u/Positive_Wedding1476

I mean many of us are very closeted , college lo unnaam or work space undhi manaki . So , oka journey lo various points lo unnaam . Regarding sexuality, most of us are so silent and don't let anyone around us know ( be it of any sexuality/gender expression) coz we know people aren't so welcoming ( most of them ).

Ilaanti paristhithullo how does one even dare put their pic on dating apps? How does one even have the confidence to meet someone ? U know , meeting them is just like ur secret being let out to the world. It's not like everyone's so trustworthy. That person u met can even let anyone know about who u are or ur secret that u don't want anyone to know ( atleast at that moment). Manam chepthe okalaaga react avthaaru and evaro chepthe okalaaga react avthaaru . Inni consequences unna ee situation lo how do u people still deal with uncertainty?

I asked in the nearest aadhar centre and man , they are full of egoistic people who said it will take 10-14 days excluding govt holidays and new aadhar card might take a month. If it's not updated / failed to update , we will let u know and u can come then .

With these many confusions, do I need to update the aadhar card ? Or is it fine even with this ?

Everyone's saying to change registered phone number , biometrics and photo so suddenly. Where is it mentioned in the bulletin? Pls do lmk .

Previous NEET PG : 63 sec per question .

Present NEET PG : 70 sec per question.

USMLE Step 1 : 90 sec per question.

" I GUESS " just coz they increased 7 sec doesn't mean the whole paper is gonna be USMLE clinical based. Yes , few questions are lengthy but to balance out that, few should be one liners as well then . Giving a 90 sec USMLE question in a 70 sec timeline wouldn't even make sense . People already started uploading too much long- lengthy questions that would even need more than 90 sec to assess ☠️.

Also ,there was a change in NEET Ug time , where they increased 180 mins to 195 mins for 180 qns. So ,may be , they did the same to PG as well( ? ) .

Or may be , it's just to fit in some video based questions (?)

So, may be it's gonna be a mix of lengthy questions and one liners/ few liners / fact based questions. (?)

( This sucks so much now , atleast Usmle is a clinical paper and NEET is more factual paper till date .. Now, it doesn't even make sense if it's gonna be shifted to complete clinical paper or mixed paper , should we study in a clinical way or learn the factual stuff still. It's impossible to do everything 😮‍💨. NBEMS and their mood swings)

I ( 23/M) have this very good friend of mine at my place . He himself is a bi ( and only I know )( I am yet to explore my bi side though ). We are very good friends since 3-4 yrs . Have a strong bond , help eachother a lot , talk on calls , basically chaala manchi dosth laagane ( bro - code ). Everything's going fine and we were talking few days ago on insta and oka discussion lo sudden ga " nuvvu nenu cheppindhi cheyyakapothe nuvvu k*jja "ani annaadu. Nenu shock ayya. I confronted him , endhuku ala annaav , why being tr*nsphobic ani . He just replied " it's an internet meme these days " . I still mentioned not to use such words in a derogatory way.

Cut chesthe yesterday, we were having some shit talk about life and all. Some random things about marriage and stuff regarding the case of murder at trek by a person which is on news. Nenu inka casual ga I mentioned " wish I was asexual " ( naa meaning aro-ace where I don't need to seek out for love and sex ani ). He just told " why do u want to be sterile ? " 😭 Bro , wtf. What's asexuality anything to do with sterility . He laughed and still told the same. I just stopped arguing and left the convo. I felt disgusted , though he is a very good person in character , he himself is bi yet not having knowledge about these and retorting to degrade as the same way as others on internet doesn't even make sense.

What would u do in this scenario?

It sucks being bi. U have all the options, yet end up getting nothing . Wish I was gay or straight . Ekkadaina munigithe maaripochu ane places unte cheppandi 😒

( P.S. other sexualities do exist , just kept out of discussion anthe)

How is queer life being medico? Especially in residency ( PG / DM ), consultation ? How isll does sexuality affect work life balance in a medical setup? Did u guys plan to come out / came out ? If so , how did people around u react ? How did u deal with queerophobia?

I asked particularly about residency coz I am gonna soon join MD . Few of my friends during UG know my sexuality ( being bi-ace ) . I am trying to avoid bringing this topic in my residency and stay calm but worried about if it would be leaked by my UG friends to these seniors / co pgs at my place . ( These clgs are pretty much in same city and everyone has mutual friends ). I may be over reacting but asking out just to be on safe side .

Any other input would be great as well

Thanks ! 🥂