Expat dilemma: stay in Qatar with great income or move for citizenship?
My husband and I are currently living in Qatar. We’re both engineers with around 6 years of experience each. He works as a Software Architect and I work as an AI Product Manager. Financially we’re doing well here, we have a comfortable lifestyle, savings, safety, and no kids yet.
But lately we’ve been thinking more seriously about long-term stability and citizenship/passport options.
As many expats in the Gulf know, you can build a great career and life here, but permanent residency/citizenship is still uncertain long term. We’re wondering whether it’s worth moving to a country that offers a clearer path to permanent residency and citizenship (Canada, Australia, parts of Europe, etc.), even if it means:
higher taxes
lower savings initially
restarting socially/professionally
potentially lower lifestyle quality at first
For people who made this move:
Was it worth it long term?
Do you value the passport/security more than the financial advantages of the Gulf?
Did you regret leaving a high-income lifestyle?
How important did kids/future family planning become in your decision?
And for people who stayed in the Gulf long term:
Do you feel secure about your future there?
What’s your long-term plan?
I feel very torn between optimizing for present quality of life vs future stability and belonging.
Would genuinely appreciate perspectives from people who’ve lived this decision.