduce me to one eventually... but I'm still waiting for fate to do its thing. Until then, I'll keep believing my favorite plot twist is yet to come.
I will assure you, there won't be any regret , I can show you heaven without actually going there.
Hello Everyone,
I am a male and 25 years old, Unfortunately, my hinge in Kochi got banned for alleged bullying even thought I was very respectable and only made jokes that were mild. However since my fav dating app and the 30+ matches are gone, I have decided to reach out to the next best thing available; Reddit - So womans of Kerala please let me know and ill send you my hinge profile and you can either swipe left or right.
Sometimes my genuis is frightening.
I am a professional aged 31 living in Kochi.It is my birthday on June 27th,I am looking for someone to give me company on my birthday.Someone educated and dignified,where we can have in depth conversation about different topics ranging from cinema to politics.If anyone is interested please let me know.As it is my birthday I will be meeting all the expenses for food and drinks.
looking for someone who’d be interested in a casual coffee or movie date. I’ve been in the mood to get out of the house, have a change of scenery, and spend some time with good company instead of another evening indoors.
I’m not looking for anything overly complicated—just a relaxed conversation over coffee, or maybe catching a movie if we both feel like it. If we get along, great. If not, we still had a pleasant outing.
Hey everyone, 34M tech nerd here. I like long drives, good music, exploring new places and having meaningful conversations.
The plan is simple: go somewhere in Kerala or Tamil Nadu, enjoy the trip, talk explore a little, eat good food, relax and come back tomorrow night. There is no fixed itinerary, no pressure, just go with the flow and enjoy the vibe.
Looking for someone spontaneous, easy going, who loves road trips and real conversations. If you're free and this is your kind of weekend hit me up with a DM, age and a little about yourself. “Let’s see if we click and see where the road takes us.
In Kochi this weekend and expecting to meet some like minded people here to chill and enjoy this weekend. I haven't explored a proper Kochi weekend vibe yet. If anyone or gang is free today and interested in a new partner to hangout, let's connect. I am a very good driver, listener and I love music to the core. I also love science, tech, psychology, memes and sarcasm. Hmu or drop a comment. I'm just a bored IT guy suffering from WFH boredom.
If you are an Imtiaz Ali movie lover, let's watch Main Vapas Aaunga in theatres. Or if you are a sunset lover, let's watch the sunset on the sea with the sunset cruises of Kochi.
In Kochi this weekend and expecting to meet some like minded people here to chill and enjoy this weekend. I haven't explored a proper Kochi weekend vibe yet. If anyone or gang is free today and interested in a new partner to hangout, let's connect. I am a very good driver, listener and I love music to the core. I also love science, tech, psychology, memes and sarcasm. Hmu or drop a comment. I'm just a bored IT guy suffering from WFH boredom.
Hey Reddit!
I’m a 24-year-old guy who is finally ready to retire from the single life—or at least find someone amazing to share some great memories with. I'm looking for a lovely lady between 20 and 24 who is down for some fun, flirting, and seeing where things go.
A little bit about me:
On the court: I love playing basketball. I promise I’m competitive, but I’ll totally let you win maybe.
On the weekend: I’m all about hitting up night clubs, dancing, and grabbing a cold beer. If you need a partner to tear up the dance floor (or just look good trying), I'm your guy.
On the couch: For the chill nights, I'm always down to cuddle up and watch a great movie.
What I’m looking for: Someone sweet, fun, and adventurous. If you love a mix of high-energy nights out and cozy nights in, we’re probably going to get along famously. Bonus points if you can handle a bit of playful banter!
If your vibe matches mine, don't be shy. Shoot me a DM with your age, a bit about yourself, and your favorite drink or movie. Let’s see if we have some chemistry! 😉