r/telugu_saptavarnikulu

I mean many of us are very closeted , college lo unnaam or work space undhi manaki . So , oka journey lo various points lo unnaam . Regarding sexuality, most of us are so silent and don't let anyone around us know ( be it of any sexuality/gender expression) coz we know people aren't so welcoming ( most of them ).

Ilaanti paristhithullo how does one even dare put their pic on dating apps? How does one even have the confidence to meet someone ? U know , meeting them is just like ur secret being let out to the world. It's not like everyone's so trustworthy. That person u met can even let anyone know about who u are or ur secret that u don't want anyone to know ( atleast at that moment). Manam chepthe okalaaga react avthaaru and evaro chepthe okalaaga react avthaaru . Inni consequences unna ee situation lo how do u people still deal with uncertainty?

When you are feeling low, what's your best place to go?

Answer cheyoche questions emaina adagandi 🥸

Im 21G

I'm avi and this sub is so cool, anyone interested making new friends?

There are too many theories about relationships, connection, and love.

People throw around fancy words, yet so often lack the most basic human empathy.

If you approach someone with a genuine heart, you're seen as needy.

We don't shame someone for being hungry. We understand that food is a basic human need. Yet somehow we've forgotten that love, affection, and human connection are just as fundamental. Wanting them is treated like a weakness, a character flaw. Detachment is admired. Distance is mistaken for strength.

Then comes the advice.

"Master hyper-independence."

"Learn to be alone."

"Don't need anyone."

So you do.

You master solitude. You build a life. You become self-sufficient. You stop expecting anything from others.

And when you've done all that...

You still seek connection.

Not because you need someone to complete you.

Not because you can't survive on your own.

But because no amount of self-sufficiency replaces being deeply known by another human being.

You don't need a crowd of people.

You need one person who sees you. Your inner world. Your fears, your joy, your contradictions, your silence and chooses to stay.

That isn't dependence.

It's one of the most deeply human experiences there is.

Maybe the real problem isn't that people have stopped needing love. It's that we've become better at pretending we don't.

Is love a reward granted only to those who tick certain boxes? Or only to those who've completely figured out their lives?

How exactly do you measure someone's worth?

You can become everything those boxes demand . successful, attractive, confident—and still feel unbearably lonely. Because people admire what you've become, not who you are.

The real challenge isn't becoming someone desirable.

It's finding the one person who looks at you and says,

"You don't have to earn it."

Someone who chooses to know you before they judge you. Someone who stays when there's nothing to gain.

Maybe that's what being truly seen feels like.

And perhaps love was never meant to be a prize for the exceptional. Maybe it was always meant to be the place where ordinary people no longer have to prove they deserve to exist.

Real life(offline) lo vallatho friendship cheyadam raadhu.Online lo friendship ayyi, real life lo kaludham ante naaku chala bhayam.I'm very insecure.Konni saarlu nene worst person la anipisthadi.

irl lo evariki open up avvalekapothunna(closeted). Oka pressure cooker laga feel avthunna,full insecurities and FOMO build up avthunnai.

Sometimes I just feel like shitposting(like sharing my life with y'all),sometimes I want to disappear and stay introverted. I'm honestly very confused right now.

Nen okkadinena? Em cheyali antaru..

I'm 26 f. Today morning, I finalized that i should go bald. I didn't even informed my parents. There is a salon nearby my flat. I asked that bhaiyya s wife to come to my flat. And it is amazing feeling i should say. As the razor is running over through my head , I feel the cold breeze. After the work is done, I ran my fingers over scalp and it's damn smooth. Ahh I loved it. I will say every girl should try this amazing feeling once.