r/date_in__Kochi

28 F4M -Movie date

28F looking for a movie date tomorrow 🎬🍿
Anyone here interested in joining me for a movie? Looking for someone who’s easygoing, fun to talk to, and just wants to enjoy a good movie and some nice company. We can decide the movie and place together.
No expectations, no pressure—just a chill movie date, good conversations, and good vibes. 😊
If you’re interested, DM me with your age and a little about yourself.

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u/charming_cactuss — 1 day ago

29 F4M married looking good spot in Kochi

29F, married, looking to meet someone discreetly for a date in Kochi. Looking for a safe, quiet cafe or similar place where we can have a private conversation without too much crowd or disturbance. Actually he is from Malappuram. We want safe. Prefer somewhere comfortable and discreet rather than an isolated place. Any recommendations for good cafes/spots in Kochi?

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u/piyaasw — 1 day ago

F4M 22 Looking for an older persons company

I am currently going through a situation so i would like to have someone to talk and if you can help me that would be nice too. I am also planning to shop for onam so someone who is interested in all that would be nice. We can roam around kochi and have a nice time together.

if you are interested, hit me up with a small talk and your age and what do you do and add something that is interesting about you as well

i wont be replying to just "hi" messages so please dont

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u/itshazelyo — 2 days ago

F 22.. F4M.. new here,, no weirdos plss... looking for real connection

chummaaa bored, that’s all 😭
moved around a bit n now in kochi, still don’t have proper girl friends here. just want someone to yap with, go try new cafes or just sit and talk nonsense. no dating, no weird stuff, pure friendship only.
i’m 23, kinda introverted but once i open up i talk a lot, love food more than people sometimes, always hunting for good coffee and small cute restaurants. reddit is so confusing to use ughhh, half the time i don’t even know if i’m doing it right.
if u know any new cafe or restaurant spots in kochi that are actually worth it, please let me noo 😅 also if u’re a girl around here and down to connect, hmu.
say M only if ur not a weirdo.

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u/blushberry22 — 3 days ago

I have, one of the driest phones. M4F [26]

I'm a selectively introverted person who don't usually talk to people in real life. I only talk when someone initiates the convo. That makes my phone one of the driest ones. With no messages. I usually reply within minute's. That makes people think im clingy.

I dont really have any female friends that i chat with on a regular basis. People stalk my profile and won't message.

Im super bored.

How can i find someone to chat with. To be friends.

If anyone feels bored or lonely feel free to message.

Lets talk about all kinds of stuffs.

But please be honest. I really like brutal honesty.

I always say, slice me up with the sword of truth.

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u/CrAzY-oUtLAw322000 — 3 days ago

M4F 19 - long term hookups(read body text)

hi so making it clear no strings attached but i’ll take care of all your expenses and i dont mind giving a sum in a month but i need it to be private (NO BIG MOUTHS)
this is not a flex but i’ll say you’ll be partying with elites of kochi
Should be available atleast 10 days a month

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u/Individual-Barber911 — 3 days ago

F4M 29 Looking for a movie or hangout buddy in Kochi

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I’m 29, married, and based in Kochi. My husband currently works out of state, so I’m looking for someone friendly to chat with and occasionally meet for a movie, coffee, or a relaxed outing. I prefer simple plans, quiet places, and genuine conversations without pressure. We can chat first and see if we connect. Please introduce yourself briefly.

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u/piyaasw — 5 days ago

52 M4F . Standing strong.

52 year old guy. Guess the oldest around here. Not the oldie creep you find buses and trains and some times that old achayan in a bar. Am none of those.

Just GenX looking for something different - casual chats, meetups - I do occasionally land in Kochi since I started investing there. Lets see how things go..

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u/Apprehensive_Wait702 — 4 days ago

F4M - 32 (for wife!)

Hey guys,

We are basically typical malabari couple in Ekm. Not necessarily looking for anything explicit - just light fun for now. Nothing specific in mind, but curious about fun, educated, sophisticated type guys out there. Maybe online first, and then... I don't know!

Please stay away if you're looking for immediate things, please stay away. It will probably be a good friendship, at least in the beginning.

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u/brownnes — 5 days ago

MeForFriends 30 Remote Workers in Kochi — Anyone Interested?

I work remotely and was wondering if there’s already a community or group in Kochi where remote workers meet up and do activities together.
I’m looking for something beyond just coworking—maybe weekend trips, travelling, trekking, scuba diving, exploring new places, trying different activities, or simply meeting up and hanging out.
If something like this already exists, I’d love to join. And if it doesn’t, would anyone be interested in starting a small community around it?
Would be great to meet more people in Kochi who work remotely and are up for doing things together! 😊

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u/mycodeis2255 — 6 days ago

M4F | 30 M | Looking for a Genuine Connection in Kochi 🌙☕️

Kochi gets hectic, so looking for a girl to occasionally escape the chaos with — chai, random drives, late-night talks, workouts, spontaneous trips, and maybe a little naughtiness 😋

No pressure, no judgement, no forced commitments. Just genuine company, good bonding, and seeing where the vibe takes us.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, DM me. Please be genuine. ✨

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u/Hodophile08 — 4 days ago

F4M 23: Just samsarikkan aarelum undo?

Pandokke boar adichal dating apps edukkumayirunnu. Ippol ath reddit ayi. Shasthrathinte oro valarchaye... Ethanu difference enn vachal... Sherikkum endhanu diffrence? Aa athonnum ariyilla.

​Sambhavam ithreye ollu, njan veendum reddit eduthu. Just samsarikkan thalparyam ulla aarelum undel kadann varam.

​Veronnum expect cheyyaruth. Veronnum mean... angane onnum udheshich paranjath alla. Ennalum paranjenne ollu.

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u/Admirable-Safety7501 — 9 days ago

M4M | 28 | M4F gender is not an issue

Moved from Chennai to Kochi more than a year ago

I don’t really have a friends circle here yet.

I run a company in Panampilly Nagar, so most of my time goes into work. But outside of that, I’d genuinely like to meet some new people and build a good circle.

Looking for people to hang out with — grab some food, coffee, catch a movie, go for a drive, chill, have a few drinks, talk random shit, or just explore Kochi together.

No gender boundaries at all — I’m happy to meet anyone, as long as you’re a genuine person and here for good vibes and friendship.

Not really looking for anything specific. Just good people, good conversations and good vibes.

If you’re also looking to expand your circle in Kochi, feel free to DM me.

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u/Admirable-Command148 — 7 days ago

M4F 23| Kochi | Anyone else bored of the usual routine?

23M from Kochi. Lately my days have been feeling way too repetitive — college/work, phone, sleep, repeat.
So I’m trying something random today. Looking to meet someone who’s also a little bored of the usual routine and wants to talk, share random stories, argue about stupid topics, recommend songs/movies, or just have an interesting conversation.
No particular expectations and no awkward interview-type questions 😭. Just two strangers talking and seeing if we actually get along.
If you’re up for it, say hi. I’ll take the conversation from there.

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u/Individual-Tax-3532 — 6 days ago

30 M4F singaporean last day in kochi. Let’s meet and hang out

hi, message me and let’s chat. Looking to meet and hang out. I am a solo traveller leaving tomorrow and looking to explore the night life. Hmu and let’s see. I am 6ft tall, fit and respectful. I will pay for everything so do not worry. Just reach out

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u/gokul_212 — 7 days ago
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M4F 24 - Dc movie today

Anyone up for watching a DC movie today? 🎬🦇 I’m looking for someone to join me for a movie and chill. If you’re interested, just DM me! Let’s catch a good DC movie together and have a fun evening. No plans yet, so feel free to hit me up if you’re interested! 🍿

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u/dbaako — 7 days ago

M4F 19 Looking for Matured Female Trippers

So basically i’m 19M i’m hosting my birthday party tommorow at friends place and i’m looking for pretty matured trippers and posting this coz all my friends are tripping w couples
AGH PEER PRESSURE
can meet at public place if anyone has any concerns please feel free to hit my dms and every expenses will be taken care of with any luxury asked

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u/wompwompmax — 7 days ago
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M4F 22

Hi everyone! First time aanu Reddit-il, enganeya ee parpaadi ennokke onnum arinjooda. Veruthe oru post cheyyam ennu karuthi, arelum undel message ayakkuko? Njan Kochiyil aanu, age 23, working aanu. Ithil 50 words venam ennokke rules parayunnu, athukondaanu ithreum karyangal type cheyyunnathu. Arivullavar onnu paranju tharane, kochiyil karanganum companay adikanum oke arelum undo!

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u/Illustrious-Owl-1272 — 8 days ago
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M4F 36 - A Coffee Date @ Poems Cafe

36M from Kakkanad/Edachira, looking for a genuine girl/lady who would be interested in meeting for a casual coffee date at Poems Café. ☕️

Nothing complicated - just a relaxed conversation, good coffee, and a chance to meet someone new in a comfortable and respectful setting. I’m looking for genuine people who are actually interested in meeting and having a nice conversation.

If you’re interested, please DM me to discuss and confirm. No pressure, no expectations, and absolutely no scams or fake profiles.

Genuine people only, please. Let’s keep it respectful and straightforward.

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u/Cool_Dude_1988 — 9 days ago

M4F 22 looking for some one to chat casualy and more on online with privacy

I’m looking for someone genuine to talk to about anything and everything, from random everyday conversations to deeper, private, and more personal topics. I’m also open to playful, flirty, and spicy conversations with someone who is an adult and comfortable with that kind of connection. Privacy, trust, and mutual respect are important to me, so I’d prefer someone who is comfortable keeping things private and taking their time getting to know each other. I’m hoping to find a good online connection where we can be open, relaxed, and enjoy talking without judgment.

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u/AnxiousLet6970 — 9 days ago