r/telugumedschool

My roommates who never met before became close like both of their parents were talking so closely on admission day and later on they both were ignoring me so much like I am non existent and i was feeling totally lonely. My opp roommates started talking w me and are close w me currently but still their room is full and hence I have to stay alone in my room. I thought clg life would be fun but everyone is not easy to get along w and already formed groups or whtever and are staying w people whom they met first. I can’t even slide from this college for round 3 and I feel like crying every day. Whereas super seniors only few of them are nice but not easy to talk and remaining are literally waiting to rag us and our immediate seniors went for
holidays. even tho they are nice, it still feels so lonely to stay in this batch.

I hate it I hate it i hate it i hate it i hate it i hate it. Orientation anta it sucks. And i didn't make any frns I feel so left out. I'm exactly who I didn't ever want to be all overrrrr AGAAAAAINNNNNNN😭😭😭😭😭 SENIORSSSS PLSSS ADVICE GIVE.

So, I'm working in a corporate hospital now post MBBS. I'm the DMO for not an entire floor but a certain section where most of the cases are of a certain doctor. And this doctor has a couple of long standing staff...like some Bpharm person and a nurse who he has assigned to look after his cases, like he insisted and hospital agreed.

Those two are horrible to me. I stay around 8 hours in the hospital, maybe 4 hours of interaction with them. They do not let me do any of the work, they themselves assign the treatment for the patients' complaints. Rounds feel like a humiliation ritual every day, they do not even let me talk to the patient. If I try to talk to them regarding work they ignore me. They purposely make passive aggressive digs and sometimes if the guy is in a bad mood he straight up is aggressive with me. If he ends up being wrong (which he is often!) I rectify it and I don't even chastize them, but his ego gets hurt and the whole day he behaves even more aggressively. He also is hellbent on knowing my caste. They also hate me coz I don't wanna go out and spend time with them eating food and that I like to study in my free time.

They do stuff like bring ECGs and ask me to interpret, bring MRIs and ask me to interpret and then I tell the basic I know and they bring it up in front of consultant saying this is what maaadaam said hehehehehe to prove me wrong and then mock me. If I don't respond they repeat it multiple times to get my attention.

I feel very anxious, it's mostly because of the guy, the female nurse is only passive aggressive but I don't care. This guy got mad at me once and was rude to me for two days coz I refused to give him a lift on my two wheeler (I don't feel that comfortable with riding with guys I don't know)

The only good part about the job is that the doctor is quite talented and he does get very, very good cases and there's a lot to learn. I am actually so satisfied, my internship was in a hospital with low patient load. He loves to discuss the cases but the moment I talk even more than two lines they both interrupt and start talking some nonsense.

Basically the background here is these staff have been with this doctor for 5+ years through different institutions he kept bringing them, they know his family and they go to his house etc etc. I just wanna learn and go away, I'm not gonna steal their position.

But I'm either waking up with anxiety or crying in the evening because of the stress and not able to study properly. Also there's no scope for me to complain to the doctor, he kinda knows coz they do it right in front of him and he chooses to ignore, he's not gonna let go of his loyal staff for a temp DMO.

I thought I'll quit after three months, but there's this thought that fuck it, I will suffer in residency anyway why suffer now? What if I quit after just two months?

But there's also the chance to learn so much. Maybe I'm just oversensitive, this is how support staff is all the time aren't they? Also I don't wanna financially depend on my parents, I think this is how adulting is and I should suck it up like millions of other people who work miserable jobs and deal with it? And develop mental strength and study. Really confused.

Oh and the doctor is a well known name in our tier 2 city, and knows some mutual friends of my father and I don't wanna stir up any shit by quitting so soon (it's been only a month, I work quite closely with the same doctor)

So my 1st year classes are about to start..

Seniors need your help and guidance..

Basically ela chadavali, how to attend lectures, notes prepare cheyala while attending classes and what are the things that we need to focus on like standard textbooks or marrow/pw/prep ladder notes or a combination of both..

And how to stay on track beside enjoying college life so that last minute lo we don't end up asking how to pass..

And any tips from toppers/distinction holders/gold medalists on how to become one..

And any non-academic/academic related suggestions that you want give from the POV: when you seniors in your 1st year felt like ela chesunte bagundedhi/ ela cheyakunda unte bagundedhi..

I would be grateful if you can answer any one/few questions from the above. Thanks for your time :)

TL;DR: In short if you were given a chance to travel back in time and meet your younger self in MBBS 1st year what advice would you give him/her ?

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I have 3 upcoming residency interviews - 2 in Internal medicine and 1 in Family medicine and am looking for a partner to practice with and prepare together.

I’d like to spend the next 7 days thoroughly reviewing my CV and commonly asked questions before starting mock interviews and practicing common interview questions together.

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Hey guys ! I'm going to join my PG this yr... I wanted to take OBGYN. Can anyone suggest which is better for OBGYN - GMC or RMC !?

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Hello everyone,
I have a very high chance of getting Micro or Biochem in any of these three colleges!
It would really help me if someone doing either of these branches from these colleges can respond.

I wanna understand-

1. Work life balance
2. Everyday timings
3. Night duties
4. Stipend
5. Toxicity

Thank you in advance.