r/date_in__Kochi

22F, currently working at Technopark, but home is in Kochi. Looking for genuine dates and interesting conversations. DM me your introduction along with a photo. If I find you interesting, I’ll text you back. Please don’t send someone else’s photo for verification, I may ask you to send a picture doing a specific pose. Just being careful and avoiding fake profiles. Looking for people who can hold a good conversation, are respectful, and know how to vibe. Age-appropriate people only. Let’s see where things go naturally and keep it real. Bonus points if you’re funny, confident, and easy to talk to.

looking for a friend to hangout

nothing else,

interested guys under 25 comment or dm me

Looking for meet-ups, hangouts and much more

If any girl wants to adopt an introvert for coffee or evening walks in Kochi, applications are open 😂

This is question i have asked in my friend group and close fam. Had quite a laugh and interesting insights.

Would you rather date a biological girl who looks like your homie with a wig or a pre op trans girl that could put your celebrity crush to shame in looks?

No wrong answers boys, Explain ur reasons.

I am 19M i had one relationship before but she cheated me because of she i had rejected many of them but now i am feeling sad for this. Nobody is there to talk with me all my girlfriends had gone because of her. Now i am alone feeling lonely if anyone can be my friend can you text. (I am attracted to older people sometimes 😭)

Hey post 5 PM will be around Marine drive and queens walkway. Anyone around to catch up 😉

Any girl out here who is into sugaring and would like to talk about it more?

Hi everyone,

I’m new to Kochi and currently looking to connect with new people, make some good conversations, and explore the city a bit more through casual hangouts and friendly interactions. Since I’m still getting familiar with the place, I thought this would be a nice way to meet open-minded people and build a small social circle here.

Just to introduce myself briefly — I’m a 26-year-old male, easygoing, respectful, and mainly interested in normal socializing, coffee chats, food spots, drives, movies, or simple hangouts whenever time permits. Nothing complicated or weird intended here, so please don’t overthink it or feel uncomfortable. The intention is genuinely just to meet new people and enjoy good company.

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Hope to see you soon.

Regards

Anonymous

And no, this ain't some "girls only" or "boys only" kinda thing. Anyone can join.

I'm an IT guy, just trying to get out for some fresh air over the weekend. I stay near Palarivattom.

If anyone's up for it, ping me. We can do a quick meetup, go somewhere nearby, have a chai, have a conversation about life, and head back

Anyone in?

We can watch songs on YouTube together and chat based on our musical tastes and interests. Just two members vibing together to kill time and boredom. No expectations. No drama. No Judgements. If you prefer IRL, I'm down for a ride/cafe meet, just chat and vibe with music together.

I listen to Indian music mostly in languages Malayalam, Tamil, Telugu, Hindi and so on. I am ready to explore your side as well. Hmu if interested.

I'll be free upto 11 PM tonight.

I'm a 90s kid, and a Man. (if that matters your preferences and filters)

I’m from kakanad Kochi 22m looking for a girl ..
no commitment or relationships just hangout and fun

Can anyone lemme know any make out spots during the daylight where people don’t bother and we will have a bit of privacy …
( don’t recommend hotel rooms / cars )

30 f single this side looking for like minded company to join me while I explore munnar. DM if yiu have similar plans

Planning a 3-day trip — leaving Friday and coming back Monday. Mostly looking to chill, explore viewpoints, walk around, enjoy the weather and have a fun little getaway.

If anyone’s interested or already planning something similar, drop a comment or DM :)

Hey heading to kochi over the weekend and would love to explore the city with someone who knows in and out about the city.

So I am 28M. Some months ago, I was fully committed to someone and it all ended in Jan after 6-7 years (I realized I was being used just for emotional comfort and nothing else).

Once everything ended, I decided I need to explore sex (I was a virgin, purposefully held myself back from seeking women due to my loyalty to the earlier woman). My entire adult life was ruined because of the earlier person. So I wanted to try it and tested out some dating apps. I found one specific dating app where we could communicate anonymously (won’t specify the name since theres a chance that I may get labelled as their pr team or something). I started talking to a person, and we even just met once for coffee. My assumption was that she was in her early twenties. The entire point of anonymity in that app is of course casual sex. So she told me we can meet up and do it the next time we meet.

It took me 3 more days of talking until I just asked out of curiosity what her age was. She told me she was 18. Bruh? We’re literally 10 years apart in terms of age, and she’s like she started taking rooms with people as soon as she turned 18 so its okay nd all. I know its the legal minimum age nd all but still, I’m confused. What to do?

Been trying to go on a date with a girl for a month now. Tried every app. No luck. So I'm here.

I'm looking for a smart, kind, educated girl 20-26. I'm an MBA student at a national institute. If you're interested in getting to know me DM. I'm 28. I'm from TVM, here on an internship. Honestly I'm just tired of being alone all the time. I want someone with who I can casually chat, cuddle, having philosophical chats with, etc.

I don't know what else more to write to get to 100 words. I'm just lonely and disappointed with the world and just plain sad.

Okay genuine question as someone new here… has anyone actually pulled a date from this sub?

Or are we all just lonely and delusional together? 💀

Do you actually keep things discreet when you get laid? Especially fwb or one night stand? If I were to hook up with a stranger what all should I look out for? I'd prefer keeping it discreet, how do you actually trust a stranger? Especially in kochi where chances of running into each other or common friends are high.