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Let's be honest about about the reason the staff are being required to return to campus

Remote work was never really supposed to mean, “I can work from home while also taking care of my kids.” It was supposed to mean you were working, just somewhere other than your office. Those are two very different things, and pretending they are the same thing makes it harder for everyone else who actually uses hybrid work to do their job.

I'm sure there are plenty of parents who manage their work and family responsibilities perfectly well. That's not the issue. The problem is when someone's childcare situation quietly becomes their supervisor's problem, their coworkers' problem, or a reason they should get more flexibility than everyone else.

And when enough people start treating a workplace policy as a personal benefit instead of a work arrangement, eventually management notices.

So when UD and COE start talking about bringing people back to campus, I don't think it's unreasonable to wonder whether some of this is a reaction to years of employees pushing the limits of what “work from home” was supposed to mean. The irony is that the people who treated flexibility like an entitlement may have helped make flexible work less sustainable for everyone else.

I can already hear the response that this is blaming parents or ignoring the many people who have legitimate reasons for needing flexibility. That's not what I'm saying, and obviously there are good employees who happen to have kids and good reasons for needing an occasional adjustment. I'm talking about the point where a work arrangement becomes a way to accommodate someone's personal life on a regular basis, because once that becomes common enough, it stops looking like flexibility and starts looking like a different job.

Maybe the lesson here is that flexibility works best when people treat it like a responsibility rather than something they're owed.

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u/NoExpression8360 — 19 hours ago
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Forced Triple

Hey everyone! I’ve been assigned a forced triple at Ray Street for my Junior year. Me and my roommates REALLY want to avoid bunk beds. Does anyone have any photos of forced triples in any similar sized suite dorms that DONT include bunk beds? Will this be possible for us? Thank you!

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u/Nice-Detail-8628 — 1 day ago
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Stigma about having kids?

So im about to graduate with my bachelor’s and am looking to apply to UD for grad school at their Lewes campus. I’m really wondering how being a mom will affect my experience here. At my current university it’s awful… everytime I go to meet with my advisor I need to bring my boys since my husband works and people avoid me and the stroller like the plague… im treated like i don’t belong here… people have called me a whore… it’s ridiculous. The professors have been mostly accommodating and my advisor is amazing. But geez the stigma around here about having kids is insane. Some people think they’re cute or whatever and that’s nice but I hate going through my day where im just making everyone uncomfortable and im avoided just because of a stigma. Sometimes a whole month will go by between me having actual human conversations with someone. There are two changing tables on the entire campus and one lactation room, which was booked for me during one of my classes but I would literally miss the whole class walking across a whole building and down two floors just to feed my child when a poncho would suffice in my opinion. I’d prefer not to have a repeat of this experience and I want to make sure this is going to be a good environment for me. Hoping to get my Masters in the Water Science program after I finish here in GIS.

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u/Ok-Olive-3771 — 1 day ago
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UD forcing hybrid and remote staff back to campus

For those who haven’t heard yet:

UD is expanding return to campus requirements while eliminating hybrid parking permits and requiring new hires and transfers to work on campus five days a week. That means more traffic and strain on local infrastructure, more commuting emissions, higher parking and fuel costs, and longer workdays for fewer dollars for employees already facing years of rising costs. There has been no transparency about the data or analysis surrounding these choices or how they align with UD’s institutional goals and commitments.

Some staff have created a petition outlining their concerns about this new policy. You can read and sign (anonymously, if you choose) the petition here: https://tally.so/r/NpvJzb

u/yancydrew — 3 days ago
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FOR UD ALUM BEFORE 2018 ONLY

Hello all! I am a recent grad of UD and have lived on east park almost my entire tenure at UD. The entire time I have been fascinated by this abandoned frat out, there is only limited information online about the house and about the frat and why it shut down I believe the frat that had it longest was Kappa Sigma. If anyone has pictures or stories from or about the house good or bad from the 2010s, 2000s, 90s, etc, I would love to know. Anyway here are some pictures of the house itself to possibly jog anyone’s memory.

u/Chance-Broccoli-9949 — 5 days ago
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How are the harrington bathrooms?

I'm a freshman about to move in and curious about what the communal bathrooms in Harrington are like.

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u/dmvtheprincess — 4 days ago
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Do people actually call Udel “Delly”?

I’m a new student moving in soon and my friend who goes to Udel and called it “Delly”. Is that a thing the school goes by? And are there any other nicknames for our school?

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u/Due_Introduction_366 — 8 days ago
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Cheapest way to park as a commuter?

I’m commuting 5 days a week and I’m wondering what the cheapest options would be for parking. Should I by a permit? If so where? Should I depend on the meters?

Is there a free lot I could park in then take the bus to campus and if I ever needed it depend on the meters?

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u/T-DogDaGoat — 7 days ago
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Anybody using the SEED Scholarship (free in-state tuition for first 3 years)?

What has the experience been like? Did you enjoy the first two years (earning an associate's degree at DelTech or other participating in-state colleges)? How smoothly did the transfer to UD happen, both academically and socially?

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u/jawn317 — 9 days ago
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Course Waitlists?

Hi, im an incoming freshman and im on waitlist for a genetics course (bisc 303) because i cleared the other bio classes from my ap scores. the class says it has 50 seats and 9 people on waitlist. What are my odds of getting the class, and if I dont what am i supposed to do?

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u/Ally_P0tat0 — 8 days ago
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can i change my class times?

I was wondering if i could change my class times on my schedule. Times for my classes are close together and i only have like 10-15 minutes between my classes

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u/Own-Representative32 — 7 days ago
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Flock Camera

Oh no really hope the flock camera doesn't get hit with a lazer, shovel, or angle grinder

u/Inside_Ad1935 — 11 days ago
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Did anyone get more than $15,000 per year for oos merit?

I got my merit bumped to $30,000 and it makes no sense to me because I haven’t seen anyone else get this.

The closest I saw to this amount were the “discho” scholarships where their tier III gets $26,000 per year.

Online in the UD website it was told the max oos anyone can ever get is $15,000 per year and the only way to break this cap is being invited to the discho scholarship weekend.

But I was never invited or was aware of this. I am scared that this was a glitch and my scholarship is taken away. If this is true then I can’t afford UD anymore and have to go somewhere else so please I need someone to clarify.

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u/Tactical-69 — 10 days ago
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Can I swap to a different section of the same course without fees after the drop/add period?

Basically the title. I recently got accepted into a 4+1 program and discovered that my capstone class will no longer fulfill the Second Writing requirement for my major. I’m currently taking a history course this summer that is designed as a second writing course for all sections, but I am not currently in the official second writing section.

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u/Logical_Survey5257 — 10 days ago
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How do I get released from dorm housing contract?

I made the mistake of missing the deadline to be released from the housing contract and now I’m stuck with the lease for my apartment along with a $10,000 triple suite that I don’t want to live in. What can I do to get myself out of this situation???? I’m desperate

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u/Scarlet_DolphinYT — 12 days ago
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HELP WITH MY DORM ROOM!

Moving into George Rees Hall and cannot find details of the height and width of furniture so I can buy the correct things. Does anyone know:

  1. What height risers I should buy if I want a raised bed? How high do people usually make their beds?

  2. What height bed skirt?

  3. How wide are the desks and dressers so I can buy desk shelving and a vanity mirror?

  4. Any other details or definite things people have loved in their room

Thank you so much…I’m lost right now other than my comforter stuff!

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u/Whatareyouamaroon — 10 days ago
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Built a free AI résumé reviewer as a side project — would love feedback from UD students

I'm an econ student here at UD and wanted to build a résumé tool to help assets me in creating a tailored résumé, so I spent the last few months building my own.

It's called CosignResume — you paste your résumé, tell it 
your target role or industry, and it gives you a scored breakdown with 
specific line-by-line rewrites, keyword match for your 
target industry, and a coaching chat you can ask for follow-up 
questions. LinkedIn rewrite too. Free, no signup required.

Live at cosignresume.com — would genuinely love brutal 
honest feedback from people actually job hunting or 
preparing for internship season.

What's working, what's missing, what would make you 
actually use this regularly?
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u/Olsco28 — 12 days ago