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I really think gaming and entertainment companies underestimate the power of representation and its ability to expand the reach of their medium.

I’m not someone who considers himself a sci-fi fan. This genre never really caught my interest. I would have never imagined myself playing a series like Mass Effect.

Until I saw a random gif of Kaidan and MaleShep’s romance sex scene from Mass Effect 3 and it caught my attention and I read a bit about the game and the possibility of a gay romance and I made the decision to purchase the game. And now it’s one of my favourite franchises of all time despite a gay romance pathway not available in the first 2 games.

Same goes for games like Dragon Age Inquisition and Final Fantasy XVI. I love fantasy but I came to know about the games because of the discussion surrounding a potential gay romance in DAI and the presence of a prominent gay side character in FFXVI.

I’m not saying every game needs to have gay or bisexual characters or a queer romance option but I really don’t think it hurts company sales to have them included. Quite the opposite, I believe companies have more to gain because the close-minded will complain regardless of what you do, the remaining audience will not really care and the queer community will see themselves represented in video games. Same goes for other mediums such as comics, movies or series. Again not every game or medium needs to have queer characters but overall I believe people underestimate how many gay or bisexual people exist in any given society and the percentage they represent.

I’m not sure we’ll ever see a massively popular game centered around an exclusively gay or bi male protagonist, but representation matters greatly and benefits everyone, even corporations who couldn’t give a shit about queer people and play the representation card as a PR stunt.

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u/yellowklashinkov — 8 hours ago
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Grinding as a busy adult

I love video games, they’re my number one hobby, but I work 12hour shifts, some of them overnight. I try to play as much as I can, but sometimes I can go a whole week without playing because I don’t have the time. So when I do get to play, I don’t really have the patience for heavy grinding anymore.

For example, when I’m playing Pokémon on my retro console, I fight every trainer I see and almost every wild encounter, except in caves or while surfing. But if, after doing all that, I still get to the gym and my team is six levels below the leader’s weakest Pokémon, I just can’t spend three hours grinding in tall grass to level up my whole team. That could easily take up all my gaming time for the day, so I usually just cheat in a bunch of Rare Candies instead.

Another example is when I played Persona 3 Reload. I fought every Shadow I came across too, but the few times I actually had to grind felt pretty frustrating. I’d honestly rather have that mechanic removed entirely, or at least have games give players a way to avoid it.

So, what do you think?

u/Bright_Finance3808 — 15 hours ago
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Anyone Else a Single Player Fan?

I'm 33m looking for other people who also enjoy single player games for discussion or to even share around ideas of what games to play. I get co-op is an awesome experience as well, but I'm more into single player experiences. Looking to talk and discuss different games in detail or to even chat about theories the games may leave players wondering on. If that would be interesting to you please let me know!

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u/Crit-Hit00 — 1 day ago

Thoughts on Mixtape?

I've seen lots of discourse surrounding this game, with lots people saying that it's awful or it's a "industry plant" (don't know how can a game be one tbh)

I haven't played but i'm curious if it's actually a bad game or is it another case of people shiting on something because they are not the target demographic for it

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u/luquincas — 1 day ago

Has anyone here played both FF7 Remake and DMC 3,4,5? Which series should I get?

Final Fantasy 7 Remake Intergrade (Remake +
DLC) ~22$

Or

DMC Bundle (1, 2, 3SE, 4SE) + DMC 5SE
~28$

I'm generally a single-player, narrative-driven type of person. The bulk of the games I've played are Assassin's Creed, Uncharted, Hitman WOA, Bioshock, Witcher 3, Spider-Man, Arkham Games, Mass Effect 1 and 2, Mafia, Resident Evil 2 Remake and some platformers here and there.

I know nothing about the games. I watched some gameplay for both but couldn't really pinpoint the pros and cons of each game.

Looking for either a strong narrative and strong characters or strong gameplay with a serviceable story line. Or ideally both.

Would appreciate some input or feedback on either game.

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u/yellowklashinkov — 1 day ago
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My Kliff

There’s indeed a lore in this game but it’s terrible the way Pearl Abyss execute it. But I still having a good time since the dev keep fixing and improve many things.

And here you are, my Kliff with Oongka armor. I hope in the future they add more shirtless/barbarian armor in the future like from the Ironclad Orcs.

I played in on PS5 base.

u/Big-District-3192 — 2 days ago
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ESO LGBTQ+ Players!

Are you a new, returning or current ESO player!?
Come check out the growing community Elder Scrolls Online LGBTQ+ Community on Facebook and Disboard! 🏳️‍🌈

A lot of major ESO groups have not been shy is advertising their homophobia or even have rules against LGBTQ+ folks! 🥲

So stop by and help our community grow and give LGBTQ+ ESO players a safe space to just be themselves! ☺️

u/Tokyo_Reaper31 — 2 days ago

35 TM Scotland UK looking for friends to game with (Mostly pc)

Hiya 👋

I'm a trans guy from Scotland.. I'm an introverted gamer person lol and do enjoy just talking about gaming in general.

I'm looking for friends to play games with.. mainly pc gamer. On pc (mostly on Steam) I play games like

Warhammer Marine 2/Darktide, REPO, PEAK, Minecraft, Warframe, Elder scrolls online and many more.

I do have a playstation 5 with playstation plus but I don't have as many games on there but don't mind playing together on there.

I must warn you about the fact that I'm mostly only available on Sunday and maybe the odd mid week day like Wednesday or such but not always.

If interested can comment here or DM

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u/Wilddark09 — 1 day ago

M22, FWB, Looking for someone cool!

Heyhey you! I‘m an enby guy named Bobby, 22yrs old and looking for a genuine guy-friend that I can share sexual intimacy with (so a fwb). I live in the canton of Zürich (Switzerland) and would like to meet someone with shared interests that is within proximity to also spend quality time in person together.

So lemme sell you on this neat ride, no pun intended haha. I‘m a pc and switch gamer, currently enjoying games from overwatch to corekeeper/stardew/terraria to party and rpg / open world kind of games. I am as chaotic as adhd jesters get; wether i‘m setting the world ablaze in a pyromanic frenzy or end up fighting an endboss with nothing more than a lvl 1 twig and a leaf-shield to my name. I‘m pretty, let‘s call it „lively and entertaining“ to be around…

Outside of gaming i‘m very creative. I enjoy singing, making my own music, storytelling and painting. I love the outdoors. I serve the funniest falls when i‘m surfing waves or twisting on my roller-skates. I recently started going to the gym more frequently and want to be more intentional with health and fitness so a gym buddy would be a blessing. Will I occasionally distract us from our workouts? absolutely. Will it be worth it every second of it? „Don‘t be ridiculous, Andrea.“ To quote one of the greats here ahha.

I also recently realized that I‘m very interested in the furry community. I‘m what the bible calls a virgin mary on the matter, but I would genuinely like to meet someone that had his „paws on the ground“ as a true veteran to show me „a whole new world 🎶“

Anyways a lot of yapping. Get used to it if you‘re interested ahah. Just hit me up via dm so we can see if it‘s a match ;D

"That's all" 👵

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u/ToastedTurtleHam — 1 day ago
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Corvo Attano from the Dishonored series is Papi

Recently my nerdy bicurious friend introduced me to the Dishonored series; he's a ring collector, and his girlfriend got him the Imperial signet ring as a Christmas present. I complimented it, and that got him gushing about the series. It was always one of those series that I heard good things about but never felt the need to play, but after having such a good friend speak so highly of it, I decided I had to try it. (Our mildly flirtatious friendship has nothing to do with it, I swear lol)

Anyway, after all the games were discounted on the PS Store, I decided to get all of them. And let me tell you, from the first game I was blown away. As a first-person game I had no idea what the player character (Corvo Attano) looked like. In the sequel, he's a side character so you can actually see him. By that point in the series he is a full-on silver fox; this especially comes across in the concept art.

So...yeah, I'm not sure if my friend knows exactly what he's done by introducing me to the series...😈

u/RelativeDangerous604 — 3 days ago
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Nerd Density

I kinda thought there were lots of nerds in the lgbt/gay community, but after 2 weeks of online dating apps I met not a single one. Are we that seldom?

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u/UrurForReal — 3 days ago